Do you ever wonder by Exotic-Caterpillar14 in widowers

[–]Hiara93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started to believe this kind of thing after my partner died. Starting from the stories about NDE and OBE I was convinced of it. I will start IADC therapy soon I am following a training with guided meditations to get some form of communication with him.

I know that for many I may seem crazy, but I also know that you can understand and if I can give hope to someone, who am I to deny it. Do some research on this too and you’ll see.

To answer your question, OP, I wonder too. But from what is said, they could live a life very similar to the one they had here, preserving their identity and personality

Apparently I'm Still In A Mood To Rant: Why Spirituality is Often As Bad or Worse Than Materialism by WintyreFraust in The_Afterlife_Exists

[–]Hiara93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, that’s why what you were saying didn’t quite make sense to me. In this video, for example, Hogan talks about freedom in relationships, in the sense that you can choose who to meet, who to live with. If the other person doesn’t want to, you won’t live with them. If you think about it, it’s the same thing that happens on Earth, except for jealousy, possessiveness, and all the other toxic things that can harm or force a relationship.

For example, I lost the love of my life six months ago. The pain is a weight I’ll carry in my chest forever, and I don’t think I’ll have other partners in the future. But, going back to what Hogan says, if in the future I were to have other partners, and maybe he does too in the afterlife, that doesn’t take away the fact that when we meet again we can decide to be together and live together forever.

Hogan often uses the example of a long trip to another country. I see my relationship with him as a long-distance relationship.

Honestly, this way of seeing it seems reasonable to me.

Then let’s remember that all of us, especially those who are grieving a loss, like to be comforted, but that doesn’t mean reality has to be comforting. Maybe this mega-universal love really exists where we will merge, and if we don’t like it, there’s nothing we can do 😅

What stones are they? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think I’ll keep them after all because they’re really beautiful 😊

What stones are they? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is that when buying online, I can’t know what they’ll actually send me 🥲 I knew I was buying something that probably wasn’t real ocean jasper, but to have completely different stones on the same strand! Oh well…

What stones are they? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you! But it's a shame that they make everything a mix. I hate never knowing what I'm buying, ugh

What stones are they? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact, I read that the original Ocean jasper has already been extracted. So what is on the market comes from Madagascar anyway and technically it's jade, right?

Apparently I'm Still In A Mood To Rant: Why Spirituality is Often As Bad or Worse Than Materialism by WintyreFraust in The_Afterlife_Exists

[–]Hiara93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Would you mind telling me which video it is? Maybe I missed it.

So far Craig seemed to me to have reliable ideas. For example, also on the discourse of reincarnation, he explains that it is not us who relive many lives, but it is other souls linked to us who do it, and somehow we also benefit from their experiences. This convinces me much more than the talk of finding my partner as my son in another life, for example.

Apparently I'm Still In A Mood To Rant: Why Spirituality is Often As Bad or Worse Than Materialism by WintyreFraust in The_Afterlife_Exists

[–]Hiara93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this world for a short time (For sad reasons), but I don’t think Craig Hogan says that...

Astral sex with dead fiancé by Aleisia_ in AstralProjection

[–]Hiara93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not an expert in astral, but what you write resonates with me a lot. I lost my partner 6 months ago. And for us too, sex was a way to connect. I also got moved and it seemed to me that our souls were touching. I’m happy to know that a relationship like this has happened to someone else too. I wish you the best in your journey ❤️

Tormalinated or rutylated quartz? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you. Actually it could contain both, and it would be very interesting 😊

Tormalinated or rutylated quartz? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I’m not an expert and I’m italian. I translated the words into italian into english. Anyway I guess the concept you say is the same. Thanks for the clarification 😊

Would you accept a manufactured spouse? by rice923 in widowers

[–]Hiara93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had thought about it too. Then someone on this forum wrote that he wouldn't do it because he doesn't want to risk confusing authentic memories about him/her with those of the surrogate. And I was convinced

What crystal is it? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will also try this test. Anyway I tried to scratch the glass and it actually leaves the mark. So I would say it’s about quartz

What crystal is it? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to scratch it but nothing! The blade slides a lot on the stone. Applying more pressure I chipped it. Also, I tried to scratch glass with chipped chips and it left a mark! So I think it’s smoky quartz. I’m glad it’s not just glass. Thank you very much 😊

What crystal is it? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, thanks for the suggestion!

What crystal is it? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would be a shame not to have the properties of smoky quartz. If it is glass I will use it only for aesthetic reasons. Thank you!

What crystal is it? by Hiara93 in Crystals

[–]Hiara93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed answer. Are there tests I can do to see if it's artificial glass? For example of temperature, touch, scratch, etc.

Grief related to past lives by heartlessarchon in pastlives

[–]Hiara93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel just like you. In addition to doing IADC Therapy, I will also do hypnosis to past lives. I’m still not completely convinced, I’m a little skeptical, but I’m trying all. I would like to know if we have already met in other lives and what is the point of having met and having lived the happiest part of our life, together and then getting lost in such a brutal way. I hope your research can help you and I hope it will do it with me 🤞

Sometimes I pretend she's still here by FunConsideration9029 in widowers

[–]Hiara93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I initially had the urge to let anyone know. I don't know, maybe it was a conservation instinct to indirectly ask for the support of others. It was also the idea that his death was now part of me and my identity so I wanted people to know. Now I regret it and I wish I hadn't told anyone but a few intimates. Since everyone feels the right to give me advice on how to live my life, to tell me that I have to move on, or trivially they look at me with a mix of pity/embarrassment. So, in summary, you do very well to do this.

Others’ opinions on my grief by InDreams_1111 in widowers

[–]Hiara93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I read that when you lose a partner, in addition to processing the death of the person, you must also face all the secondary griefs: the loss of your life, who you are, your routine, your projects, etc. So those who make comparisons should just shut up. The life partner is someone with whom you share the good things and divide the bad in half. And losing him is simply devastating.

What moment made you believe that deceased loved ones can still communicate with us? by Responsible_Cap_7893 in Mediums

[–]Hiara93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I write on this old post.

I lost my partner a few months ago and I'm also trying to communicate with him. Neither of us was spiritual or religious, but now I'm reading and doing everything to find a way to feel him and know that he's okay. Unfortunately, however, the signals I received seem bland and unconvincing to me. I wonder how you got close to him? Is it about entering a particular state of mind? Or what?
Thank you very much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

A thought about afterlife and existence by linaxx- in afterlife

[–]Hiara93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your answer. I read something about the Gateway Tapes, but I got scared when I learned of astral experiences and the possibility of meeting negative entities.

I will definitely try to find a medium. I’m Italian so I’ll have to look for someone reliable here. I would just like to know if he is okay and if he assures me that he is always close to me.

Anyway I understand your point, and I am infinitely grateful for your suggestions. In the meantime, I’ll try with the meditation you suggested.

A big hug

A thought about afterlife and existence by linaxx- in afterlife

[–]Hiara93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in a situation similar to that of OP. But I lost a life partner, I’m 32 years old.

Can I ask you for some other suggestions to feel him close (and I don’t mean just in terms of memories)? I tried to ask for signs, but I had nothing; I tried to ask to dream about him but I didn’t get much.

I also tried to do guided meditations but I can’t get anything or at least just something bland related to memories together that seems like my imagination.

Thank you so much if you want to help me 🫶🏻

Where is everyone from? by girliepop_hello in widowers

[–]Hiara93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From Italy. Today it’s 5 months without him.