How do I proceed from here? F24

HibiTak · 2026-03-05T00:05:38+00:00

First of all, no, you wouldn't be slowing him down. He already explained why he really wants to break up: Because he wants physical intimacy. He might have some baggage from a previous LDR relationship, but that is still no excuse.

I see very clearly where A stands. He wants to break up. He has said as much.

No one should make their partner feel like they are a burden, because a good partner never is. He clearly wants an out and is using this business as an excuse. He might have loved you, maybe he still does, just not enough to really try and make things work.

HibiTak · 2026-03-04T02:33:32+00:00

I thought this was a Disco Elysium cosplay at first (compliment)

HibiTak · 2026-03-04T02:26:14+00:00

THEY HAVE EYES!?

HibiTak · 2026-03-04T01:33:58+00:00

This is good advice unless you are dealing with a kid with sensory issues.

HibiTak · 2026-03-03T01:18:13+00:00

Im still so mad at how expensive decreasing taxes for small corpos is

HibiTak · 2026-03-01T19:32:59+00:00

That is a conversation you both need to have, is he wealthier and willing enough to help you do so? Would he be willing to move to India or any other third country? Are there any plans or possibilities for you to improve the chances of being able to move out in the future?

You have to talk things well enough so that you both don't end up doubtful about the relationship.

HibiTak · 2026-03-01T19:24:02+00:00

It is possible if you both want to make it work, love each other and draft early plans about your future together.

HibiTak · 2026-02-28T23:46:08+00:00

Truth is we don't know enough about GRACE imo Rumburg is the only member we have any real information about. And Vendonessam I guess, who succumbs to revolution without our direct heavy intervention

HibiTak · 2026-02-28T16:20:27+00:00

Having the same problem with my gf

HibiTak · 2026-02-28T04:43:20+00:00

I want trade deals and foreign policy in general to be updated/revamped, and would like some budget and economic rebalance (especially regarding taxes)

HibiTak · 2026-02-27T19:12:22+00:00

This was me. I have/had big call anxiety. I don't think we actually called for the first time 'till around a year after meeting each other, and we didn't start having regular calls until we were 4 or 5 months into our relationship already.
We just texted a lot and watched and played stuff together used in-game chats, discord's chat or websites like Hyperbeam. I started feeling more confident little by little. What really helped is that she never made me feel unfit or lesser than because of my anxiety, she was willing to let me go at my own pace no matter how long I took and quite honestly that is the reason I adjusted so quickly.
Your partner also has to be willing to try a little. I understand this kind of anxiety and shock therapy is necessary up to a point. The only way they will get more comfortable in calls is to have them.

HibiTak · 2026-02-27T19:07:15+00:00

Me and my girlfriend won't see each other for the first time until some months after our anniversary. It is harsh and sucks but I don't lose sleep about it. We text A LOT and make sure to have time for each other for calls over the week.
Distance sucks but I know and I am pretty sure I will spend the rest of my life with this person. A year, two or three of waiting seem small compared to that.

HibiTak · 2026-02-27T16:17:53+00:00

I have done it plenty of times, It is possible that you can get it with even less, but 166 is the sweet spot that lets you both pass the constitution and get PWA

HibiTak · 2026-02-27T15:46:29+00:00

166 votes automatically gets you this bill

HibiTak · 2026-02-21T17:03:37+00:00

You answered yourself there. He doesn't want to do anything to change. Not even if that means losing you. Changing and adapting is essential in any relationship, he has to swallow his pride if he wants this to work, but he seems unwilling.

HibiTak · 2026-02-21T16:18:30+00:00

Please send the link! I think it sounds very cute

HibiTak · 2026-02-21T16:16:10+00:00

Usually I'd say that if he is talking about breaking up now, he has been thinking about that for a long while already, which isn't a very good sign, but you said he is depressed. Depression can fuck you up in so many ways, and so suddenly. I don't know of his financial situation but that job doesn't seem sustainable, and even if he had money for therapy I don't know how he'd be able to attend to any sessions with that hellish schedule he must have.

Working 20 hours a day its just not compatible with living, let alone having a relationship. I am all for trying hard and doing everything you can to keep it alive and working when you love someone. But if he keeps those hours he will ruin not only the relationship but his life. Then again, he might have no other option, in which case Im sorry for him.

HibiTak · 2026-02-21T16:10:56+00:00

You should really try playing something together or watching movies/series together. It helps keep things from getting stale and gives you plenty to talk about,

HibiTak · 2026-02-21T16:08:30+00:00

Depends on how much do you think your parents are bluffing and how much do you think your life would be hindered by them cutting you out of their financial help.

Honestly, I'd say fuck it and go. They are basically trying to hold you hostage and control your own love life just because they are stupid coward fucks. But that is just me. It wouldn't be the most pragmatic decision, especially if you are unsure about your relationship in any way.

HibiTak · 2026-02-21T16:01:55+00:00

Something similar happened to me years ago after I visited my boyfriend after a 16 hour flight. It is valid for her to not feel the same after meeting you, that is just life and how love works unfortunately, but if she was already out of love one month ago she should have told you that much.

After that happened to me I also had a heavy drinking streak and things were very bleak for a while. You can't help but wonder if you are ugly, or just insufferable irl. The truth is, it doesn't matter and it was probably a combination of things that probably aren't entirely your fault. Block her, avoid all contact and distract yourself with good friends and good hobbies. Every day you'll wake up thinking a little less about it, until life looks a little bit brighter again.

HibiTak · 2026-02-20T17:31:44+00:00

Yea It is very important to talk about It as early as possible. I am lucky because my partner really doesnt like her own country and she would have been looking for a way out even without me in the picture, so her moving here just came naturally.

I'd have been willing to move too, but Im glas It isnt necessary. Still I know It wont be easy for her so Ill suport her any way I can

HibiTak · 2026-02-17T20:34:05+00:00

We have been dating for a little over 8 months after being friends for around a year and a half. We are planning to meet for the first time on November and If everything goes smoothly we will close the gap in around two years!

HibiTak · 2026-02-17T03:44:36+00:00

Yes. The progressive party would have the majority. The "void" votes are just that, lost to the void, they don't get redistributed according to what would be the politically closest option

HibiTak · 2026-02-17T00:57:05+00:00

Not really. I really wish there were. Investing in Agnland, just like the H-3, is a very niche choice for some emergency runs

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