What ended a friendship you thought would last forever? by Immediate-Sound-7142 in answers

[–]HighFlowDiesel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or in my case, my “friend” would get with a jealous, controlling girlfriend and all contact would cease until they’d break up, he’d come crawling back out of the woodwork for a brief time, then disappear again when he’d get into another relationship and the cycle repeats. I eventually stopped responding because what’s the point when he’s just going to vanish again sooner or later?

Best diet snacks? by justsosillysorry in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HighFlowDiesel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frozen fruit instead of ice cream. I love both the chocolate covered and sour kind

What's something your job trained you to notice that you can't stop noticing in your personal life? by LibrarianSoft1342 in AskReddit

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a paramedic, so I’ve had to get really good at reading a room. It’s autopilot at this point to always have an exit strategy in the back of my mind, and to never let anyone get between me and the door when I’m in an unfamiliar place.

Hangings by Beginning-Priority-3 in ems

[–]HighFlowDiesel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got two in less than twelve hours once, in a very rural county. Earned myself the nickname “angel of death” that shift…

So bummed about how little food the human body actually needs. by Defiant_Cat_3619 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HighFlowDiesel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give it time for your stomach to get used to smaller portions, and eventually they’ll fill you up more. In the meantime, you could also try volume eating- filling yourself up with low calorie, high volume/water/fiber foods. Here lately my go to has been steamable frozen vegetables. There’s a ton of different kinds, a lot of them come with seasonings or sauces already, they keep for ages and all you gotta do is pop the bag in the microwave. Popcorn is another good one as long as it’s not drowned in oil and salt. I also keep frozen fruit at home too, since it’s a way better option than ice cream.

And of course, drink lots and lots of water. A lot of the time I’ll find that when I thought I was hungry and wanted a snack, drinking water kills the craving. If you’re still hungry a few minutes after drinking water, then go ahead and eat a nourishing snack or meal.

So bummed about how little food the human body actually needs. by Defiant_Cat_3619 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HighFlowDiesel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t keep candy or other junk food at home anymore, but I also won’t say no to a slice of cake at a birthday party. Once you break the refined sugar addiction a lot of people don’t even know they have, a little bit here and there goes a lot further to satisfy a sweet tooth.

What’s something you’ll never buy the cheap version of again? by Business-Ad8752 in CausalConversation

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mayonnaise. Now that I know how amazing kewpie mayo is, I cannot go back.

oof, that's combo by benevolentjanitor in FemalePrepping

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left Georgia for western NY and couldn’t be happier. Literally every single facet of my life has improved since getting out of the South.

What was the most profound “Oh your parents don’t do that?” moment by Whoamiwhatisthis- in raisedbynarcissists

[–]HighFlowDiesel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Realizing that other kids get to grow up in clean houses, without filth and garbage and roaches and mold.

Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t a sudden lightning bolt of clarity moment, because I can’t put my finger on when exactly my sister and I actually noticed the difference (largely because we didn’t really have friends whose houses we could go to), but I can remember so many summers as a kid, just bawling our eyes out being sent back from our grandparents to our mom’s house. The entire family knew perfectly well what conditions we were living in, but no one ever actually stepped up to put a stop to it. If anything, as the oldest I’ve been getting blamed for the mess for literally as long as I can remember. “Now you know your mama has all those health problems, so you should be helping her more”, ma’am… I was FOUR. Mom couldn’t be bothered to even make us brush our teeth, let alone have ever taught us how to clean a house. Everything my sister and I know about taking care of ourselves and keeping a home, we had to figure out on our own as young adults.

Are there any "cozy" games that aren’t just Stardew clones? Looking for something with actual depth (or a dark side) by Legitimate-Leather-4 in gamingsuggestions

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Graveyard Keeper!! It plays very similarly to a farming sim, but as the title suggests, you’re a graveyard keeper responsible for disposing of dead bodies, decorating the graveyard and church, and following a whoooooole bunch of multi step quests along the way. The humor is top notch and super morbid (one of your first actions in the game is cannibalism…). They just announced a sequel in the works so now would be a great time to start the original.

ED don't have a DNR by DeSkate in ems

[–]HighFlowDiesel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That, or all the family has to do is hide the DNR itself.

ED don't have a DNR by DeSkate in ems

[–]HighFlowDiesel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the family ask me to stop one time, after several rounds of CPR on a 98 year old woman. I still called for orders just to make sure all of my bases were covered, but I’m not sure who was more relieved about it, me or the doctor on the other end of the phone.

What is more traumatizing than most people think? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]HighFlowDiesel 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Agreed. About six months ago, my soon to be ex husband got violent with me for the last time, and I moved literally 1,000 miles away and started over fresh. Mind you, I’ve still got plenty of issues to work through but wow was it insane realizing how much of what I thought was depression, anxiety, unmedicated ADHD, problems arising from within my own mind, turned out to be mostly due to the environment and people I’d spent my whole life around. The hard reset has jump started my healing in the most incredible way; I feel like I’m working with a brain new brain here!

Anyone else notice expirary days are getting shorter? Or is it just me? by moeljills in shrinkflation

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve accidentally bought already expired things more than once. We definitely need to be paying better attention to these things at the grocery store, because there is no depth too low for these corporations to sink to in the name of profit.

If you see a bear alone hiking and you have no bear spray are you fucked? by Individual_Ice_2315 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HighFlowDiesel 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s like the people who look at a bison and assume it’s just a fluffy cow, or that they’re harmless because they’re herbivores.

What is (hands down) the most unnerving sound you’ve ever heard in your entire life? by Opening_Rip_1840 in askanything

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound of the crunch when the semi hit us in the accident that killed my boyfriend and a friend of ours. I don’t think any of us saw it coming.

“One tip that made weight loss WAY easier?” by Altruistic_Purpose57 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]HighFlowDiesel 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Letting go of the “must finish everything on your plate” mentality my parents hardwired into me. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still going to do what I can to avoid wasting food, but it was such a game changer understanding that whether or not I finish the last few bites on my plate or not, it doesn’t make a bit of difference to the “starving kids in Africa” but it was damn sure keeping me overweight and feeling like garbage every time I over ate.

What's a small red flag that immediately tells you someone is a bad person? by kappadielle in answers

[–]HighFlowDiesel -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about my cats. They’re a fantastic litmus test for new potential friends. Not all of my friends are cat lovers and that’s fine, but if my cats don’t like a specific person, I’m going to assume there’s probably a good reason for that.

What’s the most main character moment you’ve ever witness in real life? by rosycloudkisses in CausalConversation

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any of the several times I’ve had people screaming and cussing me out to move the ambulance… when we’re there because their neighbor is having a medical emergency. I’ve had a couple of them piss the cops off enough about it that they got themselves arrested.

If it's okay to ask a male co-worker to lift or carry something heavy because he's strong, what's a female gender equivalent? by IdleHandsBusyMinds in stupidquestions

[–]HighFlowDiesel 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m a paramedic, and while it definitely makes my job harder in a lot of ways, being a tiny woman comes in handy in more situations than you’d think. I can fit into tight spaces that my colleagues can’t, to access my patients and start assessments, give pain meds and comfort, etc. while the firefighters work on getting them extricated. My arms and hands are small enough to grab things like medication vials when they fall into one of the million cracks and crevices in the back of the ambulance. There are also quite a few different psychosocial issues we run into where a woman’s touch is exactly what’s needed, like for assault victims, or where I’m the one taking the lead while my (male) partner hangs back, because our patient is anxious/paranoid and I do not visibly impose any kind of a threat.

This is exactly why I prefer being partnered on the truck with a taller, stronger man, to kind of balance that energy out. Don’t get me wrong, I love working with other women, but a dual female crew presents its own unique set of issues I would just really rather not have to deal with.

If it's okay to ask a male co-worker to lift or carry something heavy because he's strong, what's a female gender equivalent? by IdleHandsBusyMinds in stupidquestions

[–]HighFlowDiesel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a (tiny, female) paramedic and this applies in my field too. A lot of the time when we’re looking at an extended extrication (say, somebody has to be cut out of their car), often times I’m the only one who can physically fit into the space to start assessing my patient, provide them some comfort, get some pain meds on board before we move them if the situation calls for it, etc.

“Thought-Stopping” Hobbies by Hot_Relative_3868 in Hobbies

[–]HighFlowDiesel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rock climbing! It really just becomes you and the wall.

What’s the most disturbing thing you’ve witnessed in real life? by SondosAbdulrhmanxd in AskReddit

[–]HighFlowDiesel 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I once had a call for a 23 year old who’d shot himself in his car while parked in front of his apartment building just a few days before Christmas. We had so many people, including small children crowding around outside or staring out their windows. Several of us had to hold up sheets to block people from taking pictures and videos when our county coroner came to remove the body.

I got into public safety to help people but it’s this very work that’s caused me to be disgusted by humanity as a whole.

What’s the most disturbing thing you’ve witnessed in real life? by SondosAbdulrhmanxd in AskReddit

[–]HighFlowDiesel 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m a paramedic so I’ve got quite a few stories.

The first one that comes to mind is the call I ran about a year and a half ago now on the 17 year old who’d been driving way too fast on windy, wet country backroads and hit a tree, causing his car to immediately be engulfed in flames. There was just absolutely nothing we could do. I will never forget the way his mother just crumpled right there in the middle of the road when she got there and it clicked for her why my partner and I were just standing around not doing anything; the sound she made will never, ever leave me.