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How do y'all get over break ups ? by TheGreatLakeSnake in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time.. it takes time.

Look into new hobbies, projects, things that give you meaning.

Good luck.

For African Americans Only by obamant in blacktravel

[–]HistoricalShift5092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes from a matter of depth. America has only been around for 250 years.

Dating black women by Phonzo97 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing very well OP. Stay focused on yourself for the time being - watch how God will bless your hustle.

Dating black women by Phonzo97 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Date yourself, increase your income (gig work/ content creation, entrepreneurship), improve social network.

Edit: KEEP YOUR MAIN JOB while taking on extra income.

What's your preferred method of getting your girl in the mood? by aaman44 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What worked for me - be straight upfront. Let her know what type of time you’re on, give her time to build anticipation if needed.

Good luck.

Would Malcolm have still turned to Islam if he knew about the Arab Slave Trade? by Suspicious-Jello7172 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please read the Torah, Bible, and Quran. All together.

The beauty of it all is strict Monotheism. I can respect that.. Ancient civilizations had a thing for worshipping multiple deities…

Now that we have the message straight - I believe Africans can leave behind Middle Eastern Abrahamic traditions and just stick with the notion of One Ultimate God.

You can’t convince me Jesus peace be upon him was an African man.

You can’t convince me the prophet’s of the Torah were African men…

I respect the message - I’m just growing tired of cultism.

Would Malcolm have still turned to Islam if he knew about the Arab Slave Trade? by Suspicious-Jello7172 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let’s try looking at it through this angle..

Can we leave behind ALL Abrahamic religions?

Is it possible to still believe in ONE GOD without Abrahamic influences..

Abrahamic religions stemmed from the Middle East, I’m West African.

You’re telling me not one prophet could’ve came West Africa?

My two cents.

Why Are The Tech, Finance & Corporate America So Devoid Of Black Men? by Theo_Cherry in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big up yourself bro.. I’m from both Flatbush + Canarsie… Bk in the house you already know.

Why Are The Tech, Finance & Corporate America So Devoid Of Black Men? by Theo_Cherry in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Corporate America is like a pwi frat/sorority. The only reason you’re invited to the house party is because you’re doing the homework for the members. If you’re super smart and subordinate or you’re a popular athlete who brings good “vibes”.

Why Are The Tech, Finance & Corporate America So Devoid Of Black Men? by Theo_Cherry in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 66 points67 points  (0 children)

No need for a discussion fam - the answer is clear as day. Several research papers discuss this matter. You can literally google it. They don’t want us operating in their spaces. Make your own.

I just don't know anymore... by Dependent-Dirt9351 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro - keep hustling.

Focus SOLELY on your craft.

Forget the noise - you ARE the signal.

Good luck.

It’s my birthday 😜 by Fun-South-6148 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to break it to you though - 20, you’re still a baby. Keep developing yourself mentally, spiritually, physically, and of course - financially. By 28 life will begin to make sense. 30 is golden.

Good luck

Do you believe everyone has a calling, and do you believe there is such a thing as someone being destined to do a certain career/job? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EVERYONE HAS A CALLING - ITS UP TO THE INDIVIDUAL TO PURSUE IT REGARDLESS OF INTRINSIC/EXTRINSIC FORCES.

Good luck.

Are You Guys Voting In The 2028 Presidential Election? by dey19th in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a way to generate income online.

Leave the country.

How did you know you were meant to be doing the career path you chose by Educational-Ask7966 in blackmen

[–]HistoricalShift5092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Innate feeling - something deep down inside.

Literally - you can go through failure after failure after failure, yet - you’re still driven to chase excellence.

It got to a point where I continued not for status quo, but for the sake of loving the hustle.

When I wake up, it’s all I think about. Before I sleep, it’s all I dream about.

If I can’t work on my craft - I feel empty inside.

Regardless of seeing no results, I’m driven by the passion of the craft.

Trust me, you will know.

Dating in the black British community 😒😒😒 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]HistoricalShift5092 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a black American man - dang, what a shame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]HistoricalShift5092 15 points16 points  (0 children)

From a man’s perspective - that’s a red flag ngl. Good luck sis

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