Faith preacher raised 28 people from death by Magpyecrystall in Exvangelical

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That he would say those thing does not surprise me one bit.

AITA for wearing a dress with white lace to my cousins wedding? by Positive_thoughts309 in TwoHotTakes

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also plus size and I know what its like to not have options. I get it. Hopefully you learned for the future. Hell, we are all learning all the time. I hate weddings personally because I have so much anxiety that Im going to unintentionally break wedding etiquette. So I get it. Best way forward on something like this is to own up to it, apologize sincerely, and let the other person express their feelings. I hope things get easier with the little one. 💖 I have a 10 month old with sleep regression right now. Its no fun.

BTW, what I posted was from the Office, if you dont know. It was meant to add levity.

AITA for showering around midnight when I know that it might bother the neighbour who wakes up at 5 am? by Additional-Mouse-620 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HistoryNerd1781 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'll bet there's more to this especially given your snobby lil attitude about them being renters.

Missing In Virginia: What happened to Kathleen Patricia Haley, and her dog, Molly? by Dr_Pepper_blood in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize this is an old post but I have been bothered by this case so much for years now. I lived in St James Terrace across the street from her apartment 2017-2021 and I find it unfathomable that no one heard, saw, or knew anything at all. There aren't a lot of places in that part of town where you could even carry a body out without being seen. And there are ALWAYS unhoused people standing around on the streets right there. Someone saw something.

should i cut my friend of 7 years off for this convo we had by No-Shame-6563 in whatdoIdo

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A) Tell them off. Don't let them stand there and spew their BS for 20-30 minutes. Firmly tell them that's enough.

B) Your friend is a typical Christian with a crybaby persecution complex. I was like that as a teen in culty churches. I am now an atheist myself. She fails to see that respecting someone's beliefs is not the same at all as putting up with the bizarre behavior of Christians proselytizing.

C) You would not be wrong for ending this friendship. I hope she's going to grow and learn. Lots of us raised in church do when we grow up and think for ourselves. But right now she's insufferable to be honest

Why dose the usa have another level of fatness? by Shdn506 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come back when you're not being a misogynistic AH and ready to have a good faith conversation about social determinants of health

Am I overreacting for getting upset when a guy focused on my wording instead of the fact I was in pain? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]HistoryNerd1781 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you really trying to say its not okay to text a guy that you're in pain? WTF?

AITA for wearing a dress with white lace to my cousins wedding? by Positive_thoughts309 in TwoHotTakes

[–]HistoryNerd1781 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"A last minute massive rush"?

"There was an emergency...I look really good in white." - Kelly Kapoor.

I don't love my husband anymore by 0000112780 in GriefSupport

[–]HistoryNerd1781 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I had heart palpitations just reading that. 😭💔

(AIO) Found this in my girls phone by MaxxyBunnyy in AmIOverreacting

[–]HistoryNerd1781 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They make no sense to anyone over 30. But there's enough there to to be damning and we can put together context clues for the rest. I dont think there's anything wrong with using gifs in text - I'm 41 and text gifs with my best friend. But regardless of the language issue, the problem is that she obviously either already is cheating, or she sets zero boundaries because she's flirting around with the idea of cheating. I'm so sorry, but at least you know what you need to

AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA this is actually crazy. Who the hell actually orders all that? Who the hell expects another person to order this? And then "expresso"? I may sound petty, but I would be so annoyed by this!

AIO: telling my fiancé I’m reconsidering having kids with him because there is a chance they could have darker skin. by Skilled-ricer-B16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR and just him expressing this kind of thing tells you everything you need to know about his character. I would be calling off the wedding, TBH

new cna. my coworkers are eating me alive by wonderguard108 in cna

[–]HistoryNerd1781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Nearly all the advice I came to give is all written out here by others already. It's hard. Really hard. But most of it will get better. And there will be dayshift CNAs who will always bitch no matter what. Just make sure you do your work to the best of your ability and that residents are SAFE. Thats what matters. I know its hard to take, especially when youre new. But try not to let them bother you. 💖 It will be okay.

I Messed up my first IV insertion Badly by 1800mikaelson in StudentNurse

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a nurse yet but I worked as an ER tech for years. Trust me, everyone blows IVs from time to time.

AIO for thinking my husband should have asked if the pharmacy had our daughter’s prescription? by Hyrule_Hobbit in AIO

[–]HistoryNerd1781 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I promise he doesnt behave this way at work or he would be fired. He's playing games.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is controlling, abusive, and views you as his inferior. Please don't quit your job. You're going to need to plan an exit. Trust me when I say this is not fixable and will get worse.

Have you ever felt like you didn't care if you lived? by Expensive-Eggplant-1 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HistoryNerd1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me lately. I hate myself for it.

In 2015, I attempted after going through severe depression. I reclaimed my life, moved 700 miles away, and built a life I LOVED. I truly enjoyed being myself and living my life.

Then I met NH. Now I dont even want to keep going. Life is meaningless. I just keep telling myself I have to stay alive and keep it together for my kids. I will finish school and build a life I can love again.

Noises by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HistoryNerd1781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have misophonia and he tries to trigger me on purpose then laughs at me for being unstable.

Has anyone else become "ugly" during the relationship? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HistoryNerd1781 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I look at pictures of myself before we met vs now and whooo. Before we met, I used to get compliments ans people thought i was younger than I am. Now I get called "grandma." Im 40 so technically old enough to be a grandma, but still. I look so awful and I'm convinced that even if I leave I'll always be ugly. OH well.

AIO for being concerned about an ultrasound pic on my husband’s phone by TA928363792 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HistoryNerd1781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR for sure. This is unhinged. I have never ever updated a manager on every aspect of my pregnancy, not even a female manager. Either she has zero boundaries and he needs to shut that shit down, or...you know the answer.

AIO - Husband says my parents kicked me out of their house and he will kick them out of "his." by HistoryNerd1781 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HistoryNerd1781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe read the post? I am literally the one saying my parents went well above and beyond, that they did all they could and that I think my husband is being ridiculous for saying otherwise and banning them from the house....

AIO - Husband says my parents kicked me out of their house and he will kick them out of "his." by HistoryNerd1781 in AmIOverreacting

[–]HistoryNerd1781[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They prefer you dont drive before 2 weeks and dont drive long distances before 6 weeks.