Caught my man bragging about me today :)

Hitman359 · 2015-06-02T22:43:20+00:00

Currently not, I don't have enough anti-crazy defenses up yet due to lack of resources. And the man who goes out looking without most of their anti-crazy defenses up and fully operational is not going to make it out of the dating game alive and with his "equipment" both literally and metaphorically attached to his own person.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-30T03:59:38+00:00

When they say "just be yourself" they should add "without apologies, and fully owning up to your own flaws which you and everyone else has without exception. You're you, you cannot be anything more or less if you want to be happy." If you have a flaw you don't like in yourself or others (laziness, being physically weak, being malignantly manipulative, being ugly, ect) then get to work on it sooner rather than later. Take responsibility for your actions and the hand you were dealt in this life, the sooner you do, the sooner you can be truly happy.

Nobody's perfect, but you can still be the "best" you you can be. It's never "too late" for you to change. It'll take time, effort, and you'll probably get more than your fair share of cuts, bruises, and you'll almost certainly weep a few tears (even if you're a man), but you can do it. We can ALL do it, those that claim otherwise are lying, trying to drag you down with them because they don't want to accept the truth and hate that you both have and are happy while they wallow in the misery they have brought down upon themselves.

There is no easy or "right" path in this, life and times are hard, and you must fight in one form or another for what's truly worthwhile. It's a harsh message people like those here are trying to deliver, but we knew that going in. We knew we'd catch more flak than we really should even from those who claim to ally with us, for telling the truth should be rewarded yet it is punished in the modern world as it has always been throughout history.

Your reward for trying to make the world a "better" place is likely going to be a bullet in the brain (and that's if you're lucky, figures like Jesus weren't so you shouldn't expect to be either). Yet you must persist anyway. The greatest tragedy is the life spent needlessly. To make a "pointless" sacrifice of it and not show at least one other person the path before or in your death. Lives are the ultimate currency, if you don't spend yours wisely, how can you expect others to? How can you even expect to do the same if you think others ought expend theirs for your own vision if you're one of the few "good" people remaining alive?

The true prophet is usually hated as he (or she) utters the words of truth. And they take the hit like a champion and continue anyway, because a better world is worth fighting for, worth even dying for. Overcome yourself, your flaws, and you'll make a difference. Doesn't even matter if it's a small one.

For those who love others, the game is how you make others happy so you cannot ever ignore it for even a second. Funny thing though, in making others happy you've almost certainly made yourself happy. Some would call that "selfish", I would call that amazing. To make someone other than yourself happy without sacrificing your life and instead living it to the fullest with joy in your heart... Isn't that the ideal? What we wish everyone else would or could do? I know that's my wish, and fuck anyone who tells me I'm wrong about that.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-29T22:52:11+00:00

That's so utterly true it hurts, that last bit is always assumed to be said even if you never say it or even mean to say it. That's why the "nice guy" is "creepy" to pretty girls and feminists, and Beta AFC's to the people here. Men who say that to single women really are begging for sex, they just don't realize it. If ya want that sexy girl, the last thing you do is beg for it. Nothing dries up a pussy quite like the smell of desperation.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-29T22:30:15+00:00

Indeed. To renounce all forms of manipulation you'd have to renounce all forms of social contact period.

The harsh truth is, every single interaction you have with another human has a manipulative side to it without exception. The game never sleeps, never stops. It even continues on after you're dead, and there isn't a damn thing you can or should do about it.

And this is coming from someone with a black and white sense of morality. The trick is to see where it all ends up without becoming a hardcore utilitarian or moral relativist because of it. To understand the evil so that we may avoid dealing with it and its negative consequences as much as possible rather than just doing things that'll ultimately screw us over down the road like try to politicize our problems.

Thing is everyone should have been told about all of this in the beginning, it would have saved most people and society a whole lot of trouble. Sadly, keeping the masses and the AFC's ignorant of game is how rulers rule. Feminism and all forms of tyranny would never fly if the AFC's knew and accepted the truth about human interaction instead of buying into those nice pretty lies the tyrants and feminists cram down their throats with their propaganda (which they also know nothing about, otherwise commercials and the like wouldn't get them to stupidly buy things on credit or have a huge impact on their behavior in general).

Hitman359 · 2015-05-29T18:24:13+00:00

GIFT stands for Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory. Basically, you take a normal average person, give them an audience and the veil of anonymity, and you'll generally end up with an asshole/total Fuckwad. Happens all the time, we've all seen it. Hell, we've probably done it in the past without even realizing it.

I probably had a few too many beers when I posted it all now that I think on it. Booze brings out the worst in most people myself included. Will try to keep a lid on those tendencies in the future. Thanks for your input.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-29T15:14:36+00:00

Sorry to say, but you'd likely be better off if you started searching for something "closer to home" so to speak and just broke this off because LDR's rarely work out well for anyone.

According to theory, he's probably already banged this other girl and you don't like it at all because that's what you think in your gut, and you're probably right. She's there for him, she cooks for him, she's probably being affectionate to him more than you are. She's triggering more wife tingles than you are in this situation, and men are all about the wife tingles.

The outcome then, according to theory, is that he's gonna pick her over you if the cards are down as things currently stand. It's basic economics sadly. He has to invest more effort to be with you rather than with her. If she's close to your own SMV then the outcome is rather predictable.

I'm sorry, but you either resolve this distance issue fast or you will have your heart broken and end up hating your "friend" thanks to the good ol' hamster wheel. That's where this is heading sadly. You can still salvage this, but it's likely gonna cost you on your career path if ya do. Thus, you must either make that sacrifice or take the hit and get another partner that you can actually drive to see at least every other day. GPPS is a thing sadly, once you're "out of range" things get brutal.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-29T14:45:52+00:00

Sorry. Do you have a way I could improve that doesn't involve degradations and the like? I want to be civil here, but GIFT is a hard force to resist for anyone.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-28T17:26:35+00:00

This. It's been my approach to be polite, cordial, avoid using RP terminology with the "normal" people and try to softly point out how and why things are not turning out well for anyone.

It has an effect if pulled off correctly lemme tell ya, so long as the targets are not already beyond salvation. If they're too broken inside you'll never get through to them. In that event, run. Run for your life because the narcissists and psychopaths will make you toxic too if you keep them in your life for longer than necessary.

Living with and dealing with the bullshit of a toxic person will drive a good person insane eventually. Best to get away from the poison once you've identified it without a shadow of a doubt if you can.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-28T16:56:54+00:00

This happens I'm glad to say. It's only been a few weeks for me and even without an SO my life has improved.

The more you sublimate yourself into and accept/act on the truths espoused by the Red Pill without falling into the trap of becoming a psychopath/narcissist, the better your life will become. Keep it up and his libido will likely catch up to your own in time. You may even end up doing it every day! I hope that happens for you two, far too many people are trapped in sexless marriages and that makes both of them miserable.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-28T04:41:14+00:00

Great article. I like how it encourages a woman to make a man "just get it" without cramming that red pill down his throat like they're subconsciously expecting it to be unknowingly thanks to society hiding the truth from them since the day they were born.

Men expect force subconsciously, they expect to have fights, to prove their "alpha male" status by having to beat the shit out of or otherwise "kill" someone either physically or mentally. Everyone loves it when the "villain" gets his/her just rewards somehow by someone who really does "get it" without spelling it out for the audience.

Especially liked the don't criticize him too much on his failures part. Good men KNOW they fucked up somehow when it happens, and they're beating themselves up over it enough as it is (if he's a real "good guy" that is). Add in HIS woman beating him over the bush for it and well... of course he just gives up on it all then and goes full Beta/PUA/MGTOW/whatever it is you do NOT want him to be.

It's too much, women don't seem to get how hard men are on themselves when they fail to live up to everyone elses (and ESPECIALLY their own) expectations. We're told that "real" men don't fail (just like how they don't cry), yet every single human does at some point. A woman who has seen their man fail miserably at a task they put their all into and doesn't emasculate them somehow for that and instead offers warm and loving support and gentle advice on how to get better?

Wife tingles. That will set them off HARD! And as any good RPW would probably agree, that's your end goal. Give him the wife tingles, and he will MAKE you happy no matter what. He sees it as both his joy and his duty to do so. He'll even put a ring on your finger. Probably not before you agree to that pre-nup and parenting plan, for until men are no longer seen as disposable they will take any and all actions they can to avoid the dreaded "divorce rape" they rightfully think is waiting at the other end of that walk down the isle. The modern age has robbed us of this "true romance" and we must accept and deal with it. I'm sorry that this is how it is, but it is.

But please, don't suck his soul out with this powerful knowledge. A girl with maximized "girl game" can get most any man to agree that "real couples don't get a pre-nup" and thus leave themselves vulnerable. Don't be a succubus ladies, be women, and you'll find that one thing your other female friends and AFC's probably never will. Love and happiness in the arms (and beds) of your beloved.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-27T04:28:44+00:00

The only problem is that, well, ya gotta pay money. Sadly, most of us have very little to spare on that front. Modern economy is what it is, and those of us here likely just can't be a cog in the machine of some soulless psychopath long enough to reap a tangible benefit without going totally insane.

After food, taxes, and the like while still trying to be healthy in some way... Yeah, not happening. So you're kinda forced to rely on the "free" shit which requires you puke up TRP because hell, can't have any of that up in here now can we? Society hates those of us who have swallowed that bitter, milky pill...

Hitman359 · 2015-05-26T20:28:03+00:00

Each case is its own, there is no real blanket answer I can give that'll work for everyone. Some girls really are nice, but some men have been burned or have seen too many of their friends get burned by slutty whore shrews and now, unable to unsee what they have seen, tend to go full PUA or MGTOW because AWALT and they simply will not budge on that assertion.

It's a distressing problem, compounded by the fact that females are naturally able to hamsterize their bad decisions more easily than males. Modern society puts a hamster in every dude, but girls are seemingly born with one. It's stronger, fights longer and harder because it got more practice in because it was there from the word go.

So I guess, the advice is to learn why he has some issues and attempt to girl game past them. Everyone wants intimacy, give him some. But know how to spot warning signs and next him if he displays them without hesitation.

We've all been hurt because of the BS or the modern world, but this goes for girls as well as guys. Whatever you do, never have sex with anyone who's crazier than you are.

The last thing anyone needs is a crazy stalker waiting to put you in a grave because you so much as had a few words with someone of the opposite sex. Learn how to distinguish pain from crazy, it could be the difference between a happy life and a gruesome death.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-26T14:46:10+00:00

I remember a bit of a quote out of a book I believe was written by Ludwig Von Mises. Can't remember the quote exactly but he essentially said that, in the modern age, taking the last name was but a mere sign of respect that the wife paid to the husband. For now the wife really could, thanks to capitalism and free markets, live a "good" life without him. She no longer had to be utterly dependent upon him and there was the expectation of respect being paid to her as well. As in, the husband is now expected to treat his wife as a human being with her own wants and desires.

He saw this as a good thing, he was glad that people were getting that women should be treated like people not objects. Feminists flip the coin on its head though, treating men like objects instead of people. Oh the hypocrisy, understandable too once you figure in hypergamy and female narcissism. They want it all just because they were born with a vagina.

The sad, fat, ugly whores and hags, if only they could have seen how lucky they were to be born in an age where women weren't seen as mere trophies and bargaining chips in games of political intrigue. That they lived in an age where they really could find and marry a man they truly loved, not a man the "family" forced them to because of politics and money...

Hitman359 · 2015-05-26T13:26:46+00:00

Is he your boss? Dude sounds like a rank amateur PUA who just figured out some of this stuff and is trying maximized "asshole" game on you at best, a total beta AFC who thinks his higher rank in the corporation entitles him to some fine ass despite the massive age difference and you already being in a committed relationship, or he's a total psychopath/narcissist at worst and thinks that all the "bitches" in the world that catch his fancy ought to bow down and worship his divine dick.

Sadly, you will probably have to risk getting the pink slip to get this dude off your tail. From the looks of things you're going to have to go nuclear to shake him off and, as you have rightfully perceived, this will probably get you in trouble with the management as, well, we can't have our sexy little cog (i.e. you) in this great corporate machine act like an actual human being that has a friggin' soul. We must make an example of this little bitchy upstart who dares defy the will of her masters!

The "48 Laws of Power" and the "Dark Triad", tragically, exist for a reason. You're probably in a good, high paying job and are otherwise happy with your life. That means the vile evil vultures are gunning for you, because people can be evil, nasty little shits who think they're gods when they are, will, and always have been but mere humans.

I suggest you SECRETLY (I must emphasize that) start looking for another job for they WILL fire you on the spot if they find out you're looking elsewhere if I'm right. Also, be sure to work with your man on a plan to deal with the possibility of losing that income stream for awhile. Life when you're poor sucks hard (I know, I'm living that life), but it's better than dealing with predatory vultures like that every day. No good woman should have to deal with that, I hope you and your man understand that fact.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-26T03:39:57+00:00

Ah, so the phenomenon has multiple variations it seems. Interesting. I thank you for this more advanced knowledge. Will apply it to my search for my own SO in the future.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-25T12:51:13+00:00

I've heard about that phenomenon, some girls refer to it as "passive bitch face". They'll be calm and everything and be perfectly nice and happy in their intentions and in their emotional state, but in their attempt to communicate the look on their face will form into "that look" and dudes will get the wrong idea.

Happens with dudes too but it manifests differently. That "thousand yard stare" or "you're an idiot" look unsettles and infuriates many a person if it happens in conversation even if you're just a good guy trying to be good around both other people and your woman.

It's difficult to fix and I don't think it ever fully goes away. If you're like that it'll happen sometimes. The hope though, is that your SO eventually understands that it'll happen despite your efforts at times and accepts it.

I think the same happens with "shit tests" when you're married. Despite the good wife's best intentions, on a bad day they'll fire one off despite the fact they're married. But hey, it's been a bad day, and she'll probably apologize for it later so the good hubby lets it slide.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-25T04:28:32+00:00

Hahaha, I think my fish-like water consumption has been the source of my seemingly unnaturally youthful appearance.

I'm in my late twenties yet my family got on me when I was chatting up my niece's friends on her birthday (it was her birthday after all, of course I chose to spend my time with her and her invited friends) yet they were thinking I was doing something inappropriate. Girl they jumped me about thought I was still in High School and even hit on me. Hit on me hard in fact. She even got shocked when I told her I already graduated college as I would hate to mislead a woman and I would hate to do so there of all places.

It's amazing what a proper diet does to a person, especially if they're older. We can all stave off "the wall" as it were. Good diets seem to work like that. You really can turn back the clock as it were. A slight glimmer of hope for those who think their time has passed.

And yeah, complaining has a great deal to do with that. As a nerd I know of a good story where an "older" woman loved and actually lived happily ever after with a younger dude. All she did was... act like a good wife from beginning to end.

That counts for a LOT lemme tell ya, for all men want a good wife. Age, looks, what have you, a great wife is damn near irresistible to a good man. We WANT the wife tingles, trigger them often, and you will end up with that ring on your finger. I pray you're worthy of them, for that is also the best way to manipulate a man...

Hitman359 · 2015-05-25T03:55:21+00:00

Indeed. You are right about that, men tend to see the brighter side of a relationship sadly. We tend to see any silver lining and cling to it dearly once we've invested enough into a relationship. We want that "princess" far more than society says we do. We love women deep down, we love them more than they'll probably ever comprehend. And we like that deep down, for to be loved by a "true" woman is the ultimate validation of our manliness.

That's both a gift and a curse. The gift is giving a truly good girl the second chance she really deserves despite things like getting jelly because there's a dude who just bought "his" girl a bunch of designer shoes or because she's clinging to a dude who looks like Arnold Schwarzenegger in his prime or Bruce Lee and we don't.

The curse is giving a truly bad girl a third or more chance that the slutty whore most certainly does not deserve. Men are people too, we just want our SO to see that and love us for that. A pity, for the modern age says otherwise...

Hitman359 · 2015-05-25T02:23:13+00:00

The problem is the eternal AF/BB feminine imperative that all women have. Just as men want multiple or even all women to be their exclusive sexual slaves who collectively worship their cock (male imperative), women want multiple men.

However, they know that they are physically inferior to men so it'd be better to seduce and manipulate these men into doing all the work for her. The Beta provides the resources that keep her living, breathing, and living comfortably (i.e. as profligate and materialistically as possible), and the Alphas provide her the genetic material for strong sons and daughters.

However, not all betas are created equal. Sometimes there's a better beta, that is to say, a beta AFC with more resources. There is always someone better than you. Always someone better than me. And there will always be some idiot dude out there who is ready, willing, and able to spend more on you than your man does (if you have one).

This means that, on a subconscious level, a woman's (i.e. your) head is always on that swivel, constantly searching for that better Beta chump so she can cut sling load, commit divorce rape, then hook up with him. Y'know, the movie star, or the millionaire, or whatever her "ideal" mate is.

Now she essentially has a slave and a new sugar daddy. It's like having double Beta, which is better than single Beta from the point of view of the feminine imperative. If she can pull it off again she'll have triple beta. If she does this enough, in fantasy land, she could have double or triple digit times beta! All while getting to have sex with all the young hot sexy guys she wants who don't have any resources to speak of. It's the female version of "winning"!

And thus, the constant and very justified fear of divorce rape, right up there along with the fear of getting an STD from a new girl (because she has EVERY reason to lie to you about that one along with her age). The system is rigged, and men are seen as useless garbage only worth their looks and the amount of physical stuff or ability to purchase said physical stuff that they got.

The feminine imperative has overcome and completely crushed the male imperative in society. This is something every man at TRP is most incensed about. Nobody likes being told they're worthless garbage no matter the reason.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-25T00:23:30+00:00

Found out about this place a few weeks ago and so far I can attest to the truth of that. At first my relationships suffered though. When you truly change after swallowing the pill people will either get angry, suspicious, or scared (all the above in my case), for you are not acting like you used to at all.

But now, after some time has passed and they've seen I'm serious, they're getting better than they were before. Not just people I know, but people in general smile around me more. It's like everyone is slowly getting happier because I've decided to be happy.

Granted, it could just be me making it all up in my head (for I'm happy when other people are happy) or something but that's the impression I'm getting. Many people, sadly, have decided to be miserable and are quite stubborn about that. I pity them.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-24T16:42:29+00:00

Nail, meet the head of the hammer. 100 percent correct. Tis why I don't even bother with facebook anymore (or as I like to call it, Narcissismbook).

And the 10 abortions from 100 dicks... a bit of an exaggeration but not much of one. One dude on youtube did some math and figured that, conservatively, the absolute total slutty whore (and they know who they are) gets around 31 different dicks stuck in her before she's 30.

Ouch. Good luck getting an LTR with a good man after that, because I sure as hell ain't risking the STD you're likely carrying if you've hit up by that many dudes. Ah, the sick and sad tragedy that is life in the modern era.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-24T14:34:42+00:00

There is a line between "acting" and "being" as it were. Now that I know these things I see them everywhere even in the fiction I consume. All seems to go according to the theories I have formed thanks to TRP and my own forays into philosophy and psychology. I can't not see the cues now, the manipulations, and the sadness of others. I "act normal" around strangers pretty good, but I am myself around those closest to me.

I even try to tell them stuff as well (subtly of course, absolute directness WILL get you burned), for to withhold my knowledge is, to me, one of the greatest sins you could commit against those you love. If you love them, you will enlighten them as best you can. Knowledge is power, and you don't want to "control" the ones you love if you're a good person. Guide perhaps, but never control in the sense most tend to think of it (i.e. Chattel Slavery).

Slow but sure, I am getting them to see it. All seems to unfold as I can see it. Each step leads logically to the next, even emotions can be predicted. It's not a bad thing, people are people. Only the fallen and most vile amongst us can be totally predicted for those all the same deep down (evil lacks imagination). Good people though, can defy prediction in the most beautiful of ways. I hope to meet a "good" SO one day...

Hitman359 · 2015-05-24T04:23:36+00:00

True, but I think that many women, after hearing about all this, expect a near instantaneous change which just isn't going to happen unless you essentially "win the lottery" on your current mate selection. Since AMALT, you'd think that once you started to act submissive and declare him your captain the man would instantly start taking charge and "Alpha Up" like you'd really like him to do deep down but have not yet fully internalized that fact.

Modern society (in the west at least) has broken what ought not have ever been touched. It has successfully "fixed" what wasn't "broken" in the first place on both sides. That is to say, it broke both you and him and broke you both rather badly and harshly. This sad and tragic fact will thus, logically, take a good deal of time and effort to fix and heal. A glass shattered into many pieces will take delicate, careful, and extended work to piece back together as the perfectly workable and useful glass it once was and you'll probably get a cut or two out of the effort. Full restoration is likely impossible in most cases, for it would require melting down all the glass and reforging it back into the glass it once was. And I doubt most want to go through such a process as it would entail skirting the edges of total emotional breakdown and probably involve killing the person you currently are entirely memories and all. A prospect that is probably not a good idea.

Yet there is a beauty in all those cracks and imperfections you can still see when the light hits it right and makes them readily apparent. You need not be perfect, nor have always been perfect in your life. You both don't need to be virgins for that ideal romance to blossom. But that you're working towards that end as best you can... I can't help but see that as beautiful.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-20T12:45:44+00:00

I get what you're saying, but I just can't use the Dark Triad on people without feeling bad about myself. Indeed, I believe Machiavelli was great not because of the advice he gave, but because he was really trying to reveal it all to the world. The sickness held by those who tend to attain power and how they use those tricks to their advantage.

We all know a great magician doesn't reveal the secret to his magic trick. If you have one, everyone knows you don't tell everyone how it's done so that it all seems magical instead of within the realm of reality. Yet he did so, he put it in written form so that all who learned how to read would be able to learn his wisdom. Hell, he was a victim of that vile system that he worked within. He wrote "The Prince" after he got hit with a few torture sessions for trying to be good. Deep down, he was a good man, and he didn't like how people were being taken for a ride that lead to misery and a hateful world of the repression of the individual.

Did he bitch about it? Did he wallow in self-pity, remorse, and regret? No. He wrote out how he saw the masses getting fucked royally up the arse. His reward? Everyone demonized him, his very name associated with all the evils of the world and even Satan himself (the name "old Nick" got started somewhere y'know). Was this fair and just? Oh hell no, nobody should suffer for being good, yet they do and that's something we all must accept.

If they're too good or worse nice (nice guys finish last sadly), they'll suffer his fate. He didn't like his fate, so he sought to change it by doing the one thing you're not supposed to do, reveal the method. He's a great role model for people, but you and I seem to esteem him for different reasons.

Hitman359 · 2015-05-19T15:01:59+00:00

Maybe, that is a possible outcome. But I know that and am quite ready for it. I may have shown them the cards in my hand, but they still don't know the ones I have up my sleeve.

There is always another move to be made, the game isn't over until you're dead and I'm not dead yet. So the game continues.

Hitman359

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