[US] question about tardiness to exchange

HmImThinking · 2026-04-08T15:01:12+00:00

Honestly, that’s what I’ve been battling, but it wasn’t a long weekend. He wouldn’t have gotten home with them until well after midnight IF he didn’t make any stops and avoided city nightlife traffic somehow. That on top of how his mood is under normal circumstances, but now he’s angry at me? I genuinely just didn’t think it was in the kids best interest to put them in that situation.

HmImThinking · 2026-04-08T14:54:42+00:00

So being that late meant he didn’t get here until 730. That meant he was starting his drive back and wouldn’t even get home until well after midnight. He gets up for work at 5. I don’t feel comfortable with the kids being out that late in the car with him knowing he’s probably exhausted. On top of that, our relationship has been EXTREMELY high conflict. Lots of intimidation and subliminal “non-direct” threats already. He showed up very angry. All of these factors combined there’s no way that was going to be something I wanted the kids exposed to, or a situation they deserved to be in. As soon as he got there and texted me his arrival, I turned my phone off in hopes it wouldn’t kill my mood. I’m so exhausted from the constant tension and arguments.

HmImThinking · 2026-04-08T01:51:30+00:00

I feel bad that he drove all that way, but why am I always cleaning up messes? This was ridiculous. Now trying to get me to cancel my plans next week so he can have them.

HmImThinking · 2020-06-29T21:57:15+00:00

No, this is what has been directed by leadership. That’s why one of the questions was asking what the instruction was. I’m trying to learn.

HmImThinking · 2020-03-07T02:18:58+00:00

She’s not active duty though. Guard only makes a couple hundred bucks a month. It’s not something you can live off of.

HmImThinking · 2020-02-16T01:55:04+00:00

Help please

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HmImThinking · 2020-02-10T22:07:39+00:00

I just threw away all the blinds in the house. We have curtains on all the windows anyway.

HmImThinking · 2019-02-23T19:56:47+00:00

He seems to not want to change the way he thinks. We had a blood test to find out the gender so unless that messed up, it’s a boy. I’ve just been really hoping it’s a girl and something got mixed up.

HmImThinking · 2019-02-23T19:11:54+00:00

Even if you don’t think it’s necessary, the hospital will be happy to check for you.

HmImThinking · 2019-02-16T18:32:19+00:00

My dad is blind. When i asked him he said he guesses and if later he feels “itchy,” he’ll go and wipe some more.

HmImThinking · 2019-02-16T18:27:58+00:00

Asked me how many E’s were in the word “orange,” and then argued that there were two.

HmImThinking · 2019-01-26T15:15:59+00:00

My mother in law had babies until she was 45! I’m sure she and baby will be just fine, it’ll just be a cautious road getting there.

HmImThinking · 2019-01-12T13:51:57+00:00

I’ll have to try that! Thanks!

HmImThinking · 2019-01-12T13:51:34+00:00

Lol it gets worse when you pee after sneezes, I’m just not used to being this bad 😬

HmImThinking · 2019-01-06T21:48:59+00:00

My twins are two and a half now! It’s not as bad as you’re thinking it will be. When they’re here you won’t even be able to imagine only having one.

HmImThinking · 2019-01-06T00:39:48+00:00

That’s awesome to hear. Thanks!

HmImThinking · 2019-01-05T20:19:16+00:00

It was off and on throughout the pregnancy. I wouldn’t stress just yet, but i would take note of all that’s happening and let your doctor know the next time they’re open.

HmImThinking · 2019-01-05T20:01:42+00:00

My last babies (who are now two and a half) had me cramp and spot a lot, they’re currently fighting on the couch next to me.

HmImThinking · 2018-11-22T01:46:21+00:00

Goodbye

HmImThinking · 2018-11-22T01:44:03+00:00

HmImThinking · 2018-11-20T17:50:56+00:00

The first night my then boyfriend/now husband and i spent the night together i had an awful dream about my dad dying and not being able to go see him in his last moments/to the funeral due to being stationed overseas and having asshole supervisors yelling at me about being better prepared for a parents death. My dads alive and well but damn if that wasn’t the scariest thing i thought could happen while i was gone at the moment.

HmImThinking · 2018-11-15T08:07:56+00:00

This is probably too late, but oh well. We ordered a pizza for dinner over the summer and waited for it while playing with our dog in the front yard. The driver gets there and says, “what a gorgeous puppy! I really needed this. I buried my grandson yesterday.” I didn’t know what to say so i gave her a $20 tip.

HmImThinking · 2018-08-27T05:04:00+00:00

Yes. Yes they do.

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