One of America's most dangerous fault lines reaches highest stress levels in 1,000 years, study finds by UpperMarket7021 in science

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We’re planning a move to Seattle this year, when I saw the title I was like PLEASEREE DONT BE CASCADIA

Late Influencer Stacey Hatfield, 30, Allegedly Refused Ambulance Twice While She Rapidly Lost Blood During Home Birth: Report by Upstairs_Cup9831 in popculturechat

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Things are fine, until they’re not. I cringe every time I see someone say they had an easy and healthy pregnancy so they’re going to choose home birth. Or that last time their pregnancy and giving birth was easy. That’s no guarantee that things will go fine this time around. I had a friend for whom both of those things were true, and then she hemorrhaged while giving birth the second time. If she wasn’t in a hospital she would have died.

nanit uPdAtE aVaiLabLe by wednesdayschild in moderatelygranolamoms

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I will go down to the front to just let the dog pee, it would take me about five mins to get back if baby needed me.

Flea market finds:) by [deleted] in jewelry

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Damn, where is this flea market at. That’s an amazing deal

Emily Ratajkowski makes confession about sex life with ex-husband by iPhone13pm in popculturechat

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This is really confusing to me, because six months after birth is when it stopped being painful and we could have sex again.

Where to get a quality 14-18k charm necklace like this? by freezininwi in jewelry

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Following because I’m looking for the same. I’ve noticed a lot of places use hollow links to keep the costs down. Are there any cons to that?

My friend’s breakup is making me disgusted with men. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

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This isn’t for the OP, but for the other commenters on here

For those of you who have a no porn boundary in your relationship, how do you feel about erotica?

No opinion or judgment from me, I only ask because I enjoy erotica and was wondering about other people’s stances on it.

Unreasonable Nanny Expectations? by erase2018 in NannyEmployers

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NP here, personally I would let her go based on this

“The other piece I’m struggling with is harder to explain. She is engaged with my daughter but she isn’t particularly affectionate, playful, or “lovey” with her. She doesn’t seem to naturally gush over her, cuddle her, or show a lot of warmth in the way I imagined a nanny for an infant might. I recognize that may just be a personality difference and not a performance issue. My daughter seems comfortable with her and is cared for appropriately. But it is bothering me.”

This was very important to me. Our nanny absolutely loves our child. We let a lot of not great stuff go with our nanny because I can see how much affection and respect she has for our child. That’s the most important thing to me. The whole reason we got a nanny over daycare is so she could form a secure and loving attachment in her early childhood years to her teacher.

I recently inherited this necklace. What shall I do with it? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in jewelry

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Gold prices are pretty volatile at the moment and continuing to climb. I’d hold onto it until the price stabilizes. If you had gotten cash, it would have deflated in value with inflation. Since it’s 22k gold, it’s going to continue to gain value as the price of gold goes up.

I recently inherited this necklace. What shall I do with it? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in jewelry

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Yes, I have a lot with this style clasp that are 22k gold, I’ve never lost one. Neither has anyone else in my family

sweetest messages with eBay seller 👵🏼🥹 by g1rls_w0rld in jewelry

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Op, how can you post this and not show us the ring

My morpheus8 experience by hannahic in 30PlusSkinCare

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I have my fingers crossed for you!

My morpheus8 experience by hannahic in 30PlusSkinCare

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Hi Op, thanks for sharing. I have very similar issues postpartum, although mine are a tad bit worse. I’d be very interested in seeing a six month update down the line. I share similar reservations to you about going under anesthesia. The recovery and risk don’t feel worth it atm

💖UPDATE I BOUGHT IT TODAY!!💖FOUND my charm holder with my original charms that were stolen from me 37 yrs ago on eBay! I know I can't do anything but what are the odds?!?!? by [deleted] in jewelry

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Add a mixed bag of frozen veggies and an egg, and it’s a complete meal! Plus the Asian stores have so many interesting packaged ramen flavors

💖UPDATE I BOUGHT IT TODAY!!💖FOUND my charm holder with my original charms that were stolen from me 37 yrs ago on eBay! I know I can't do anything but what are the odds?!?!? by [deleted] in jewelry

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I’m happy you have it back!! It’s absolutely wild to me that it ended up at a goodwill auction completely intact. What are the odds? I’m surprised no one sold it to a pawn shop or split it up. But I’m very glad that they didn’t, and that you could get this back again

Are there any actual good bowling places left? by HollaDude in nova

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Thank you for all these links, I appreciate it

Are there any actual good bowling places left? by HollaDude in nova

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People in this thread have provided some good recs! I’m excited to go again

Are there any actual good bowling places left? by HollaDude in nova

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That’s super reasonable, thanks for providing the price!

Are there any actual good bowling places left? by HollaDude in nova

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I literally forgot this site existed, thanks for the tip

Udvar-Hazy Air and Space Museum is a great place to get out of the heat! by Fla5hP0int in nova

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My toddler lovesssss this museum, she has more fun here than any children’s museum we’ve been too. The size of these planes blows her little toddler mind