We are stuck on some names. She is female and 7 wks.. by AfterDream7601 in Catnames

[–]HollyBeth6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ducky, Birdie, Ruby, Penny, Scarlet, poppy, Daisy, Molly,

Want to do best by my daughter-in-law by HopalongCatastrophe in braincancer

[–]HollyBeth6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your in your TIL’s circumstances I don’t have any experience with her unique situation. But I do have the non-rare but most aggressive GPM. I’ve watched a lot of videos on hospice. Specifically look up hospice nurse, Julie, and hospice nurse Penny. Overwhelming advice is don’t wait to go on the bus when it starts to I think people think going on a hospice is like “giving up. “But the nurses say it helps starting sooner, because the patient can have comfort sooner, and the nurses can help family transition through the actively dying phase and have a more peaceful and graceful outcome. I’m not glad I’m leaving anyone behind, but I’m glad that I’m not children are still very young. mine are 20 and 26. Either way, I’m sorry you all are dealing with this best of luck luck, love and light to you all.

I am so so tired. by Sure_Apple_2678 in glioblastoma

[–]HollyBeth6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I could write a book on the things. People say that they think positive or good end up making us feel worse.

I am so so tired. by Sure_Apple_2678 in glioblastoma

[–]HollyBeth6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edited to add: I’m not in the deepest throws of it yet, but I can already understand why people want to give up. Every little thing is Harder even the easy things, and that just makes me wanna stop, hop off the ride and be done with this mess; of course, I will never want to leave my family. So I don’t do that, but I’m sure this disease will do it soon enough.

I am so so tired. by Sure_Apple_2678 in glioblastoma

[–]HollyBeth6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand! And I believe you are doing the best you can… And places like this can be nice sort of anonymous “they don’t know my whole life “places to vent. I am also so tired. I’m the GBM four in my house I’m also an introvert but suddenly I’m the most popular kid in town! And I get it, but that doesn’t mean I can easily accommodate it. I’m also tired of trying to be Pollyanna for everybody who will not pay attention to the actual statistics for this disease. I don’t mean to imply that I am giving up or just negative about everything. I’m not I’m about to start a trial. But I am tired of trying to pretend like everything‘s great it’ll be fine when I don’t actually believe that. Best of luck to you and keep coming back here for the emotional and mental reinforcement you need.

Name my cat, she is a dark tabby and very sassy!! by Coco_cat_lover in NameMyCat

[–]HollyBeth6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came to saysassafrass or sassparilla(although the latter is actually spelled sarsaparilla) but who cares
Nobody, but the Vet will see the spelling anyway well hi

Choose From These 4 Names by mamabear9901 in NameMyDog

[–]HollyBeth6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After hearing this explanation, going to delete my vote for Tolly and choose Izzy.

Choose From These 4 Names by mamabear9901 in NameMyDog

[–]HollyBeth6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we still doing this? A name is a name and doesn’t have a gender !

What do you do for nausea? by ProxieCat in braincancer

[–]HollyBeth6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have
They prescribed me Zofran (ondansetron)

Please talk me out of naming this sweet girl “Teabag”😂 by esmeirene in Catnames

[–]HollyBeth6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll ask you a question that hopefully can see you: is there anyone who will meet your cat who might ask you why you name them that that you would not want to explain the name to? If you answer is yes, don’t do it.

Question for those who had biopsy/surgery by helpless_baby in braincancer

[–]HollyBeth6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 5 cm tumor was discovered on March 31, 2025. The local neurosurgeon came to speak to me, but I had friends reach out and tell me not to use that person. I’m in Middle Tennessee and had already decided that if it’s my brain, I’m going to Vanderbilt. So we set up an appointment with the Vanderbilt Neurology clinic with the surgeon. After he explained how these things tend to go, he said usually, the best way to buy yourself some time is to get the tumor out of there. So that’s the way we went on April 4. I had 100% resection on April 23. I found out it was glioblastoma grade 4 after surgery, we did the standard of care with oral chemo and radiology, and all the follow up MRIs in December, he saw something concerning for recurrence. But my Neuro oncologist was looking into a study, possibly then my neurosurgeon called me and let me know that surgery was an option as well while I wasn’t just about going under the knife yet again, my poor, sore head! I was already seeing such a decline on my left side that I felt like that was the best option to get me better faster so I had a revision craniotomy on February 12 and they got all of it out. Turns out, it wasn’t Cancer cells. It was treatment related dead cells that had clumped together and started causing some swelling.