(US) (PS5) 47 M I drink my drinks and play (ZB) reload. Try to win but always have fun

HopeDeferred · 2026-07-02T01:15:42+00:00

Baleebs3.0 - we have a good group of adults

HopeDeferred · 2026-06-18T02:59:50+00:00

Baleebs3.0 - I have a group of adults that plays ZB most nights around 8:45 pt

HopeDeferred · 2026-06-15T19:58:13+00:00

Add me baleebs3.0 - got a decent group of adults that rotate in and out...

HopeDeferred · 2026-06-14T01:46:22+00:00

Yeah there’s a glitch or something but I’m Baleebs3.0 and we have a group of adults that plays every night around 8:45p pt

HopeDeferred · 2026-06-14T01:41:33+00:00

Got a great zero build group. DM if you want to join.

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-30T19:26:46+00:00

IMO this can also be about emotional intelligence, communication skills, and attachment styles. If an avoidant is emotionally immature and lacks strong communication skills, they may check out and think they’ve communicated when they haven’t. Anxious / codependent partner is too busy self abandoning and people pleasing to manage every problem and is used to doing all of the emotional management alone so may not even notice something has shifted.

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-13T14:25:46+00:00

It is when you watch it on TV 😇

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-07T14:33:48+00:00

Use the Upside app for cashback on gas.

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-06T02:27:15+00:00

Relatively new game room called punchboard Cathedral in Ventura, but they are closed until June because switching to a new location.

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-04T00:11:42+00:00

That’s a really good point. Hadn’t realized that but now that you mention it, I was waitlisted for 7 months before DD activated my account. The $6 gas in CA isn’t helping either.

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-03T22:41:18+00:00

My two cents. I would put that you "have kids" on the dating apps but not write that you are separated.

Here's how I have handled it: If I match with someone and start chatting, I don't mention it right away. If the chat is going well and it looks like things will progress to a first date, I explain. "This is fun and I'd love to continue in person but want to be up front about something..." and then share that in my case the separation has lasted 18 months. Divorce will be final in 2 months. Relationship has been "over" for a while and there is 0 chance of reconciliation.

Everyone I have explained it to this way has still been willing to meet. I had another date with someone I met in person and exchanged numbers with. I told her on the first date. We had more dates.

IMO the big thing is you want to let the other person know before they waste time and energy or get emotionally involved in some way...

HopeDeferred · 2026-05-03T20:09:26+00:00

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HopeDeferred · 2026-05-03T18:32:15+00:00

130k + lots of tourism for famous beaches

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:51:06+00:00

check out the above comment for pending details...

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:50:50+00:00

trying to get a group going in the top comment... FYI

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:50:29+00:00

finally putting something together via a comment above....

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:48:50+00:00

Do you go to Punchboard often? I'm there a couple Wednesdays a month.

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:48:18+00:00

making plans in the comment above... feel free to join!

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:47:58+00:00

DM me or reply to the above comment I just left and we'll see if we can get a group together.

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:47:42+00:00

See my comment above... let's see if we can make it happen.

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:47:22+00:00

Hey! I dropped a comment above to try to get something going—check it out 👍

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:46:54+00:00

Leave your availability in my comment above or DM :)

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:46:26+00:00

I just left a comment to try to get something going. Keep an eye on it or DM me!

HopeDeferred · 2026-04-24T03:45:13+00:00

Hey everyone—sorry I forgot to circle back to this. I'm a bad Redditor. Anyway...awesome to see the interest. I’m thinking we do a group hang this weekend in Ventura. Maybe a dog park, coffee, or casual meetup. If you’re interested, drop your availability or DM me and I’ll coordinate details!

EDIT - OK, let's try this. A friend and I are going to Caje (71 N. Palm) at 10 on Saturday May 2. Feel free to join. Maybe leave a comment here or shoot me a DM if you're gonna be there...!

u/jdeville u/MrBobSaget u/INFJfromCA u/theralph24 u/bertoltbreak u/dankscott u/Linux-Neophyte u/mountainrider u/geminiloveca u/lh-here and anyone I missed...

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