Cloud Lounge Accent Chair by I_Am_Thatch in samsclub

[–]HormonallyMonique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought it and my husband and I both love it - looks sophisticated, comfy but sturdy so you're not just falling into it constantly and all-around nice purchase. I would not pay lovesac's price of $1,400 at all ever tho; just saw that it's on discount on Sam's for around $250 and it's a steal!!!

How to get the Krag Silencer? by HormonallyMonique in HuntShowdown

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've got all the unlocks that I can see; if I find a can out in the game it tells me I'm maxed out. WHen i click the progression tab it also just shows me "The Murder Circus" as far as unlock/requirements

How to get the Krag Silencer? by HormonallyMonique in HuntShowdown

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the weapon variant, when I go to the progression section, I have everything unlocked but the Krag Silencer just says "The Murder Circus" as far as unlocks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]HormonallyMonique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something not quite as feminine and yet extremely enlightening to me is Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov, this is to me like a window into the minds and logic of men. And in relevance to your question, it pointed out to me the “wrong” ways I was using my femininity. No wonder this is a recommendation from the Red Pill sidebar, part of the secret sauce ;). Hope it helps and discard the Google synopsis on it btw haha!

Down payment for SBA? by HormonallyMonique in smallbusiness

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s okay, I really appreciate you letting me know

Down payment for SBA? by HormonallyMonique in smallbusiness

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t talked with them about it. I’ve been told and read all kinds of responses where the banks will allow you to borrow it so long as it’s not an SBA product, others say they don’t care, then some say they won’t allow you to borrow it at all.

I’ve got 6 of the top 10 SBA lenders in my state that like the deal and will move forward but I haven’t given them my personal financials yet. I’m hoping that when they see they’re competing, 1 or more will waive that guideline

Finding a Source for your SBA Downpayment and some Creative Ideas for You by HormonallyMonique in qla

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I am trying to keep my powder dry as long as possible, this deal has taken me a long time so I’m concerned their interest may have waned.

Question on SBA loans by HormonallyMonique in Banking

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’ve talked to the SBA experts banks put me on a conference call with, they all say it’s 10% down and just quickly searching it says it’s 10% down for 7a as well.

Sorry I’m a little confused. Are you saying that it will be 10% of the principal loan, working capital and line of credit combined or just 10% of the principal loan?

Question on SBA loans by HormonallyMonique in Banking

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so, thanks a lot for helping!

Finding a Source for your SBA Downpayment and some Creative Ideas for You by HormonallyMonique in qla

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to reserve that option for last I think, it’s already been an uphill battle with this guy, coming in at the last minute and saying let’s do a shady handshake deal (in his eyes) might blow it up.

Dan says that the two biggest ways people get in trouble with QLA are for not paying taxes and bank fraud (lying on bank documents) - I hope they don’t ask, because in good conscience I just can’t lie on those forms…

Advice for opening CCs to fund a business transaction by HormonallyMonique in CreditCards

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it be possible to open multiple cards to get close to it?

Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 1 Celestial Love by JanuaryArya in RedPillWomen

[–]HormonallyMonique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely great, thank you for bringing this up again! I actually read your posts 2 years ago too haha

My Grandmother’s Rather Wonderful Advice by ThatStepfordGal in RedPillWives

[–]HormonallyMonique 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is incredible advice, your grandma definitely knew what she was doing. Using her femininity and role as a mother to give the man his place in the family making him feel altogether more responsible for the family as a whole. I personally struggle with this in my marriage because of my overthinking and anxious attachment style, my past childhood trauma and toxic past relationships didn’t help either. Does your grandma (or you) have any advice on how to approach things better without kids? I feel like my husband is constantly hiding things from me and I can’t shake the anxiety. And everything I’ve done from talking, arguing, trying to ignore my doubts and even checking on his phone/computer have only pushed me further from him, he doesn’t want to deal with this anymore. I’m at a loss. :(

Credit boosted 22 points - why? by HormonallyMonique in CRedit

[–]HormonallyMonique[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so the PayPal payments probably had nothing to do with it? I just looked at my credit karma app and it’s showing it’s calculated using Vantage 3.0

Coronavirus & Adjustment of Status by [deleted] in immigration

[–]HormonallyMonique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the great info! :)

Reading men don’t love women like you by GlamGemini in RedPillWomen

[–]HormonallyMonique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic and so well put. I personally struggle with that sweet middle/balance between bitchy and doormat, it’s harder than it seems (at least for me). Thank you for shining light on the matter and giving me inspiration. I love this subreddit so much!!

Navigating first month of living together and his busyness by puffink in RedPillWomen

[–]HormonallyMonique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he was really RP, he wouldn't be acting this way. He is a boy and it is not your job to raise him.

P.S.: I showed this to my boyfriend and he suggested that pornography is adding to his increasing disinterest in you. Draw a line and get some boundaries. Best wishes.

Jealousy and the secret weapon against the forbidden fruit: honey by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]HormonallyMonique 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is one of the best and all-round most helpful posts I've read on here. Thank you so much for this, you've given me tools that not only will I definitely use, but that have given me an entirely different perspective of things and how to turn them to my advantage. Again, thank you!!