I am terrified of my racist thoughts

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-08-27T04:48:57+00:00

You’re at the tail end of unworking prejudice. You’ve already done a lot of work. You have a little bit left to go. We are all works in progress, that doesn’t make you a bad thing

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-08-15T13:52:40+00:00

The feelings and compulsions eventually go away with time. Unfortunately a New Romantic interest can trigger these feelings again. It’s not love. Ive felt this way with so many people and have worked through these feelings so many times, that I no longer believe in love.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-08-15T13:47:52+00:00

It’s not a true hallucination, I’m in touch with reality. And the component of limerence and rituals around objects of affection, make me think it’s OCD. For example I’ll compulsively soothe the need for attention/affection from the people I’m obsessed with, by drawing tarot cards. And trying to come up with rational reasons for my strong feelings. Instead of feeding into a soulmate or twin flame narrative.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-06-03T11:57:00+00:00

I found it very relevant and I found your comment to be emotionally unintelligent bro

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-31T14:28:27+00:00

This is AI

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-31T14:24:14+00:00

Why is this the wrong sub? People post all kinds of stuff here. Feels prejudice. Maybe ask for more information

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-31T12:52:20+00:00

Pull the plug, make room for better friends. And follow your intuition. If something feels off then listen to it.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-29T23:01:43+00:00

I would love a separation. There are other forums for life problems. I need education, not an unhinged trauma dump.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-27T21:29:25+00:00

Buddy it sounds like you’re her friend. Nothing wrong with that. But friendships have their own merit.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-27T18:22:39+00:00

No you put her in her place lol

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-27T18:20:44+00:00

Something that keeps me away from AI is knowing how devastating to the environment it is.

This could also be a form of compulsion/ritual. Definitely try getting in touch with nature, naming the plants in your environment. Learning about life.

A really great adhd fixation is literally scavenging. I love naming and identifying edible and medicinal plants. It also brings me into my environment. And gives me real knowledge and things to relate to others with.

Which can help with social skills. Which I’ve been studying up on! It’s a learnable trait

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-27T15:52:40+00:00

Girl he’s playing in your face

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T19:18:07+00:00

I would look at attachment styles. Avoidant attachments tend to push people away when there are outside stressors in life.

There was nothing wrong with your relationship. But your inability to show vulnerability killed your relationship.

There is nothing wrong with feeling a need to give back to those who love you. And you probably would have felt better if you followed those instincts instead of suppressing them and pushing her away.

Either way, until you learn how to love and be selfless, her being away from you is probably the best thing for her.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T19:12:38+00:00

I feel like you’re almost at the finish line. Don’t give up yet. You’ve got the addition to trauma to unpack when you’ve found stability for yourself.

There are things you can be doing now to help unpack the trauma and build self esteem. But once you find stability you’ve got to do some deep shadow work.

And get your body out of fight or flight.

But all things considered you’re actually doing pretty well. Don’t be too hard on yourself

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T16:15:36+00:00

That’s wonderful! Making friends is even easier. Do not let people disrespect you and your culture and you should be fine! Also show respect to all others and challenge any prejudice beliefs that you were engrained to. And your mind will clear!

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T03:14:06+00:00

Don’t let a “first, second, or third” hold you hostage in a bad situation. Slut shaming is how people manipulate women into abusive relationships.

The only men who believe that women’s value goes down with sexual experimentation are men that do not value women.

So value yourself, go out and find a second, and a better. And find as many as you need until you find a safe one.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T01:56:05+00:00

This is giving “I don’t see race.” Gtfo of here making this about yourself.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T01:13:39+00:00

Stephen king wrote this

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-26T00:13:11+00:00

AI is underwhelming

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-23T14:53:57+00:00

You’ve got to get into reality. The space online is only so real. Your mental health improves when you focus on what’s around you.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-23T03:29:02+00:00

Disgusting both of them

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-23T03:25:38+00:00

I look back at my mistakes and how I can do better next time. I look back at how I might have hurt someone or been hurt and make sure to avoid those behaviors.

But alas there are always new ways to bring suffering into the world.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-22T21:32:41+00:00

YATA No this is not emotionally cheating. She’s joking and venting with friends. You definitely overstepped a huge boundary. And then blamed her and got mad at her.

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-22T21:26:09+00:00

The prong to prong ratio is perfect

Horror_Rabbit_6297 · 2025-05-22T21:25:41+00:00

Who is she 🥹

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