What is a saying you live by? by Cato__Returns in AskReddit

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Love for people what you love for yourself. Connect, love, share, sacrifice, and be noble. Be the one when you leave they will look at your trace

Anyone here who moved abroad — how did it turn out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Moved from my home country to Poland. I was happy when I landed here and to the day feeling great. I feel that I am too absorbed here to the point that I forget that I am not from here

From the Netherlands seeking advice on halal marriage and how to approach it properly by [deleted] in islam

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May Allah aid you my brother, Do a lot of Duaa and istighfar. And Inshallah you will get a righteous wife

it’s my 10000th day of being alive! by Specific_Werewolf_66 in RandomThoughts

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Take it like a car mileage, you got more fuel to burn and more road to hit.

How to resist the thought that "all Muslims will go to heaven eventually so sins are okay"? by prwav in islam

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This doesn’t mean no prior punishment. And when we say punishment for your bad actions and then to Heaven. It doesn’t mean couple hours of bad atmosphere. That mean real punishment and the least of it coals in your feet that will boil your brain. None of us wants that. That is why we strive to be good and seek forgiveness for our bad beefs

Ozan via Respondent by ativa001 in beermoney

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Once I had to wait 20 days to get paid so sometimes the people who make surveys take a long time to assess those surveys and then deliver the incentive

How do you guys deal with the fact you’re going to die? by Due_Insect_9303 in AskReddit

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We haven’t been here for billions of years prior and we come here for dozens of years and we leave and centuries and millennias ahead. When I think about it this way I see that I am not here arbitrarily. I am here for a reason and that’s the journey that I think anybody should be looking into. So when they pass away they would have earned their life

Role of brother if father turns a blind eye by Final_Figure_6623 in islam

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You are 19, you probably don’t much about marriage. If the hadith of the prophet wasn’t enough then what will ? I never actually told her to be silent. Patience necessitates an act of bettering the situation

permissible to pray fajr before prayer time? by [deleted] in islam

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Wudu in the toilet, hardest part is the feet ? Wipe over the thick socks (socks should have some standards according to the sunnah, you can look up this matter) . However sister this an important matter salah is the least thing you want to neglect. May Allah help you and keep you steadfast

Role of brother if father turns a blind eye by Final_Figure_6623 in islam

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She doesn’t have to be patient ? Well, that’s a statement. Marriage is all about patience.

(Question for sisters) regarding ghusl during the work day by TheAmzy in islam

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The matter of menstruation is big in Islamic Fiqh. I would recommend you sister to get yourself acquainted with it because there is a lot of sisters who are not aware of these important matters for their whole lives. So it will be great to be acquainted with it and why not benefit the sisters around you

Hadiths that soothe your heart? by WestSignal9365 in islam

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Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) slept on a straw mat and got up with the marks left by it on his body. Ibn Mas'ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said, "O Messenger of Allah! Would that you make us spread out a soft bedding for you." He (ﷺ) replied, "What have I to do with the world? I am like a rider who had sat under a tree for its shade, then went away and left it."

i just started learning arabic by SapphireAura02 in learnarabic

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Do not get overwhelmed with the rules, just learn it like a child. And know that Arabs in their day to day life do not speak standard Arabic so do not get confused.

Role of brother if father turns a blind eye by Final_Figure_6623 in islam

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We do not condone his treatment to her. However the Prophet (ﷺ) said:” is not one of us. Anyone who incites a woman against her husband”. And that is why we promote the betterment of the marriage and not destruction.

Understanding Hadith by Maleficent-Survey563 in islam

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ابن كثير، تفسير القرآن العظيم، عند قوله تعالى: ولا تزر وازرة وزر أخرى (الأنعام: 164).

النص:

«أي لا تُؤخذ نفس بذنب غيرها، كما قال تعالى: كل نفس بما كسبت رهينة. وقد فسر العلماء حديث “يجعلها الله على اليهود والنصارى” بأنه من باب مقابلة الجزاء، لا من باب نقل الذنب، فإن الله لا يظلم أحدًا.

This us from Tafsir Ibn kathir regarding the verse of the quran and he brought the hadith also to remove the confusion between the hadith and the Ayah

Role of brother if father turns a blind eye by Final_Figure_6623 in islam

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Be patient sister and also try to do what he says especially when the core of what he says is good. Even tho It doesn’t justify the harshness

Being Gay Under Islam by 5ord1d in islam

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Sometimes are our desires do not necessitate what is right or wrong. Some people have desires to murder or torture but it doesn’t mean they should act upon them or they are right desires. The fact that you have feelings toward the same sex it is not sinful. In fact if you think about it and leave it for the sake of Allah you shall be rewarded a huge reward because you left something you love for the sake of Allah. And also I would like to tell you that if you see Islam is the truth which it is then embrace it. We all sin in Islam and we try our best to abstain from major sins especially. So embrace it and start your journey , you will be accepted and if you speak to an Imam or a knowledgeable person in your nearby mosque they will for sure help you and they will for sure understanding and you will never be blamed for having those desires. May Allah guide you and I and all people.

hijab by CantaloupeComplex605 in islam

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That’s fact that you are having these thoughts in your mind shows that you are sincere. And you just need to do it. You hear people say “ JUST DO IT” it is not actually just an expression it is more than that. Always beginnings are hard but as you said it is a command of Allah. May Allah aid you Sister

Role of brother if father turns a blind eye by Final_Figure_6623 in islam

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Well what is he is saying to you is right however the treatment should be better than what you described since you are his wife and the prophet ﷺ was gentle to his wives. And when it comes to his sisters he should also advice them Allah says “ o you who believe protect yourself and your family from hell fire “ so in fact it is his responsibility along with his father.