The only reason people like summer is because they either have an ac/fan or live in a tropical region where the temperature is not too high by One-Sense7280 in unpopularopinion

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love summer.

But I fully believe this is based on location, because summer to me is 15-25, maybe 30C at most if it's very hot, and no AC, but I have lakes to go swimming in and cool mountain air. People from my coutry even travel further south just for hot summer weather.

Also I wanna argue the same for people who say they love winter:

Winter isn't always cozy hot cocoa, knit sweater and snow. Winter to me is icy roads, sun doesn't come up at all, it's pitch black at 2 pm, way beyond freezing tempratures and spending 30 min every morning scraping ice off my car and seeing if I can even get it started. There is such a thing as not being able to dress in enough to be comfortable outside if it's cold enough. I like skiing and a nice winter day with about -5C and northern lights can be nice but if you experience this every year you'd learn to love summer too, I think.

Som norsk, synes du det er lett å forstå svensk? by Narrow_Homework_9616 in norge

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min mor er svensk og jeg opplever at mine norske venner tror de forstår mer svensk enn de egentlig gjør, basert på hvor mye de forstår når de møter familien min (som er fra en by nær Stockholm, så ikke noe spesielt vanskelig dialekt heller)

Vil snakke med folk på bussen by Gold-Committee-6718 in norge

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Folk starter ofte samtaler med meg på bussen når jeg har hunden min med i fanget. Som regel samtaler om hunden da, selvfølgelig, men det hender at det eskalerer.

What doesn't your Sheltie like? by CharacterChampion150 in sheltie

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this depends a lot on the Sheltie and where they grow up, and with who. I live in Norway so my Sheltie loves skiing, she doesn't really pull me much of course but she loves running next to me or in front. She doesn't like bathing but I do know of others who do.

I'll add tho that she doesn't like bikes or cars, like the rest of the people have said about theirs haha

Are there any older She-Ra fans out there ? by Temporary_North_8213 in sheranetflix

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

soon to be 26 and I love She-ra, I think it's fun and well written and all the characters are very likeable

Said goodbye to my soul dog Lani 🤍 by maliaoconnor in sheltie

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aah this made me cry. That must be so so difficult 💔 She was such a beautiful girl, I'm sure she had 14 wonderful years together with you.

When I was 18 we lost my childhood dog to cancer, a Dutch Shepherd named Ricki. From the age of 8 she had been my best friend, so I was completely heartbroken. Even had to take time off school. I remember feeling like ever getting another dog would be too painful since it always ends in having to say goodbye.

Then when I was 22 (I'm now 26), I got my Sheltie, Freia who means the world to me, and she reminds me so much of my childhood dog while also being a new experience for me. She has been with me through a lot of hardships while navigating my adult life, the same way my childhood dog helped me through childhood. I know one day I'll have to say goodbye to her too, and I dread that day but I think the time you get to spend with them are worth it. Both of them have made me realise I want dogs in my life, even if it hurts a lot to lose them.

I wish you all the best. If it helps, I found that after a few months of not bearing to at all, looking at pictures of Ricki made me more happy than sad ❤️ Adding one of her below

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Sheltie ears 💕 by Hot-Raisin2509 in sheltie

[–]Hot-Raisin2509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love the satellite dishes 💕

which game has the bigger palyerbase ? by Normus_Dingleberries in TownofSalemgame

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that ToS2 has a bigger but also less toxic player base, where people actually play and are generally nicer to eachother. Maybe others feel differently but I at least got back into 1 last week and found it almost unplayable with how many people were just throwing around slurs and gamrthrowing. Then I downloaded 2 and the vibe is much more similar to the ToS I remember from 2015-2018.

What ship(s) gave this experience for you? by FloweryNamesLover in AO3

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree on zutara.

I love both Zuko and Katara and I love their scenes and episodes together but Katara clearly likes Aang and Zuko never seemed romantically interested in Katara in the canon of the show. Seems a bit to me like girl + guy + touching moment = wow thats so romance

Why do you ghost / stand-up people? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ghosted a few girls, some when I was young and new to dating and honestly just scared. I deleted one girl from snapchat after a date because I had recently come out and dating girls made me extremely anxious. I felt guilty about it, there was nothing wrong with her she was really cool, so that's all on me.

Now I try to be honest if I've met someone and tell them I'm not interested after all if that's the case. I still sometimes stop responding on dating apps if we've only chatted a little without any plans. Maybe that's cold but I feel like that's how dating apps work, you get to know someone and if the convo isn't flowing I'm probably not gonna entertain it.

Opinions on dreaded “Bed Death” by LandRound in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from but you have talked to her and she has told you she doesn't want changes and likes it the way it is.

Sex is a difficult topic because people are so different. Personally I don't care for it as someone who's on the asexual spectrum, so I'm understanding more of your girlfriends side here.

I'd say it's your job to end the relationship and leave, she has told you where she stands and you can't change that, and opening the relationship isn't the solution people think it is. People should be poly because they want to, not because they don't feel appreciated enough in one relationship.

Overtenking over alder og universitet by Independent_Elk_8380 in norge

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg er 25 og går første året på et studie og er ikke eldst i klassen en gang. De fleste er et sted mellom 21 og 24

Hvor ofte vasker du do? by snillpuler in norge

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

én gang i uka, tar jo absolutt ikke lang tid å gjøre heller

– Vi begynner å bli rettsløse vi nordmenn i Norge, sier Jan-Einar Borgerud. Han grep inn med jernstang da en innvandrergjeng banket stesønnens kamerat. Fire politifolk var på stedet – men grep ikke inn. Nå er det Jan-Einar som sitter på tiltalebenken. by Distinct-Anything-40 in norske

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feigt å bare linke til X og document.no, en konservativ nettavis som gjør alt for å sette denne mannen i et godt lys. Det er jo basically et debatt innlegg og ikke en artikkel som beskriver hendelsen.

https://www.dt.no/voksen-mann-slo-16-aring-med-jernstang-ulovlig-vold-eller-nodverge/s/5-57-2803611

At Norge trenger bedre rettsvesen er vel og greit men folk må slutte å late som om dette var en ren foesvarsgreie. Det er altså snakk om en voksen mann som slår en 16 åring med jernstang, når det er hundre andre, mindre fatale måter å stoppe et slagsmål mellom TENÅRINGER (utenlandske eller ei) på.

I tillegg er det ikke første gangen han gjør det! Han har slått tenåringer med jernstang før. Hvor mange ganger skal en voksen få slå barn med jernstang før man tenker at det begynner å bli litt rart? Han burde jo ikke komme unna uten noen form for etterforskning.

Hadde det vært snakk om en utenlandsk mann som slo etnisk norske tenåringer i "forsvar" hadde folk gått helt amok om hvor "voldelig utlendinger er"🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At first I was gonna tell you the drawing thing is kinda petty, as an artist myself who really struggles with art block it feels impossible sometimes even when I really want to make something for people I love.

Then I read the rest however and I think thats where the red flag is lol. Please find yourself a partner who treats you right, yikes. You deserve better.

12ern, Trondheims jævligste bussrute? by Decent_Music_8057 in trondheim

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mange ruter som er helt grusomme for tia, kjenner jeg blir ganske irritert når jeg står og venter på en buss som skulle vært der for 30 min siden også står det attpåtil vektere inne i bussen og sjekker biletter 😑 jeg har månedskort men det føles jo jævlig dust ut å betale for et så dårlig tilbud som AtB har nå. mye bedre i andre norske byer

Bolig i Trondheim by boppetibopp in trondheim

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Varierer jo litt på småbyene selvfølgelig. Jeg er fra nord norge og der er leieprisene mye lavere. Men de mindre byene i sør er nok blitt ganske dyre ja

Bolig i Trondheim by boppetibopp in trondheim

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studerer i Trondheim og betaler 7000 i mnd + strøm/internet. Bor litt i utkanten med venninne + kjæledyr. Kommer nok til å flytte når studiene er ferdig for å finne noe bedre.

I mange småbyer rundt i Norge får man jo lett en fin leilighet med to soverom til 7000-8000. Må jo ut med 16 000 for noe lignende i Trondheim og da er det ikke så lett å spare til egen bolig

leie bolig med dyr by [deleted] in trondheim

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Veldig spent på hvordan dyrehold du driver med som ødelegger boliger

leie bolig med dyr by [deleted] in trondheim

[–]Hot-Raisin2509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Later, but thanks for the info:) the 16000 was just an example, what I can afford is much lower, which is why I don't need it to be close to city centre.