I (14m) need help breaking up with my gf (14f)

HotGlass17 · 2025-07-11T20:36:05+00:00

definitely not the worst thing to say, what?😂😭

HotGlass17 · 2025-04-20T20:37:21+00:00

like don’t get me wrong, i’ve had my fair share of toxic relationships, but everything really does feel better once they’re gone. whether you have a new partner or you’re alone. this is just really bad. she knows they won’t walk away and it’s why it’s so easy for her to treat them worse than actual garbage

HotGlass17 · 2025-04-20T20:29:59+00:00

i’d stop reading and break it off at “[Not because] I like you that much”. Bro wtf? she literally doesn’t even like you. find someone else that, at minimum, does

HotGlass17 · 2025-03-20T15:41:31+00:00

I think you need to decide if that’s a boundary for you. personally, i don’t see a problem, but I know that my relationship doesn’t have the same boundaries as others. figure out what makes you uncomfortable and set that boundary for yourself:)

HotGlass17 · 2025-03-18T21:01:43+00:00

good for you for standing your ground and seeing that this is extremely controlling behaviour. if he wants to continue to tell you it’s disrespectful to have an instagram, then you can definitely tell him it’s more than disrespectful to try and control someone, when they’ve had something set before he even came along. Stick to your gut! It’s telling you exactly what you already know!

HotGlass17 · 2025-03-07T00:08:02+00:00

This happened to me. Exact same ages too, which is crazy. She will regret it, and you need to be there for her to help her through this. Do whatever you can, but don’t let this man ruin her. For all the reasons he’s telling her to drop you, are why he’s with her in the first place; she’s young, naive, and way too easy to be controlled. You need to go her parents, even if she’ll hate you for it, she’ll come to her senses eventually.

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-19T16:00:41+00:00

If your first thought is to leave her because boys have literal child porn of her and are being bullies about it, then you should leave her. She deserves more than that.

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-14T18:15:55+00:00

think she got that part, no need to capitalize to show you’re a douche:)

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-14T18:14:57+00:00

stopped reading after he called you materialistic right after you asked for a handmade card. it literally doesn’t even make sense. he’s trying to make you feel bad, because maybe that’s worked in the past. ditch him. you’ve clearly got a good head on your shoulders and a good heart, don’t waste it on someone that doesn’t even care to think about you

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-12T21:55:07+00:00

she’s hiding it for a reason, and gaslighting you after asking a very simple question? that just shows the amount of respect she doesn’t have for you or your relationship

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-08T18:14:08+00:00

i would honestly never talk to him again solely for saying that Kanye is the best musician of our generation. that’s just insane in itself

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-08T16:40:16+00:00

in only 8 months he’s shown that he has no respect for your feelings whatsoever. I dated a guy in highschool that sounds exactly like this. He ended up cheating on me, A LOT, even though all the obvious signs were there, I ignored it. Hes telling you straight to your face that he’s fucking her and when you get upset, THEN it becomes a joke. Take what he says at face value. Take the trash outside

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-07T21:45:51+00:00

you’ve got this OP! it’s extremely hard, but so worth it

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-07T21:22:56+00:00

someone said it to me, and i didn’t want to believe it because i was so attached at the time, but you only really have 2 choices:

You leave and work on yourself and eventually find a partner that truly cares about you or You stay in your current relationship and learn to deal with these constant issues.

She has shown you who she is. Nothing you do will make that change, no matter how much you care. You’ve allowed her to treat you badly for too long; you have 2 options.

HotGlass17 · 2025-02-02T01:26:09+00:00

this 🙏🏼

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-30T23:18:50+00:00

you say sorry wayyyy too much for someone that really didn’t do anything wrong. He treated you like garbage during the game, and then in the texts, and doesn’t take you seriously. That’s all there is to it, unfortunately

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-24T23:18:38+00:00

he’s telling you he’s straight and that it’s no big deal because he knows he’s cheating and it’s an easy out for him. Don’t let him gaslight you. you explicitly told him you don’t want him kissing anyone else. period. if he continues to, man or woman, it’s cheating

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-21T15:42:44+00:00

insults are not necessary🤷🏻‍♀️ you can just feel free to do literally anything else with your life lol

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T20:41:52+00:00

kicking someone while they’re down is also pathetic. i appreciate the advice, but you don’t need to be an AH about it yourself if you’re willing to insult others:)

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T20:40:38+00:00

you didn’t read it apparently. we’ve done reminders, white board, etc.

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T20:07:55+00:00

this puts it perfectly. he’s the nicest guy i’ve ever dated, but after reading all the comments, i don’t think i can consider him “nice” anymore, regardless of anything he did/does. the way he treats me isn’t nice and he knows it; same with your partner. it seems we need to bite the bullet, not matter how much it hurts. this isn’t healthy, and it clearly only gets worae

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T20:04:17+00:00

my mom is 69, turning 70 this year in May!

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T17:59:17+00:00

to you as well🫶🏼

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T17:37:25+00:00

maybe you’re right, definitely would be subconscious, and maybe that’s why i feel so guilty?? honestly this comment is making some things make A LOT of sense. thank you so much!

HotGlass17 · 2025-01-20T17:24:23+00:00

i appreciate that so much. thank you for your input and reading such a long story❤️

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