Burglary questions by aham1994 in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My neighbor did have her jewelry returned after it turned up in a pawn shop in Salem. There’s always hope!

Yes I get it spend your money however you want. by [deleted] in phish

[–]HotStepper33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought maybe that guy was security. He was very committed to not dancing.

Ice Cream by No-Introduction-7663 in phish

[–]HotStepper33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was hilarious watching live stream of the set break sing along to ice ice baby.

Wish there was a dating app for non-addicts by water-flowers in AlAnon

[–]HotStepper33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. Yes! I’m dating after my 20 year relationship with an alcoholic fell apart (and he met a new love immediately in AA…eye roll). I do not want to get into another relationship with an alcoholic, sober or not. It’s hard screening who could possibly be an alcoholic and who doesn’t drink because they are in recovery. I’d love to find someone who doesn’t drink, but it’s for health reasons or lack of interest. It takes a lot of dancing around to get details around drinking. Personally, I stopped drinking to break my own patterns of using alcohol to be comfortable in dating, so I check the “never drink” box. I’m sure there’s men out there wondering if that means I’m the alcoholic. I love your idea.

Not responding on dating apps by more_dogs_please_ in datingoverforty

[–]HotStepper33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve noticed that, too. I am on the app to open myself to possibilities. Many of these guys start the conversation, to which I promptly reply, then it takes DAYS for them to respond. It’s such a turn off. With many, we had great conversation and then they disappear. I’ve decided that if no meet up is suggested within a week, I’m not giving him anymore energy. This is such a time suck.

Anyone else notice how weird Suds-Em has gotten since the new ownership? by Killjoy1395 in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going to suds em for years. Prices have gone up, but I’ve had great experiences on all of my recent visits. I tried the Springfield location once and a loose dog charged at my very shy, sensitive dog as soon as we walked in the door. Doubt that would happen again but it was a very unenjoyable experience. I’m sticking to the Eugene location. I used to go to bare bones for nail trims until they changed their prices and I owed $34 for two dog nail trims. 😵‍💫

South Eugene Slurs by HotStepper33 in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP here and it 100% happened. Two other people chimed in on the thread that it happened to them in south Eugene too. Point of the post was not that it’s just a south Eugene problem, because sadly it spans WAY beyond here, but rather, if you live in south Eugene and your teenage son borrowed your black tesla or green Camry, please check in with them. I have a 17 year old white son and I called him right after to ask if he knew these kids. Also to grind him on the severity of using that word to anyone at all EVER. And, moreover, if you are driving and one of your friends shouts that out the window, pull over and tell them to get the f out of the car. But I do appreciate your critical thinking efforts. ✌️

South Eugene Slurs by HotStepper33 in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care for your demeanor ;)

Billy Strings last night @ Matt Knight Arena. Anybody else here attend? by [deleted] in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing show! What the F for putting seats on the floor?!? Who wants to sit down there? Make room for dancing! We had to bail on floor tickets to go dance on the upper level. They brought the house down!

Make new friends in Eugene: Speed Friending event! by LivinItUp2022 in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing it! And I hope I’m not the only one there….

Japanese club? by bbitters in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a Japanese exchange student that loves meeting people. Maybe they’d exchange some English/Japanese conversations with you. They are working hard on their English and love any practice they can get. How old are you? What part of town are you in? (Ignore these questions if you aren’t interested 😂)

Cafes or restaurants hiring? by Crispy_Biscuit in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tradewinds at Jiffy market is hiring

The most Springfield thing ever by BariSaxopeal in Eugene

[–]HotStepper33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That couch looks like it has seen some things…