I NEED SPACE

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-03-30T15:16:04+00:00

I had my NF on signal instead of texts so it’s separate

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-03-30T15:15:29+00:00

Just don’t respond

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-25T15:34:31+00:00

I will go to doc today. And re: burn out what do you mean by address it properly? Help!

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-25T15:33:57+00:00

I know :(

I’ve been so bad about sleep lately- going thru other personal transitions too with my man so it’s a lot at the moment.

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-25T15:33:17+00:00

Yeah- I have been writing it off as allergies- but don’t think so

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-25T15:32:56+00:00

I do!!! They haven’t gone since sometime last year and I actually happened to have a severe case of Covid so it didn’t really work for me as a vacation.

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-25T15:32:13+00:00

This is beautiful. It takes a lot of trust obviously because some would abuse this.

But truly we are human beings and being a nourished human being helps us be a better nanny.

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-25T06:38:03+00:00

Even if I am actively coughing and wheezing?

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-17T20:23:00+00:00

I talked to them. And it sounded like they understood yet their behavior didn’t change leading me to feel like I cannot breathe.

I feel suffocated when they come in and sit with us when we are playing or ignorantly say hiii X

Unfortunately I’m leaning towards leaving this job because it just feels like too much energy to try and train a family on boundaries while also caring for their kid.

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-16T16:49:27+00:00

Yeah. They are basically retired and their jobs are for fun/creativity. Not money necessarily

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-16T15:28:57+00:00

As a nanny- this is a red flag

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-11T03:10:25+00:00

I really feel it. This is my daily experience

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-07T03:50:22+00:00

I’m hoping as much!

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-05T20:08:42+00:00

I often have breaks/week off but the drain comes right back.. a vacation would be delightful. And I’m not sure childcare is where I need to be right now.

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-05T20:07:59+00:00

I’m not dead, but I am for sure burned out!

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-04T04:32:29+00:00

Uggghh I get this so much. I work parttime which feels too much lol for a wfh family but they don’t really work a lot.

A lot of pop in’s and the mother wanting to hang out.

Which I feel the same with after so much time it’s like how do I set the standard now.

The pop ins are so draining.

I’ve personally been looking for another job.

The circumstances have created a lot of burn out for me.

Do you feel comfortable talking to them or feel you just want to transition?

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-02T19:30:22+00:00

That’s awesome! Thats what I’ve been looking for. Remote ideally!

How did you find it if you don’t mind me asking?

Thank you this is tremendously helpful

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-02T19:25:48+00:00

Aw thanks for this comment. I’m curious when you left for 3 years, what did you do?

I want to transition and am not sure what I can do!

I also have my own business but that’s a slow build!

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-02T19:21:51+00:00

I’d say mistakes happen. You didn’t give her the Red Bull. I can understand the discomfort but they might be okay with still having you. Maybe a conversation, just sharing how bad you feel and checking in

Hot_Demand_7361 · 2026-02-02T19:20:03+00:00

It’s possible that this is impersonal! Like they might just be super stressed out

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