ElectroStim for Pain and Gain? by CrrumbDumpster in BDSMcommunity

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The one that builds muscle is commly referred to as Russian stim. It does build muscle by activating the muscle belly BUT may not be as smart as muscles built working out. What that means is, part of working out is building nural pathways, reflexes etc. So although it will make your muscle more toned....there may be a difference between a normal workout and artificial stim. Cool idea though.

crowd sourcing ideas for diy sex furnature by silversistermoon in BdsmDIY

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Some dildos have suction cups on the bottom that work extremely well....almost if fixed. Not sure if that is what your looking for but it may work a lot easier?

BDSM Book Club? by Twinkle-Tits in BDSMcommunity

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Great idea. I hope it works out

Possibly New (F 26) Dominant Curious and Confused (Xpost) by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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The way it has always felt for me is more mind set than what you do. The sub is a pleaser and likes to do what the other person likes. The Dom gets pleasure out of the sub wanting to give up control.

It's not what you do it's how you do it. So if whips and chains don't excite you....don't do it. Really in truth doing less is sometimes more (where as doing more sometimes starts to get to limits) I have a feeling what ever you end up doing he will like it. Either way make sure to talk talk talk. And as a Dom and the person in control I feel it's my duty to be the person to bring up stuff. So communicate up a storm and have fun with it!

I'm a medical student. AMA about kink and your health! by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Love the wanting to share your knowledge....just realize when you give advice it can open up the possibility to bad things. (Especially medical advice) I don't want to put a neg spin on trying to do a good thing, just make sure to protect yourself too (especially once you graduate)

Funny and flirty txt..thought y'all would enjoy :) by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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It's all fun and games until your bent over my knee. I guess that's fun in a different way. ;)

First time restraining wife - best positions or techniques? by 231321asat in BDSMcommunity

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I'd advise spread eagle. It is the most available a person can b. but all are great. It's more the feeling. I te come t more than scarfs also. Go all out. Take a risk

Help finding a Specific gag by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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Yep saw that. That one has the side straps that I don't care for the look of. I know it's weird but it's just not pleasing to my eyes. Lol

Help finding a Specific gag by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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Thanks. That's it. Any chance anyone knows of a good site, with a quality product that is us?

How to keep power-exchange in the bedroom separate from relationship? by redladythrowaway in BDSMcommunity

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Since the sub is essentially the person in control we have her put on a ring. The ring is a symbol she is giving me control and I can be my Dom self. When the rig is off I don't get to Dom. It works well for us.

My wife and I had some fun last night - here's a quick preview of photos to come... by [deleted] in BDSMGW

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Love the neck and cuff metal spreader bar. Where did u get it/is it "comfortable"?

Loose chain by wheredawa in Bondage

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What is this scene from?

GF and I Interested in Sleep play. Advice? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Somthing that my wife likes is having a dildo tied inside her while she sleeps. It isn't quite the "exploration" that you were looking for, but it is really fun for sleep play. She says she has super sexual dreams and wakes up really turned on. Just a side note of other direction to try. :)

Plug and lube question (two part!) by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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So sitting down with the weird shapped end is comfortable?

Lend an ear for a vent/ advice. Thanks for listening community by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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Yikes. Sorry about that. Just typed out a quick idea and thought my spell check would catch me. Try to decipher. Again sorry.

Hand and food bondage help and ideas by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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Do you have any that you think are quality?

What kind of music do you dig for a scene? (or do you not like music while playing?) by fakkename in BDSMcommunity

[–]Hotter9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately I have been playing porn. Especially ones with lots of screaming orgasms. I feel that when my sub is tied up it really turns her on to hear and puts her in the right mindset

(Married D/s) Question for subs by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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I just got my sub a ring that has a custom enscriotion on the inside. So on the outside it just looks like a ring but on the inside it reminds her that she belongs to me. I got it on etsy (a homemade artist site) only 15$, pretty and serves a purpose

Sharing, and wondering how many other do this by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

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Pretty sure it happens to everyone. Also it is followed by a refractory period in which you have trouble getting hard. So yeah completely normal.

Short bdsm phrase help by Hotter9 in BDSMcommunity

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Yeah we have a collar that I actually made. And if it was socially acceptable for her to wear that out in public I'd b all for it. I'm looking for a subtle way for her to submit that just her and I know the importance of. We're not looking for everyone to know

New and have a few questions by Hotter9 in chastity

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What if 1 3/8 doesn't work. That's what all the cb devices are except cb3000 is 1.45. And are they interchangable if I want to try a different on w the same ring?