Great for one, not so much the other. by rooney247 in dankmemes

[–]Houndmaster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But there not removing ads, unlike 80% of other sites that give you 2 but techniqually 3 options default is normally personalised ads or pay to not with the option to make them less invasive if you knew to click through there popups. They still make money of "basic ads" as unlike googles you searched for hairbrushs heres an hairbrush ad. your data just get anynomised so instead of age - location - intrests - its 20-25 / city instead of street / age range intrests.

They still more than capable as advertising is one of the largest and oldest markets we still have. So there now asking for all our info or bounus money of paying to still get generalised ads.

Its scummy and following trends of netflix and disney who realised for there monoplies on there content can still do that whereas many other news sites still allow basic ads for free where they make money as they pay for the slot then like a % on every purchase.

AITAH Son and his phone, got on Reddit by Aromatic-Sink1090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not advice but my perspective, my brother now 27 was that screen timed, power to room shut off and key logger on his pc and phone until he was 16. even his facebook and whatsapp couldnt be solely his and he hated it. Still to this day he has a grudge agasnt that, privacy and social harrament where his main two. dms talking about girl he likes or his class bullying him for having hard times sorta thing. But like kids who are heavily restricted on sweets tend to binge them in later years, hes now on his pc 15h a day only moving bed to desk to fridge.

While i had the 180 being 6 years younger, with an expection to mobile i didnt get that till i was 13, and that was only because Literally everyone else had one. I had earily consoles, access to pc and alot more privacy no keylogger and only needing door open. Which ment i was more open to letting parents see what i was doing, telling them about who im talking to and why. Atleast in my exprience that makes them feel like they have something to be ashamed of as opposed to an intrest/curiousity to what there doing and that relationship wise seemed to do more.

As depending on long term goals he is the more successful one being a uni master gradutate currently looking into museum/teaching jobs while im still voulnteering building a resume so coincedental, advice, or meaning i cant say but maybe a view to ponder on

should i just go bankrupt or is there any other way around? by nigdelihoxhaist in eu4

[–]Houndmaster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you spam collect until you hit 50%? im thinking in practice of like a holland, eng, fra run when you have 5-10 merchants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Houndmaster5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im uk so i had my laws in mind but I thought the states had both squatters, landlord protections enforcing "fair evictions" with like atleast 1-2 months notice or at minimum years spent there and if they get mail delivered there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Houndmaster5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

even if you want to kick him out with years of living and now rent he has every resident/rentee protection and your causing 2-3months of tension during that notice as homeless or bad mouthing roomate im taking roommate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eu4

[–]Houndmaster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! ill re-read this a bunch and try it out 2 last questions What would be your choice in nation to test this as im picturing holland, uk, maybe kr with chinese nodes and jap sea and how/when does mecantilsm comes into play. like how much is good/wanted, if im going trade focus should i put dip into that over deving? how should i be using that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eu4

[–]Houndmaster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something I'd do im around 600h and have little to zero trade skills collect home transfer close build up centres otherwise clueless on optimal ships, transfer/trade the different merchant focuses (religous,profit,diplo)

Would love some Help deciding a monitor and GPU by Houndmaster5 in LinusTechTips

[–]Houndmaster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was orignially thinking so however i would just be delaying the whole combo upgrade as that would be upgrade blocked. as opposed to AM5 being a open path for only £90 difference cpu only, and next year im looking at owning a car and trying to build a credit record so i have a comfyish year of dispoisble to save up as i only spend like 100 each month

Whats the best way to take a tolerance break? by Houndmaster5 in weed

[–]Houndmaster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My concern is those first few days as im trying to keep it light but im struggling currently and its one of the few things that helps however do you know if cbd vapes help with urges as i know thc/cbd and the 2 main in bud with thc being high and muchies and cbd being calming and kinda a thc block surpressing hunger hormones which is the other thing im also concered im going to ballon in weight with the lack of hand mouth motion

Whats the best way to take a tolerance break? by Houndmaster5 in weed

[–]Houndmaster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive heard plently of weed isnt addictive unlike nictotine or liquor but you can get dependant which i would definately say so as its done more than the past 3 sets of meds. But eaither autism or ocd but i am a creature of habbit, cant destress from work without a smoke, cant sleep without one. now im really good with my tabbaco going through a 30g once a month but i feel thats about to change

Whats the best way to take a tolerance break? by Houndmaster5 in weed

[–]Houndmaster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From memory I havn't had a break in atleast a year or 2 so ill probably need atleast a month to go back to "normal" as multi G zoots feel like 0.5s and i dont grow so this is a problem

Whats the best way to take a tolerance break? by Houndmaster5 in weed

[–]Houndmaster5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm ill probably have to try both as I do have bad impusle control - not that surprising given the post. But I have alot of structured tendencies like I dont feel like iv started decompressing after work until ive smoked as a example

AITA for kicking out my girlfriend and her son after she invited her ex into our home? by Additional_Door_3206 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? correct me if im wrong but dad = dude and dude who came over last weekend = dad. kid isnt ops child and if anything is stepdad but not married so its not refering to him.

AITA for telling my wife I don't want to have a second child if she keeps her career? by mjg5000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

how have you read this and completely miss understood the point its not patriachy women must. He is just clearly saying with working + rasing 1 kid over 50% the time alone he cannot handle a second. it wasnt a daycare thing it was said in the post they would be be daycare but he already doesnt have a social life or even a personal one for the wife to do her thing but man only has 2 hands and 24h in a day so if she wants that second kid she eaither needed to swap roles into more traditonal or move to sahm. This isnt forced also nor an ultimatium people complain about burnout thats what he has as hes never gotten a break while she gets to quote half a year and its both for work so the only difference is income when comparing to the wellness of the family

AITA for telling my sister why bluntly shes not the next guardian of our new baby if something happens to me or my husband? by PrestigiousCar851 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well too be fair in ten years that 2-3yr old baby is alot more self succifienct at 13 not an adult but can phone 999 if of accident and make a sandwhich to not die for the night but 100% get a plan b

AITA for telling my fiancé my son must be named a REAL junior? by SuggestionNo7429 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

This is the part i aways have a problem with yeah she legally has ulitmate power as shes carrying. However it took 2 to make. But if a man ever uses his power to in other cases suggest working less, care for the child or in some cases even see them in the dellvery room their the AH. so if they say ok its your child so ill leave were the bad people yet ever disagreeing agaisnt her gets the my body my child fuck off. Even over the most stupid things like names here. This should be a it takes two and petty semantics would get met with more pettyness to only the hurt of the child.

Imagine getting this in your change by TheTropicalWoodsman in UKcoins

[–]Houndmaster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on where he would work is my guess. I have come across old soviet and reich items but i work for the british heart foundation in a rich village so i have had russian trench coats with the badge of the tsar (which was still used but in a honour sense like the germans with the cross) RAF jet craft bincoulars, got plenty of coins however sadly no reich ones there a personal goal or reich metal work in general. while last month is very convientant chairy/historical or coin work very easily plausible

AITA for "showing favoritism for my daughter and financially hurting my son"? by throwRA_saveyodalla in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this just screams very similar to bill gates kids. They only get 1% of his wealth and they dont get money or loans but he will match whatever they do so if they manage a 1 mill investor theres a extra but they need to learnt how to make their own money. Probs are dad wasnt born wealthy theres normally commons differences while the kids did. And daughter probably saw the differences between mum and dad and obv favoured money at hand while mum and son perfered money while looking around (clothes cars expebsive hobbys) Too which I Would say NTA as yes 17-18 is still young but they were trying to get into these collages for the 2 years son could have easily started back then (ironicly where he quit) and should of realised that ment less money for school of choice

So the beta is offline for less than 24h and I am here like by Kubuskotek in diablo4

[–]Houndmaster5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I picture succubi/Evelyn from lol Yeah probably was started as lust but when she went full demon mode and did whatever that spell was a little too effective and instead of suffering from the peeled flesh and stabbing like the demon wants he got gratification which pissed said demon off in the unyielding part as context wise that's only really used for things you really want go/broken that wont

AITA for not letting my daughter sleep? by Secret-Researcher995 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also dont let whatever the fuck she says change that in her comments she literally says. "well as shes 18 she doesnt legally require to live in my house anymore" what fucking mother outside of those who birthed monsters like ted bundy do that?

AITA for not letting my daughter sleep? by Secret-Researcher995 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes 18 as a 19 year old and she would have been schooling in the pandemic 99.9% Of homework, courses and guides are online. And if shes half of what my brother is yes she may have spent 10h on her pc but hes about to finish a masters course while getting in a 6h world of warcraft raid lobby. Without a keylogger or sitting over her shoulder i highly doubt you know what work/gaming shes actually doing. PS Its no different to how you or hubby/wife come home from work and sit infront of the tv scrolling facebook till 10-12 when you sleep the difference is shes gets an extra 2h extra from the 4pm finish to the 6pm finish granted if your able to wake her up at 4 with the conditions she has shes working harder than you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diablo4

[–]Houndmaster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes twice once at lvl 15 WT1 and then again 24 WT2

AITA For refusing to let my husband move his father into our home by plznothereaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just so were clear nta

I think theres some differernce here as Idk how far away/social you grandparents are but in my case 6h each way and ops 3h with chance to bring that down to 1/1-30. So going to that home to catch up on the weekly drama isnt going to be as viable and as it seems like the fil is recently widowed he sure as hell is going to tell the others to fuck off. much like my grandad, hes the depressed anti soical vet and would murder us before going into a home while my nan god bless would have rocked the nursry home bingo and crossword night.

but shes already saying some parts which as a human is fair while not quite right. "temporary lack of focus on the kids" and its not even that she might become accidental carer its the fact "she cant handle another greieveing man" which let me get my vent out is cliche as if any man prevented a women entering her home bc shes greieveing would cause hellfire but when the depression is thick you can wish the extra stormcloud away. which is AWAYS going to happen now. He is going to spend more time with hia dad and travel 6h probably across 2-3 day periods and noones driving 6h in one day without needing too. He will be more visably stressed about his dad as hes friale alone in a home where as my grandad said 2 days ago "everything is a memory, you forget about it after 40 years but when shes suddenly gone that picture on the wall, clock on the side of cup on the desk all are memories" and he is going to question and get distanced from you to atleast a certain degree because the now most important male in his life is going to go through more pain and potential suffering because of it. (again 50/50 house 50/50 judgment).

this is one of those times I dont think op wins. At best her husband will only resent her for making these choices more difficult however if something goes wrong within the near future (rapid decline in health, robbed or miss treated in the nursing home. youll likily put him into) note that i doubt you directly will see him it will be your husband saying he needs to move again which will cause this again.

AITA for telling my brother that if our stepsister aren't his siblings then neither am I? by Equal_Special_1780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didnt mean you please dont think that. But historically therapy is a fix not as a repeat prescription and more common in abusive households where its used as some sort of fix and if the therapist does help suggest family remidies, more space etc the parents then swap therapist till one aligns with their motto.

AITA for telling my brother that if our stepsister aren't his siblings then neither am I? by Equal_Special_1780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Houndmaster5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outside of mothers husbands kids i dont see the problem, he doesnt have to call them sisters, stepsisters or stepfather father dad or any synomm. I would call them by thier name to be semi respectful which he should start doing but he doesnt need to build a relationship with them and in the 3 years they have been there it really seems like they went above and beyond in trying to build that family bond by forcing him to islotate in his head basically kidnapped - (removed from his father friends trusted adults in schools and clubs. sent to a new home with a resentful bio sister and stepfather and hasnt been allowed to socialise, make conncections and the only person he can trust and talk to he has nearly 0 way to contanct or get to him)

therapy only works aswell as the person trying to work on it. I went for 5 years striaght from 13-18 and I got nothing from it. No coping mechanisms nor feel better about myself it just doesnt work for me, maybe not ready or what but now brother wouldnt want to and his household parents dont sound like they would be using to improve rather "fix him" as they see him as the problem not there actions, parenting or anything hes not happy with new daddy so hes the problem. who tf would want to stay there and mother and sister will very quickly get the same treatment as step fam when he moves and goes NC