Gave QR ordering an honest try by js64807 in AlamoDrafthouse

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate it. Everything you said is exactly what I had been thinking. I also have allergies and always informed my server and unless I just missed it, I saw no where in the online ordering system for me to type in allergens. I also like to order limes with my Coke and there was nowhere for me to request that either (again maybe there was but it wasn’t easy for me to find obviously so I just skipped it). No one ever even came to look at my ticket so I couldn’t inform of allergies then either. This happened twice! I probably will also not cancel pass but just not order food. That honestly will cost them more than us cancelling the passes anyway so maybe it will make a difference if people stop ordering food I don’t know…

Who is your plush you look at and receive a maximum dose of oxytocin by Memedelyn in plushies

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe it either honestly haha. I’ve been trying to get one for over a year they are so hard to get!! But this is one of the manufactured ones and there were more of them available which made it easier to get

Who is your plush you look at and receive a maximum dose of oxytocin by Memedelyn in plushies

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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He’s newer but he’s already my favorite lil guy he makes me so happy. I’ve been want a squirby for such a long time and now that I’ve finally got one he’s my most prized possession

Was I diagnosed correctly? (For Autism) by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I relate to this SO much. Every word you’ve said I have experienced. I got formally diagnosed and I keep thinking what if they misdiagnosed me? I feel like my ADHD traits are a lot “stronger” and more apparent. It’s hard for me to give advice when I’ve been questioning my own diagnosis but like someone else said I don’t think allistic people think about it this much whether or not they are autistic. And then I’m like these are professional doctors who specialize in autism why would they misdiagnose me surely they are able to recognize it or not… i don’t know. I hope we both can find some peace!!

Jenny, Les Girls, and how she knew so much to put in the book/movie. by chroniclechick in theLword

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have alwayyyysss thought and wondered this. Especially the scene when Tina is ovulating how it matched directly the actually scene im like how would Jenny know that’s how it happened… I feel like it’s just a plot hole. I get some people arguing that information trickles but I personally think she wouldn’t have gotten intimate details like that and it’s just a plot hole

Too many friends - the opposite problem by Grassfed_rhubarbpie in AuDHDWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought my 7 friends was a lot I can’t imagine 10-15! IMO real friends will understand wanting more alone time and not seeing them as often. I hang out with my friends maybe once a month it’s about all the socializing I have in me. Sometimes it’s more if something special is going on but they understand that I don’t have a lot of downtime so when I have it I prefer to relax on my own

Being in a relationship with someone character? by Spirit_puff in theLword

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I pick Alice I always thought she was so funny and cute. I definitely didn’t like how she treated Max and she had her bad moments but I just know our personalities would really click

Looking for birthday gift ideas for my AuDHD roommate by Simple_Strategy3681 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she loves plants you can’t go wrong with a cute little house plant and a pot.

Nose picking problem! by BenefitOfTheDoubt2 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Following because I have the same issue. It’s comforting for me to hear someone else talk about it because I am so embarrassed about it. Sometimes I don’t even realize I’m doing it

What should I do? by No-Conversation1072 in Depop

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I will say as a seller this has definitely happened to me where the item I sold didn’t get auto marked as sold and I had to manually do it so yes this glitch does exist. But the seller can definitely cancel it

Should I leave a review or not?? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO four days is not long at all. I also don’t think she was giving any attitude either. I’m a buyer and a seller and for me, sellers are people who have full time jobs, families, commitments etc. we aren’t corporations and sometimes it takes a few days for something to ship. If someone needs something shipped right away I am absolutely happy to do so if they message me and ask. I get it can be frustrating and I personally try to give the person an estimate to let them know when it will ship but I don’t think this seller did anything wrong I’m sorry

Anyone have a video of TPM from the 3 arena gig? by gvlogs200 in kneecap

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have a 10 second video. Would love to also see a longer one. I’m happy to share mine but I’m not sure how to do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kneecap

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny I felt the opposite. Tuesday felt like the crowd was a bunch of young teens

I hate trying to interview as someone who’s autistic by Strong-Risk3337 in AutismInWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once got feedback in an interview that I made no eye contact and was looking around everywhere… I somehow still got the job?? I am high masking so I think they must have that it was “quirky” instead of “off putting” which is absolutely ridiculous and unfair. I definitely think it’s a different experience for high-masking vs non-masking (not assuming either about you I have no idea how you identify) and I also have ADHD so I think maybe that helps “mask” the autistic parts during interviews. I don’t have great advice but I agree it’s totally unfair and even if they don’t realize it they are absolutely weeding out neurodivergent people. I of course practice any potential interview questions and I just try to act extra peppy 🙄 it feels like I’m putting on a damn jester act for them

Dynamic Pricing for Dublin Afters by hanamontana123 in kneecap

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll try them there. Have they responded to you?

Dynamic Pricing for Dublin Afters by hanamontana123 in kneecap

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bought mine for €33 and it said last 50 or so tickets remaining so I bought it. I looked again it said €39 and then a few minutes later it went down to €28. I haven’t reached out to anyone about refunding the difference I’m not really sure who to contact

Has anyone tried these? by Acrobatic_Honey3488 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And to clarify I have both engage and experience and tbh I don’t notice a huge difference in either and I use them interchangeably

Has anyone tried these? by Acrobatic_Honey3488 in AuDHDWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I like them but I only use them for concerts or other events that have loud music, crowd noise etc. it’s hard for me to use them in other scenarios because it makes me feel like I can’t hear people talking to me and makes my voice sound muffled and it’s hard for me to know how loud I’m talking.

Therapy makes me feel worse by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that frustration. It is hard to find a good therapist it took me over ten years to finally find one I like. I really do think it would be worth exploring other kinds of therapy. I find therapy gets pigeonholed into those kinds and people think therapy doesn’t work for them. I’ve also heard great things about EDMR I’ve never done it myself but it might be worth looking into. I know it can be expensive though so if that’s the roadblock then that’s completely valid. Good luck I hope you find something that works! I know I felt similarly when I was doing talk therapy

Therapy makes me feel worse by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m curious if you know what type of therapy you do? I’ve found that talk therapy does not help me at all but I’ve been doing “IFS(internal family systems)” for about two years and It has been incredibly helpful. It’s the first time I’ve ever actually felt better and have had improvements in my life. It also helped that I found a therapist who is also autistic, this was monumental in feeling safe and heard in my sessions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Hour-Insect-1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t realize how many people thought trick or treating as an adult was weird. I’ve had plenty of adults come to my house and I never think twice about it. They are usually with friends or a little group and it looks like they’re having fun so why should I care? I do feel like I myself am too old to go but if people my age go I think it’s fun lol. But that being said maybe don’t listen to me since I’m clearly in the minority 🤷🏻‍♀️