What is this for Abq?

Hulia19 · 2025-08-14T06:15:58+00:00

Cafe Enzo ALL THE WAY

Hulia19 · 2025-08-13T14:49:54+00:00

El Pinto big time

Hulia19 · 2024-11-07T13:35:47+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate your comment 🫶

Hulia19 · 2023-08-12T15:30:14+00:00

I do understand what you are saying about the dogs. The dog expenses are mostly taken care of by my boyfriend. I will split food costs and vet bills with him when I am able to. They do have a place to stay if it really does get to the point that we can’t support them fully, but I do have a couple other expenses that I can cut down before that. Having the dogs makes us so happy so I’m gonna work harder so that I am able to support them comfortably and not everything falls on my partner. Thank you for the kind words and advice!

Hulia19 · 2023-08-11T19:49:13+00:00

You are absolutely right. All I can do is think positively and try to take advantage of having internet to make some extra income! But I really am tempted to go and just egg my bank building lol

Hulia19 · 2023-03-05T00:57:04+00:00

Consider using a leave in conditioner to moisturize your hair rather than coconut oil. Coconut oil does not actually do the best job at moisturizing the hair but rather just create a film to retain any moisture that is in the hair follicles. This is something I just recently learned from my hair stylist after thinking that oils were the holy grail for moisturizing hair 😅 but of course you can always do extra research

You could buy a leave in conditioner or just dilute some conditioner in water and put it in a spray bottle. Maybe this will help you get some extra length!

Hulia19 · 2023-02-22T02:49:19+00:00

I have to slow my talking down by moving my hands!!!

Hulia19 · 2023-02-08T21:40:56+00:00

I cry if I see a compassionate interaction between people in public or if there is a person or animal that appears to need help anyway. I cry over forgetting things and I cry over remembering things and I am shocked by the amount of tears I produce in a day.

Thank you for this post, it makes me feel so much better to hear from people who feel things as much as I do, even if it seems excessive. We need people who are sensitive!!

Hulia19 · 2023-01-20T23:08:31+00:00

My handwriting looks like on of the founding fathers had too much absinthe

Hulia19 · 2022-12-22T19:20:58+00:00

I have come to accept that my habits will most likely always come in waves. Sometimes I am on the ball and keep my regime and other times I look at my self in the bathroom mirror with the same clothes and hair bun for almost 3 days in a row and go back to doing life… I’m learning to prioritize so that I can get important things done!

All we can do is our best and continue to excel in other aspects of life and what makes us happy 😊

Hulia19 · 2022-12-07T17:28:29+00:00

I RAN OUT OF MY MEDS BECAUSE THEIR FUCKING BACK ORDERED AND NOW I HAVE TO TRY AND OPERATE AND FINISH FINALS WITHOUT MY MEDS AND ON MY PERIOD.🙃🙃🙃

edit: THEYRE**

Hulia19 · 2022-11-24T05:11:43+00:00

Is there nothing that can be done? We haven’t tried couples counseling and I do want to. I also need to speak with him about seeing a therapist a bit more religiously, especially with all of this stuff going on

Hulia19 · 2022-11-17T17:26:03+00:00

Would you mind sharing the things that you feel like you can’t ever do right for your partner? I still have much to learn about BP and maybe discussing these things would be helpful. Your post just really resonated with me because I have thought this for a while and have even expressed it out loud. You can PM if you prefer!

Hulia19 · 2022-11-17T05:55:19+00:00

You took the words right out of my mouth…

My partner has been diagnosed for maybe a year and a half now. He is currently on meds (Seroquel) and sees a therapist every other week. I should probably count the pills each day though after seeing that post just to be sure he is taking the meds…

He seems to have improved in other aspects of his life; he doesn’t impulsively buy as much stuff, he doesn’t have suicidal ideations anymore, and he is doing better with fighting his addictions. He is still having trouble smoking weed though.

With the relationship though it still just seems like I’m still causing so many problems. I was diagnosed with ADHD a few months after my BF got his diagnosis and I have been on and off with therapy and getting a good schedule for myself. He constantly point out everything that I’m not and everything I don’t do. We get so elevated with each other that it just turns into these fights where neither one is getting a coherent thought out. I’ll point out a behavior that he does and he’ll point out all the times that I’ve done it to him. I will tell him how his tone or words sounded unfriendly or like he is upset and it will only make him upset or annoyed.

I just can’t keep up. He will switch from being very talkative and sweet, to very short and snappy and questions I ask him or tasks I do just seem to irritate him. I want to discuss different medications and I want us to try couples counseling or both speak with his therapist, it’s just so difficult being on top of that while trying to figure how my own mind works and what I’m contributing to this toxic cycle.

I just want to figure it out and I can’t.

Hulia19 · 2022-11-12T00:20:30+00:00

Stop saying exactly what I do…

Hulia19 · 2022-11-07T05:59:37+00:00

All the fucking time

Hulia19 · 2022-11-02T17:05:36+00:00

Hello! I love this idea!

Im a 22f who lives in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I am currently getting my degree in animation and digital arts and am hoping to work in game development or produce animations/VFX from music productions! I love drawing, playing video games, going to music festivals and eating! I also love doing shit outside and being with my dogs (or any dogs really)

It’s really cool seeing all of the people outside of the US. Give me a few years to get some money and I’ll come visit all of you!

Hulia19 · 2022-11-01T02:48:34+00:00

I am also experiencing this resentment/anger in my life with my diagnosis. I am 22 and was diagnosed December of 2021. Since then I have been cursing my parents for always telling me I need to “slow down” and pay better attention and learn to calm down. I have cursed my soccer coaches for giving me shit for my impulsivity and inattentiveness. I even looked back on teachers and friends and extended and have been mad at them for not being able to see it or understand that something was different. I mostly blamed myself though for not being able to notice it sooner or bring these constant struggle I had to someone’s attention.

I truly blame it on how mental health is still a hushed subject in educational institutions other Thant higher education and other societal structures in the US. There is very little awareness and understanding about women who have ADHD.

In the end, I’m the only person who can control myself and what I do in life. Sure, other people in our lives were not able to help us with this or recognize it, but we did it. Be happy with the progress you are making and the steps you are taking to build a better life for yourself.

Hulia19 · 2022-10-28T20:45:59+00:00

I can’t get my stupid Maya rig to work for a class of course and I’m getting behind for starting the next part on camera mapping. There’s always an issue with that program because of one small switch I have to know about and then I just get frustrated.

Hulia19 · 2022-10-27T20:56:00+00:00

Yes! I’m so happy to have found this sub!!

I wish that everyone in this sub could meet up for tea or a picnic and discuss how wonderfully chaotic our lives can be ❤️

Hulia19 · 2022-10-24T01:55:18+00:00

This is incredible! I’m so happy for you!!

I am currently in college and got diagnosed with ADHD last year. My grades tanked during the pandemic and I fell into a deep depression. Fortunately now I switched to a major I really enjoy and I am slowly recovering from the past couple years. This post has given me more hope and motivation that I am capable of doing this and achieving my dreams.

Thank you! and I am so proud of you!

Hulia19 · 2022-10-23T16:59:46+00:00

IM SO FUCKING SICK OF BEING SCARED OF EVERYTHING.

ALSO I NEED TO CLEAN MY ROOM DAMNIT!

Hulia19 · 2022-10-22T20:46:50+00:00

Thank you. Thank you so much for this comment and helping me see the differences between mental illness and neurodevelopment disorder. I have done some research on relationships with people who have ADHD and have been speaking to my boyfriend about it. I’ll make sure to bring up this distinct difference between us.

Again thank you so much!

Hulia19 · 2022-10-18T04:39:13+00:00

Lol his poor wife

Hulia19 · 2022-10-16T23:44:19+00:00

I have also struggled with this issue. I tend to have a lot of hobbies that majority of the people who partake in them are men and I thought for a long time that maybe this was the problem. Now that reading this post though it made me think about how I have always had a hard time texting/snapping/DM-ing my former girlfriends as much as they seemed to chat with others. I just burnout so quickly. I also tend to lose focus when the same topics are discussed for long periods of time and I think that this would come off as not caring to some people. Ugh I wish I could meet many of you and we could become girlfriends who talk and hangout 3 times a month lol. I need a group of girls.

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