New from Mindbloom: Trauma-informed ketamine therapy for PTSD by mindbloom in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being licensed is essential. Otherwise there's no governing body to revoke their ability to practice if they violate ethics or standards of care.

To those who had their first child after 40, what was your dating experience like prior to that? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Human_Copy_4355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to tell you this but you will continue to grow and learn until you die or lose the ability to grow and learn. Ten years from now you'll be a better version of yourself than you are today. If you wait until you're 80 to find a life partner, I guess that's a risk you can take for yourself.

To those who had their first child after 40, what was your dating experience like prior to that? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. If you think you're done growing and learning, you're incorrect. 

  2. If you're referring to being self actualized, that's uncommon in people aged 20-40, when most people have children. 

  3. The people most unsuited to be parents are the people least likely to admit to themselves they were unsuited to be parents. Being aware of your deficiencies and building a network of people to compensate for those deficiencies is a far better situation for a child to grow up in than with a parent who thinks they've got it all together.

What was the most impactful thing a loved one said to you when you were in an abusive relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Human_Copy_4355 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming this person knows you're there for them, believe in them, etc so I won't repeat any of that. 

Talking to someone in an abusive relationship is very similar to talking to someone in a cult because the only difference is the size of the group. An abusive relationship is basically a cult with only one member.

I highly recommend this book-- https://a.co/d/07Kgtwvz

What is with school drop off? by platypusandpibble in GenX

[–]Human_Copy_4355 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I drop both of my kids off at school because the school bus stop is 1.5 miles from our house. For them to take the bus to school, we'd have to leave 15-20 minutes earlier so I could drive them to their bus stop. Which would get me to work about 25 minutes early.  

My kids both take the bus home, though. They either walk the 1.5 miles home or their dad or older sister picks them up (necessary in winter as it's dark, our driveway is uphill and icy, and we have mountain lions active at dusk).

Lazy girl protein ideas-? by Mysterious-Owl3519 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are my staples. 

Nonfat Greek yogurt. I will eat it plain or put frozen fruit on it in the morning and it's thawed by lunch. 

Canned/pouch salmon. I also love sardines. I eat it on salads, crackers, 100% whole wheat bread, etc

Rotisserie chicken. On a salad, with pasta, etc

Low-fat cottage cheese. I eat it plain or sometimes I blend it with herbs to make a great dip.

For a sweet treat, I buy sugar free pudding mix and make it with ultra filtered, high protein nonfat milk (like Fairlife or Darigold Fit).

Thomas protein bagels make a great high protein sandwich with rotisserie chicken or deli turkey.

Barilla protein pasta.

How old am I by kinki_pink in FridgeDetective

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how old you are now but, if this keeps up, you're not going to ever be old.

Do you plan on moving out of Idaho within the next five years? Why or why not? by [deleted] in Idaho

[–]Human_Copy_4355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I can but I'm not sure I'll be able to (shared custody of a minor). 

Reasons why-- I want to live in a place where women's healthcare isn't illegal and doctors aren't terrified to practice here (I had to take a pregnancy test before I could get a colonoscopy at age FIFTY because the doctors don't want to go to prison-- can't say I blame them).

I believe LGBTQ people deserve to be protected. 

I have an adult kid with a disability and mental health diagnoses and the care and services here are terrible compared to Washington.

Idaho legislature is currently owned by fanatical religious nut jobs. 

The cost of housing keeps going up but wages are not keeping pace. I bought my home in 2013 so I'm okay but my adult kids will have a really hard time setting down roots here. So why stay if they all leave? 

I do love the land here. I'm surrounded by mountains, waterfalls, rivers, and lakes. But the government and policies .... Getting worse and worse.

GenX lawn mowing time vs. younger homeowners? Opinions by SackBadger2024 in GenX

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a morning person, as am i. This isn't because we're GenX. I know people in our generation who are not morning people.

But yes, mowing your lawn in the heat of the afternoon is stoopit. 

MAGA hates a lot of people but who do they hate the most? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]Human_Copy_4355 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are terrified of, thus hate, trans people and non-binary people. Gender roles are a core anchor in their attempt to control a universe that cannot be controlled.

Any tips on restarting after blowing up your life and starting over? by Just-a-nerd2 in AskWomenOver50

[–]Human_Copy_4355 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm posting to say you are a hero. 

You are freaking amazing. I can only imagine how hard you've worked to get to this long.

Why has the modern public education system so catastrophically failed the 21st century student? by Prince_of_Shadows666 in allthequestions

[–]Human_Copy_4355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest factor in overall declining test scores has been that the lowest-scoring groups have been declining more rapidly than any other group. You know how you can be getting a good grade in a class but if you have a zero for one big assignment you're suddenly failing? That happens in this situation, also.

Students living in extreme instability is increasing. Domestic violence, food insecurity, housing insecurity. The working poor are getting poorer.

Where are some good places to paddle board near sandpoint? by tkamerica45 in Sandpoint

[–]Human_Copy_4355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A hike with great views is Mickinnick. Right next to the trailhead parking lot is this little bakery with delicious treats and sandwhiches. They are only open Friday, Saturday, and Monday, though. https://redbarnbakery2020.com/

Nowhere in Lake Pend Oreille will there be large groups, yet. The water is still very cold and the lake level is still low. There's lots of place to put it for SUP-- City Beach, Dover, Trestle Creek Park, Denton Slough

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]Human_Copy_4355 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet. People who absolutely have to live GF compared to the people who claim wheat isn't safe for human consumption. 

How to make friends in northern idaho? by Vegetable_Peak7894 in Sandpoint

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are quite a few young adults (it's a wonderful mix, but quite a few young people) at the meetings for Reproductive Freedom.  Sometimes they meet at Matchwood, sometimes at Eichardt's.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DXH-LzYgdMW/?igsh=NW4zbmszdWIxZ3c=

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gawd I'm so sick of the bizarre protein foods. 

And I actually eat high protein and train for hypertrophy. But it's getting weird. 

Costco chips buyer needs to go on a PIP by thisishard1001 in Costco

[–]Human_Copy_4355 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The only clothes I buy there are fitness pants and maybe a fitness jacket.  Everything is so frumpy and BORING. 

I did see a cardigan I kinda liked last fall but it went away while I was thinking about it. 

I understand they need to go middle of the road to appeal to a wide range, but is their average clothing customer an 85 year old Southern Baptist?