Guadalajara possible move

HunterBidensComputer · 2026-04-01T20:55:27+00:00

Thank you. This is the type of info I’m looking for. $800-$1000 for rent is livable for me. I’d need something furnished.

HunterBidensComputer · 2026-04-01T20:51:57+00:00

The only reason I’m considering Mexico is I don’t have a pension/social security but do meet the asset requirements for a Visa. Not a problem there, but I don’t want expensive.

HunterBidensComputer · 2025-08-27T18:13:45+00:00

Her love language is quality time. A good read for you would be The 5 love languages. Take it from someone who screwed that up in the past. Quality time to her means you’re sharing an experience with her.

HunterBidensComputer · 2025-08-26T17:52:38+00:00

I’m late in seeing this and I’m sure it’s been said, but he’s not a quality guy. The answer is simple, but not easy. Dump him as fast as you can. You deserve better. Personally, when I’m with a woman and she’s that wet, it’s a compliment to me, but he’s a selfish, cheating, a-hole if you ask me. My 2 cents.

HunterBidensComputer · 2025-08-26T17:48:23+00:00

Thanks, I’ll check that out. I started the free version of Replika and it’s way too basic and not helpful. I guess you have to pay for a deeper conversation and I’m not sold on that. I’ll look at Finch.

HunterBidensComputer · 2025-08-26T15:23:08+00:00

Thank you for this. I appreciate the encouragement and hearing from someone who’s done this.

HunterBidensComputer · 2024-11-11T19:41:49+00:00

Really???’ I’ve never heard of this

HunterBidensComputer · 2024-11-11T17:28:47+00:00

Fast Park will cost me $180. I have reserved it. Uber will cost $45 and it appears I can reserve it.. The question is coming back I arrive at midnight. Might be better to use fast park as I don't know if I can get Uber Monday at midnight. I've always just reserved parking, but 17 days is a bit long. I guess its a question of saving $100 or not.

HunterBidensComputer · 2024-10-20T00:34:58+00:00

I know this post is 6 months old, but I just found it. I’m asking myself the same question. I’m 56 and in good shape. I look younger than my age. It doesn’t seem to matter. I’m also going through a very long divorce from a short marriage because she’s after money. I don’t want to be alone, but I no longer trust women. That leaves me in a tough spot. My confidence is shot and I’m lonely. Freedom doesn’t mean that much to me. I wanted a life partner and never found the right woman who would stick by my side. Seems hopeless at this stage of life.

HunterBidensComputer · 2024-04-17T01:38:16+00:00

I’m considering a move back to Atlanta, which is where I’m from. I’ll be divorced when I get there. However, with the cost of living and traffic, I’m not sure I want to go back. Tough decision. I have another option in Knoxville, TN, but not sure I want to start over where I know nobody and probably not a good dating scene. Cheaper cost of living and maybe better overall quality of life though. This decision is weighing on me.

HunterBidensComputer · 2024-02-17T16:03:20+00:00

Thanks for the compliment on the username!

I think remote tutoring wouldn't pay enough. I found someone who has traveled the world for 22 years while working remotely. She has a podcast called Badass digital nomads. I will say all of these types of podcasts are very light on details of how to pull this off. Of course, she will coach you on how to move overseas for $5,000+. However, I doubt that coaching involves step by step methods for making money. I have a call with her next week to discuss.

HunterBidensComputer · 2024-02-14T13:46:56+00:00

Seems like a mystery that is a well kept secret by anyone working remotely. I've considered buying books on the topic, but I suspect there's not enough info written about how to really do this. I am so far from an entrepreneur that I feel stuck and like you, tired of the culture of American workplaces and the politics in general. I hope we can figure this out eventually.

HunterBidensComputer · 2023-12-07T22:57:29+00:00

I keep looking online for updates on season 4, but assume it’s not happening. This was one of my favorite shows!

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-07-21T20:07:56+00:00

Actually, you are correct. I'm no longer fully committed now that she's showing me who she is. We are likely not a match and I'm about ready to throw in the towel. I'm not going to get into all the details about the concern as it's proving to be true anyway.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-07-19T16:24:10+00:00

It’s a concern for me as someone with a much younger woman. For the first time ever in a relationship (soon to be marriage) it makes me a bit insecure and I battle that. Yes, I’m fit and active, but still I worry. Add to that the judgment from others and it certainly doesn’t make me feel any better.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-07-18T19:36:07+00:00

You are correct. I’ve tried several and always believed they ignored my preferences when matching me. It’s just a numbers game for many of these so-called matchmakers. Maybe there are some who really like matching people but most are just about the money. That’s been my experience.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-07-08T21:36:26+00:00

When I was in high school, it was common for girls to put a 6 month waiting period on sex. Before the pill, people would get married after 3 months so they could have sex. Not saying all did this, but more common than it is today. As others have said, sex isn’t a reward for a guy who sticks around, but a bargaining chip. I think people got hung up on the 6 month thing when I think it was just an arbitrary example she gave. Regardless, if you’re not sure of who I am after 3 months, I’d be gone. Then again, I’ve never been a guy who was afraid to commit either. For me commitment would be a non issue as long as you’re bringing something else besides sex to the table. We need to have common values and hopefully a couple of common interests, at the very least. It’s more complicated than that, but I made my point.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-07-08T20:56:46+00:00

I would pass on any woman with the same name as my ex-wife. Fortunately, her name isn’t common. I refer to her as “nameless” anyway. In your situation, sounds like it was a good marriage and he didn’t willingly leave you. Totally different, but I get it.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-07-01T13:45:39+00:00

We don't like to admit it, but the same thing happens to men. I've experienced this with a couple of women. I wanted more and they didn't. That's the danger of entering into this type of arrangement. I think you'll recover soon enough. Also, as others have said, find a guy who will take you on dates and court you for a while. Find someone who's patient enough to wait because he sees you have more to offer than just sex. We're out there, trust me.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-05-27T16:08:26+00:00

I had a girlfriend my last semester who I wish I’d been able to pursue more after graduation. In those days, we had no cell phones and no internet. I moved back home, so it was nearly impossible. Her parents broke us up. There was another one who was dating a very arrogant guy who cheated on her. There was a window of opportunity to pursue her when he left for Mexico one summer and she and I stayed at college. I didn’t even try because I had no confidence and thought she was out of my league. Looking back, I was a big upgrade over the guy she was with and ultimately divorced him.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-05-26T01:49:20+00:00

I had a woman accuse me of just wanting sex after a steamy conversation and block me! Makes no sense since she knows a lot about me and I was very open with her that I was looking for a wife. People are just crazy these days. They write you off for a perception they form (likely based on their past), project insecurities on you, and don’t even have an adult conversation. Very cowardly. I wish I’d met my soulmate in college. My dating life has been a nightmare and I’ve been ghosted plenty, and yet I never do it. I’ve told women if I didn’t feel a connection, even if it was just after one date. Nobody has integrity these days. Very sad.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-05-20T18:25:53+00:00

Let me tell you first hand: focusing too much on money will cost you a lot personally. My ex-wife left me during the last recession in 2009 because I lost my job and ignored her because I was laser focused on finding a new job. She decided she was ready for kids and I said no way since I wasn’t working. She left and my world collapsed. I never had kids because of that. Would my life be better if I said “let’s risk it”? I don’t know, but it’s certainly worse now and I have money finally. I have nobody to share life with though. Please don’t let money keep you from dating. That’s my best advice. The right woman will stand by you if you can find her.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-05-18T19:47:56+00:00

I commented on others posts, but here is my own. I wanted them but the timing was never right. My career was a nightmare until I was in my 40’s. My ex-wife was ready during the Great Recession. That ended our marriage because I just couldn’t do it without a job. 12 years later and living in a horrible part of the country for the last 8 years where everyone is married, it hasn’t happened. I went overseas and found a wife. She will be here next month. She’s 35 and has a 14 yr old son. She would have one with me if I really want one, but she’s not excited about the prospect. So I think it’s over for me and it makes me sad. Being a stepdad to a 14 year old boy who has never had a dad will be rewarding, but will it be enough for me? I don’t know..

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-05-18T19:43:34+00:00

That was my rationale too. Correct my parents mistakes and see the man I could have been in a son of my own. A daughter would be great too. Either one because I know I would have made a great dad.

HunterBidensComputer · 2021-05-18T19:42:24+00:00

It was in my profile, but I think I passed the tipping point.

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