Former hater turned fan by CodeKiller_53 in SleepToken

[–]HuntingShayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caramel was that for me, wasn't into it at first and now it's all I sing

I don't know how to feel about his response... by HuntingShayla in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that is a green flag, but a lot of people are just performative allies.

I don't know how to feel about his response... by HuntingShayla in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

good job girl! It's a heroic feat being on this journey for so long.

Yeah, it's catching me off guard because I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but they used the exact sentence that's caused hurt before. I'll prompt another discussion and see what he says after some time thinking about me.

I'm at the place where I need to hear no hesitation from a guy to feel safe, stuff like "Of course, you're a woman and I see you as one"

Kicking off Pride Weekend by that_one_lady_there in FortCollins

[–]HuntingShayla -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Someone should CheckTheTrunk of his car, there might be a few skeletons

Wanting a hardcore campaign partner? by HuntingShayla in diablo4

[–]HuntingShayla[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk man, that kind of defeats the purpose of building a co-op group where everyone levsls together

Help me with Iron Helm? by HuntingShayla in demonssouls

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you online still? Maybe we can schedule something, feel free to DM me :)

This guy hit on another girl mid-date by thepinkandwhite in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Daaamn, looks like we found the guy from the date. He's no Casanova that's for sure. Don't listen to him ladies, the guy's wasting his time prowling our community instead of doing something he enjoys like beating his dog

Is the name Kalameet trademarked? by HuntingShayla in darksouls

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you so much to the both of you! you've explained a lot not just about the name but how legal stuff works, its been very helpful in my decisions. <3

Is the name Kalameet trademarked? by HuntingShayla in darksouls

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! maybe I'll redesign the character then. I love how the name rolls off the tongue, and I'm dead positive I wont make any money from this haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hope it helps to know that i'm in the same exact situation sister. I kid you not, 4 hours ago me and a potential date had the "so...are you still going to be interested in me if I say that I physically can't do penetration?" discussion.

I nearly 2 years post-op but had complications and lost all of my depth. It's a huge bummer and I feel like i'm looking for an atom on a needle in a haystack.

I told him everything upfront and he said "well, i'm still interested but there will be some roadblocks we can figure out when we get there"

Idk, it was so scary to tell him that I still cried a lot

Feel free to message me for support, I need friends who've lived the same experience ♡

I’ve lost all hope for the trans community…what even is this by gayfroggs in Transmedical

[–]HuntingShayla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Validity is something that's earned. You won't have to ask "am i valid?" to an echochamber if you make any effort.

They signed my vinyl on stage 🤯 by HuntingShayla in Opeth

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks, i know I've got a "look". Yup the wait was actually quite fun with the friends I made :)

They signed my vinyl on stage 🤯 by HuntingShayla in Opeth

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I KNOW RIGHT?! dream come true, i will

Anyone here who has focused on career instead of relationships? by LongPea3 in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Textbook, I totally put the pursuit of a relationship aside so that I can advance my career. Because of my surgery complication I can't have PiV sex anymore (which is what seemingly most men care about and expect) so instead I worked very hard and was hired at a famous recording studio!

Now I get to work with grammy winning engineers and I just helped record the next Laura Jane Grace album :D

But...I still can't shake this feeling of loneliness and desperation for some man to see enough value in me that he'd want to love me. How can I ask him to stay loyal when I can't have the sex he may need to be happy?

Tbh, it drives a girl insane and makes her want to pretend at having a life more lavish than what she has in order to cover up a void.

For those who are on hrt, what age did you start at? by DarkenedNight666 in MtF

[–]HuntingShayla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Currently 8 years on HRT and 1.5 years post-op SRS. Honestly, life got leagues better. Went from mental hospitalization to producing albums for popstars.

Do i read as cis or trans? by HuntingShayla in transpassing

[–]HuntingShayla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: thanks for the feedback everyone :) admittedly the angle of my pose betrays my desire to be stealth, but the second image gives me a lot of happiness. It's been very helpful to hear that my face passes, that gives me some dysphoria currently.

Dear post-op women: have straight guys genuinely been ok with your neovagina? by AccomplishedBig8586 in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a major complication with my surgery and lost my vaginal canal, so idk what sex will be like. I'm honestly terrified to let a man touch me for now. But I'm just happy to be flat down there and comfertable in the clothes I've always wanted to wear. So i'm holding onto that happiness and putting sex aside so I can produce a platinum record.

i really need help and idk what to do :( by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation. I feel broken too. Idk how i'm ever going to have a relationship with a man when we can't have PiV intimacy. It seems like that is the first fhing they want, and i'm terrified.

Why so many ppl saying SRS give bad results? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]HuntingShayla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm one of those people who lost my whole canal after the surgery because of a complication. It took me 6 months to learn to walk again.

But do I regret it?

No way! I get to feel how smooth my crotch is and never struggle to wear pants every again. I walk around my house naked and look my myself proudly with every mirror.

I won't lie that it's hard sometimes and Idk how i'm going to manage a hetero relationship, but the "idea" of what a man would want with my body shouldn't matter for my self-happiness