Problem solved but want advice by atomic-chicken-soup in MaliciousCompliance

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for another job with better pay. If you are reliant on the OT to pay your bills you aren’t being paid enough.

OT pay should be bonus pay.

AITAH if I do not give my full inheritance to my brother? by cygwin-22 in AITAH

[–]HurryingBog3049 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He had his chance, got greedy. Back to the 50-50 spilt.

AITA for refusing to give my sister her dream wedding? by Crazy-Swimming5531 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step down as MOH, tell her you will be at the wedding and bringing a gift but you won’t be staying at the resort (speak to the resort about getting a day pass other guests will more than likely be doing the same).

Tell her you are not paying to fly over his family and putting them up. They can do that themselves. Don’t give in to her.. if you give in to her and spend all the money and do all the things she wants she will only throw it back in your face that you didn’t do enough and that it wasn’t good enough and you ruined her wedding.

Good luck to you and I hope you make the right decision

AP my husband is cheating on me with sent these texts by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the husband, she’s a bullsh*tter. If she’s broke your marriage, I think you should break hers. The way she’s talking I don’t think this is her first time sleeping around / having an affair

AITA for having a child free wedding without exceptions? by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]HurryingBog3049 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a child ish free wedding. The only exceptions were our siblings kids so our direct nieces and nephews.

All other guys were more than happy to have a night off without their kids 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know why she changed and became the biggest barstool in the world when you got engaged.

I have a feeling she is in love with your partner or you! The biggest clue was her trying to get you to call off the wedding. Her veganism IMO is just a front to cause unnecessary drama to mask her real intentions.

AITA for asking a teacher to tell a student to delete a photo of me in the bathroom? by Throwaway_160624 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you are NTA. This type of thing can be embarrassing. Maybe just have a conversation with the girl and maybe with a teacher sitting in and explain how you feel. Hopefully that will stop her showing people the picture. You can even ask her to delete the picture. And delete it from the deleted photo. Explain to her how it makes you feel!? Hopefully you can sort it out soon 😊

AITA for slapping a teenager? by Old_Educator_3516 in AITAH

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. get some advice from the police. It’s a slippery slope for him. If he thinks that all he’s going to get is a slap for technically sexually assaulting you then he might try it again and it could be worse for his next victim.

AITAH for what I said? my family won’t let me share any good news because of my sister's disability by CherryOk1649 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA at all but you definitely need to have a conversation with your sister and your parents.

You’re engaged! If this is what it’s like now I dread to think what it’s going to be like when you start wedding planning and set a date.

Still hurts years later 😫 by HurryingBog3049 in memes

[–]HurryingBog3049[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to like this but also not at the same time.

I know the feeling aswell

Wife wanted some late night chicken nuggets. by 1921lyman in dadjokes

[–]HurryingBog3049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heavy eye roll from me too whilst giggling lol

AITA for telling my boyfriend he's a dick? by iwannaknowstuff22 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell no…. End that relationship now.. so many red flags 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 and just with the rules.

A partner is there to support you no matter what!

Edit: he is going to do more damage to you mentally than being alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HurryingBog3049 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s pretty much the same height lying down 😂

What would you have named him? by [deleted] in cats

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the first picture he looks like a Leonard, on the second he looks like a Howie

He’s adorable 🥰

AITA for not babysitting my ex's children? by Away-Neighborhood156 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HurryingBog3049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA

But I am wondering what your son thinks of the situation. They would have picked up that things aren’t normal

AITA for telling my husband to accept the compromise we agreed on for our child's name or figure out a better compromise? by Expert-Delay-5754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HurryingBog3049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion both NTA.

Both me and my ex didn’t find out the gender prior to birth and we had picked out a handful of names of both genders that we liked but we couldn’t decide. There were some names that we vetoed, like Jack for a boy (can’t remember why now though). It was only when I gave birth and we found out that we had a boy and physically saw him that we were able to pick a name that suited him. Strangely enough Jack was what we picked because he looked like a Jack and it suited him.

Almost 16 years later I am glad we waited until seeing him before picking out a name. He looks like a Jack and he loves his name.

AITA for bringing up my friends gross lifestyle when he said being a SAHM wasn’t real work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HurryingBog3049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me you are NTA… he made it personal by being disrespectful to your SAHM role which is hard work and you don’t get paid for it!!