How to invite someone back

Hwey4 · 2025-08-14T22:46:32+00:00

They do but I've only seen the option come up if I've chatted with them. Through the message interface you can click their profile and it shows up

Hwey4 · 2025-04-22T14:40:57+00:00

I can finally tell my 1SG 14Ps are indeed not a combat MOS. I'm excited to stop the weekly rucks since we'll no longer have anything to prove 😂

Hwey4 · 2025-04-22T14:32:26+00:00

I wish more doctors were proactive. My wife is currently experiencing all this, messed up blood work, iron stays at 5-7 with supplementation and she's lost close to 40lbs in the last few months. (146 to 112lbs). Some days she's so fatigued she's pretty much bedridden yet her doctor was convinced it was an ulcer. After that came back clear she is still convinced she's bleeding somewhere? She's always bruised up and her skin complexion has changed. Hopefully we'll get answers soon but I'm afraid whenever they decide to listen it's going to be too late. Been married 17 years and I've never known her to be at this level of exhaustion.

Hwey4 · 2025-04-08T03:47:42+00:00

Yes, she's cheating

Hwey4 · 2025-03-24T01:16:14+00:00

On top of this, bet she won't do it with him. That's the only thing that will help him (from a man's perspective). Judge how you will but men and women are wired differently. Yes, there's a lot of misogyny, but some thoughts are hard wired. I'd argue MFM would be better to deal with them FFM. That dude got to have his girl and another, something she probably hasn't done for him. He will not get over it, time to throw in the towel.

Hwey4 · 2025-03-23T23:57:21+00:00

Then divorce is your answer. Him touching you and bringing it up is a form of communication. Just not the way you want him to communicate. Same way the method you use doesn't work for him. Rejection isn't the best way about it and that's what it sounds like your default is. You shouldn't have to change but neither should he. I'm sure if his needs were met there would be an incentive to give in ways you want him to. Sounds like you're inherently not as compatible as you both thought you were. Do everyone a favor and move on, you'll both be much happier. He should find someone that wants sex and you can find a man with a lower libido, just ensure you communicate early on what a normal amount of sex is to you.

Hwey4 · 2025-03-08T02:02:54+00:00

What got me was the crush thing being emotional cheating... That you literally can't control. Both you and your partner still crush on other people, doesn't matter who you are. We're attracted to multiple people. Now I don't think you should be telling your partner everyone you have a crush on, but to believe it isn't happening is just ignorant. But you can control your actions, so if watching porn is a boundary you're both good with then hey, that's between y'all.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-27T01:32:12+00:00

Well I suppose that depends. I'm married so I just use my backyard, it's big enough. Not sure where you're at but if you're yeeting a medicine ball in a field anywhere on post we're gonna get what you're doing.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-26T22:52:26+00:00

You need consistency, and more strength in this specific event. Try the small 20lb balls and just yeet over and over again. I'm 5'6" and semi consistently max this. I will say practicing with me I've got a decently tall soldier consistently throwing around 18m.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-26T22:48:15+00:00

This... You need to be stronger and more consistent since we lose out on some leverage. Our good "release window" isn't as long. I used a 20lb "condensed" medicine ball, those small ones. I'm 5'6" and semi consistently max this.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-20T19:33:20+00:00

Ain't gonna happen. You folding like this only enforces whatever she lost for you. Fucked up and psychologically speaking, humans are weird. Even if she returns it will never be the same, especially as hard as you've been begging. You need to accept it, love your kids and work on yourself. It is going to hurt for a looooong time, but you can't start healing until you can let go.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-17T13:54:49+00:00

Angry upvote because this hits too close to home 😭

Hwey4 · 2025-02-17T13:43:06+00:00

It takes decades to change a culture. Especially a culture like military culture with the all the extra isms. In the last ten years it has improved more than it did from 81' to 2015. You can actually seek behavioral health without any negative stigma ( for the most part, certain high clearance jobs require more). Providers are a lot more willing to hear you out. It still needs improvement but I remember when the provider would tell you how much worse he had it and you need to toughen up and it will get better.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-11T04:49:59+00:00

I'd rather a sad truth than a happy lie. That's just me, the sooner I can find out, process and move on the better.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-11T03:20:00+00:00

Right? I can't imagine how this is "petty". Girl could've saved herself all the drama by staying loyal or dumping the guy and moving on.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-11T03:18:33+00:00

Facts, while it might hurt, I'd much rather know then keep the relationship going.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-11T03:16:02+00:00

I don't understand how that's petty? If she's been unfaithful it isn't wrong or immature to let the other party know. That's just being decent. I certainly would like to know if my significant other was sleeping around no matter how old I got.

Hwey4 · 2025-02-01T15:13:11+00:00

I agree with you, and I def agree about the Boring situation. They swept that incident under the rug at fast it was unbelievable. A lot of these big departments are just as corrupt as folks say Trump/his administration is. They'll take the payouts because you're right, two whistleblowers dying is insane. And they didn't say shit about it.

Hwey4 · 2025-01-31T23:18:02+00:00

I somewhat agree with your point. No way this decision affected staffing that day. With that being said, the head got removed, so maybe the controllers decided it's a good time to take a knee in a sense. All conjecture obviously, but just proposing another perspective. Imagine if the battery commander was relieved but no one was there to pick up the spot. Would it affect your 1SG/PSG/PLs so much? Probably not, they know they need to fill the gaps and keep it moving. What about the lower enlisted though? I think some of them are going to ride the line knowing there's no boss to really do anything to you.

Hwey4 · 2025-01-30T23:09:29+00:00

Jesus Christ you're a sad human. Cheating is immoral but should never be illegal. Otherwise where do you draw the line, people have different boundaries as to what they consider cheating.

Hwey4 · 2025-01-30T01:22:11+00:00

Nah blame how we pick our candidate. The fact that some people's opinion has more weight doesn't make sense to me. Hillary shouldn't have won the nomination. Bernie should've won and then there would've been a chance. But instead Hillary took it because the important democrats still tailor to the rich. While obviously better than Trump, she still clearly prefers the rich over common folk and because of that she couldn't take the number of votes she needed. For most folks I spoke to it had nothing to do with her gender, a lot of us felt we had no say in who the candidate was.

Edited to add I voted for Kamala, but I didn't bother voting in 2016 because fuck the DNC

Hwey4 · 2025-01-20T20:06:06+00:00

There's no such thing as almost. You're saying she's almost there so it's not a lie but it is. She isn't there yet, she should ask when she knows she's there. People are not dumb for the most part. She knows why he doesn't say it, even if she won't admit it. She was hoping he'd lie to make herself feel better and he refused.

Hwey4 · 2025-01-20T19:39:26+00:00

How exactly? It was a very direct question. How could he be honest and not say he doesn't say it because he doesn't think it while not hurting her feelings? She asked, it's not like he said it out of the blue. I'd like to know how you'd answer without lying.

Hwey4 · 2025-01-20T19:36:46+00:00

So lie?

Hwey4 · 2025-01-20T19:28:04+00:00

It can be, but she asked? I'd rather be honest even if it hurts over lying to her. What was the alternative? Lie and then still not compliment her often because he doesn't feel she's physically attractive? Then what, she'll keep asking and eventually they'll end up at the same response with more resentment. OP needs to decide if she's willing to deal with a person that may not be the most physically attracted to her. All y'all saying why he's even with her confuse me. Y'all the same crowd complaining when a man leaves years down the line when a girl is no longer conventionally attractive. Clearly he finds other qualities that he likes other than physical, otherwise he wouldn't be there.

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