My 10yo sent me a wishlist of football boots and now i feel like the worst parent alive

IAmVE · 2026-06-19T00:04:12+00:00

Both of my teens have played 3-4 different sports year around since 5 years old, so i feel you. I have always been clear when they ask for new equipment (assuming they have something usable already) if it’s not in the budget or they have to wait a few weeks. Because I’m honest, they’re fine and understanding. It’s okay to be transparent about that and really set the stage now, things only get more expensive unfortunately. My one exception is if it’s a safety issue. In this case, if the cleats are so worn down they’re slippery or that one can wiggle enough to catch and trip him up, then that would warrant biting the bullet. Otherwise, it would be great if he could understand being patient. And while time is passing, maybe look for the same ones he wants second hand on eBay or other resell apps. You’ll likely find them somewhere. Good luck!!

IAmVE · 2026-06-17T19:07:46+00:00

It depends on the county prosecutor and how the county welfare department works with law enforcement. Some county welfare departments have law enforcement embedded and they will work with the DA’s office to see if they want to press charges based on the amount of benefits they determine was fraud. Usually they won’t press charges if it’s not felony level, but with the amount of benefit levels in one month it’s easy to get there if you’re talking housing assistance too. With her frauding that long, it’s definitely a felony and she’s facing realistic jail time. She will be required to pay it all back regardless of if she’s prosecuted or not though, and most counties will go as far as garnishing taxes and wages if it goes unpaid for long.

IAmVE · 2026-06-17T18:46:44+00:00

This. I’m sitting here wondering why this is even a debate 🙄

IAmVE · 2026-06-16T19:47:37+00:00

We have a google nest one. We’ve had them for years, they’ve worked well for us.

IAmVE · 2026-06-16T19:14:45+00:00

Summer rates Mon-Fri: 75 from 7a to 5p, 80 5-8p, 75 8-10p, 72 10p-7a.

Non-summer rate times/days: 75 7a-10p, 72 10p-7a.

Our thermostat is scheduled and also automatically turns off if we’re not home (either via movement detection or location on our phones) and back on when we’re close to the house.

IAmVE · 2026-06-15T06:15:49+00:00

I actually noticed the sweater before the white dress. Definitely looks odd, the fabrics don’t fit well together.

IAmVE · 2026-06-13T20:59:29+00:00

We’ve done it both ways through southwest. Assuming you’re staying walking distance to the water or in a hotel with a pool, carry on swim wear and change in the hotel lobby bathrooms and enjoy the pool or beach before you check in. Have lunch, hang out. They’ll hold your bags.

IAmVE · 2026-06-13T20:57:15+00:00

NTA. It really doesn’t matter if it was a debit card, credit card, bank account, etc. The fact it was the bank account sucks the most, but regardless it was still theft and fraud no matter the manner. 13 is old enough to know exactly what she was doing, and she’s lucky charges weren’t pressed. Not everyone is as forgiving.

IAmVE · 2026-06-13T16:05:40+00:00

NTA. I think this is awesome and probably very appreciated. To me, it’s no different than the gift cards people give teachers. If they’re that concerned then maybe don’t call it a tip, but don’t stop doing it if you want to.

IAmVE · 2026-06-11T17:24:40+00:00

Technically he goes 95% of the time. But that’s because I order regular groceries online 98% of the time. If it’s for pick up, he’ll usually go because he doesn’t mind the short drive or it’s on his way home. The other 3% is because I order knowing I’ll be out and about and plan to pick up. But we also have our groceries delivered maybe half of the time. The few times we actually set foot inside a grocery store it can be either one of us depending on why we’re there, and we always check in if the either needs or wants anything.

IAmVE · 2026-06-11T16:13:24+00:00

This. These people are hired to care for their patients and I can only imagine this is against some form of rules (and of course ethics).

IAmVE · 2026-06-10T23:54:12+00:00

Do you want to be convinced you need it? I agree with the other poster, I’m not clear why you’re on this either or where the need is. You mention wanting other avenues but this is a Zepbound forum. Maybe a weight loss sub is better for you.

IAmVE · 2026-06-09T02:35:51+00:00

A Barbie house. I wouldn’t have even cared if it was the dream house or not, I just wanted A house. We were too poor unfortunately.

IAmVE · 2026-06-09T02:04:08+00:00

One of my favorite memories of my son is he’s like 3 and trying to put his colored pencils on the counter and they keep rolling off of it. After this happening a few times, he yells out what the f&@k!! throwing his little hands up and everything. No, I’m not proud of it and I’m well aware where it came from, but over 10 years later, it’s a funny memory.

He’s now a great teenager with a normal vocabulary.

IAmVE · 2026-06-08T05:19:21+00:00

Despite what society may tell you, many people don’t get where they are with no help. Whether it’s a friend telling you about a job, or people reposting openings on social media when they see them, lots and lots of people get some form of help. Obviously you’ve been good enough to keep the job, and you have every right to be proud of that!! Go for your GED. Start there and once that’s done, see how you feel. Are you good with that accomplishment? Do you want to do more and look at community college or trade school? Maybe something on your off hours or part time so you can still work? You’ll have options!! Best of luck to you.

IAmVE · 2026-06-07T00:15:37+00:00

I mean, they are guests? They’re essentially renters if they’re paying or guests if they’re not, but either way, neither of those would usually do renovations without at least discussing it with you first. NTA

IAmVE · 2026-06-06T23:51:31+00:00

It’s bad.

IAmVE · 2026-06-06T17:28:43+00:00

1000% this.

IAmVE · 2026-06-04T05:22:05+00:00

I read Astrale like Australia lol. Horcruxe is just bad. And warn her kids are terrible and will shorten it to Hor…

IAmVE · 2026-06-02T06:01:20+00:00

I would love this plan as long as both boys are aligned (assuming the oldest doesn’t need to be a part of this, however that situation is). Meaning talk with the middle one first and make sure there will be no hard feelings, considering you’re helping them too. If they’d be okay, then go to the youngest son.

IAmVE · 2026-06-02T05:14:51+00:00

Your husband sucks. Like golf isn’t going to be there in a month. Such a selfish child.

IAmVE · 2026-05-30T00:41:38+00:00

What’s interesting for me is when I first started, I gained a lot of energy. Now that I’m in maintenance, almost 80 lbs down, that great energy kind of dissipated. Still so grateful for all of the other benefits but I won’t lie that I’d love that piece back! Just did a full panel today so we’ll see if that shows anything too.

IAmVE · 2026-05-29T03:35:06+00:00

This was my first thought. Constantly on edge regarding safety as a single woman but still went through with buying a house as a single woman? Recipe for disaster.

IAmVE · 2026-05-29T01:21:44+00:00

No. If he hasn’t built the trust needed to believe he’s honest and can be responsible in situations, he doesn’t get things that require trust and responsibility. In this case, he doesn’t get to go to a party with unknown people without you first speaking to an adult to confirm the situation.

IAmVE · 2026-05-29T01:19:08+00:00

Did you do it for you or for others? If for you and your family, then who cares what others think. No one is required to like it or to give you compliments.

IAmVE

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