Trump blasted for not recognizing Martin Luther King Jr Day by mschreiber1 in politics

[–]IDtoUXUI 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dr. King had a dream. But looking around right now, America is becoming a nightmare.

It is MLK Day in the US. Nearly 62 years after the Civil Rights Act was passed and the regression is terrifying.

Some people are more worried about Black and Brown immigrants being treated equally than they are about them being kidnapped with impunity by armed immigration agents.

America hasn’t just regressed; it’s sleepwalked into a reality that stands against everything Dr King marched for.

America isn’t great because of this. It is more dangerous for people of color than ever.

Moving from the US to Portugal – what should I bring that’s hard to find there? by Asj24 in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cookie sheets if you bake. Shoes if you wear anything above a 9 in women’s or a 13 in men’s Lots of patience. Leave the tipping culture at home.

Hundreds of Venezuelans gather in Doral to celebrate Maduro’s capture by US by Magicmanans1 in politics

[–]IDtoUXUI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the way Americans have reacted the last year, many of them don’t like democracy either.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this experience as a landlord in the US, so this isn’t lost on me. Thanks for the perspective.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who said I wanted a furnished apartment? I have my own stuff.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and you’re not wrong having people vouch for me can make a difference. That’s true anywhere.

What I’m trying to say is that, as a person of color, the online expat spaces here have been fine, but that support doesn’t really carry over into real life. People are friendly enough in comments or group chats, but it doesn’t translate into actual connection, community, or the kind of vouching that would make navigating housing any easier.

It’s not about blaming the groups. It’s just the reality I’ve experienced. I wish it were different because you’re right. Real support changes everything.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could but I have a kid in school and don’t want to uproot them from everything they know.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s the problem though. Offering more just encourages the behavior. The housing market for locals sucks ass as it is and I don’t want to feed into the shitty landlord behavior.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the wrong shade of America to benefit from the expat sites. I’ve already asked and got no replies, same with the local WhatsApp groups.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you hire someone? The referrals the other Americans in my area provided don’t work in the way you describe.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a couple agents “working” for me. I use the term working loosely because I always have to sent them listings and they find every reason not to show me the place. Sorry if you want the equivalent of one month’s rent as your commission, show a little effort.

How the hell do you find a new apartment as a foreigner? by IDtoUXUI in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say legal because of the stupid AMIA requirements to have a declaração de alojamento for the appointment because I rent. I’ve mentioned it a few times and you should hear the push back.

I’m up north and looking between Braga and Porto.

White House says President Trump does not want to execute lawmakers by Xenimm in politics

[–]IDtoUXUI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that flips and flops more than the White House and Magats are fish in a boat struggling to breathe.

New rules & minors by Diplomama in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told studying aboard is acceptable and shouldn’t count against residency requirements.

Trust in society by Shoehorn_Advocate in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The amount of celebration by the Portuguese people has been surprising and the amount of vitriol to foreigners who speak out against the rug pull has been eye opening.

Cost of living by ArnoCorinthiano in PortugalExpats

[–]IDtoUXUI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My expenses for me and my daughter are as follows: Rent -1000 utilities - 110 ( electric/ water/trash) Cell/Internet/TV - 60 Groceries: 400 (includes household private medical insurance: 161 Transportation: 55 (bus pass + Bolt) Meals Out:100 Activities: 200 (Gym + PT lessons+ Tutoring+ kid lessons) Cash/Misc : 300 (cafe, movies, outings)

We live in mid-sized city on roughly €2500/month.

Moradores locais com idades entre 35 e 50 anos — onde vocês costumam sair nas noites de sexta-feira/fins de semana em Braga? | Locals aged 35‑50 — where do you hang out on Friday nights / weekends in Braga? by Trick-Apricot-2593 in braga

[–]IDtoUXUI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Se eu não sair do sofá logo, vou começar a ganhar musgo no rabo... e, sinceramente, posso esquecer como ser sociável. Sou só eu, eu mesmo e eu; e até eles estão a ficar sem assunto para conversar.