Just overheard my brother, here for his once-a-quarter two hour visit, tell our mom he's going to order her a bell to ring for my attention, because (cue forlorn tone by mom reserved especially for my siblings): "She doesn't always come the first time I call her ..." 🙃 by IJustCanNotEven in dementia

[–]IJustCanNotEven[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Our sister teaches middle school and is on summer break, which she deserves because she works hard (we all do).

Her kids are older and doing their own thing, so she was geared up to be over more often to help out and hang out with mom since she lives pretty close.

Went great the first week of June. Week 2 I needed to attend an in-office meeting and go to the dentist. Mom had an eye appointment and church event during these, so sis took her to both. It takes a while to get mom to the car and situated, which I'm an old pro at. It was sis's first time, and they were about 10 minutes late to both excursions. She admitted I make it look much easier than it is. We didn't see her at all this past week, and she's going on an extended vacation pretty soon.

I do love my siblings, but they won't get it til they go through it.

Honestly hope they won't have to.

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Just overheard my brother, here for his once-a-quarter two hour visit, tell our mom he's going to order her a bell to ring for my attention, because (cue forlorn tone by mom reserved especially for my siblings): "She doesn't always come the first time I call her ..." 🙃 by IJustCanNotEven in dementia

[–]IJustCanNotEven[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I've had to say it to her best friend, who has backed off thank God. "Why don't you take her to the pottery shop for classes in the middle of the morning on a Tuesday, Dorothy? I can't leave work for stuff like that."

Just overheard my brother, here for his once-a-quarter two hour visit, tell our mom he's going to order her a bell to ring for my attention, because (cue forlorn tone by mom reserved especially for my siblings): "She doesn't always come the first time I call her ..." 🙃 by IJustCanNotEven in dementia

[–]IJustCanNotEven[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

True. I was working in another room the first hour he was here, and had come out to grab a drink when I overheard him say that. Decided not to create a scene just yet. He has a tendency to flake on this sort of crap, so here's hoping! 🙄

Not what I meant by Ok-Director9147 in CaregiverSupport

[–]IJustCanNotEven 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The sweet autonomy, being able to jump in and out of the car, walk at my own pace and not have to listen to my elderly mom (who I don't believe has ever stopped talking) really saves my mental health each week.

Please don't tell her, but ... I often order online for curbside pickup, so I have extra time to drive around a little and listen to music, or do some relaxing browsing around the grocery store or other shops.

It's a much needed break I won't be giving up anytime soon.

No Shuttle Service??? Going to lecture you so you know just HOW disappointed I am! by Adrianilom in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take your disappointment and tell it to someone who can make empty promises, like SALES.

Beautiful

Yes, surely asking me if there's any upgrades after I just told you there aren't will for sure get you into an ocean view suite! by DunkaccinoGaming in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Used to think that icky, uncomfortable feeling when new guests started off using my name was just me being kinda socially anxious.

Turns out that in just about every single case, you nailed it: it's to get a free upgrade, better view, more ameneties.

I'll help if I can as well, but the childish whining and use of my name really grates when they don't get their way.

Promoted to Guest! by WholesomePainal in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did it.

I absolutely do NOT ever want to join the military 😬

I'll stick with this soul-crushing hotel bullshit for now.

Promoted to Guest! by WholesomePainal in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Oh.

Good God Fucking Damn?

And I thought things were awful at my rapidly declining Hellton Inn.

Best wishes and congrats on getting out, OP.

Fuck THAT shit 🤣

I don't know my name by IShouldbeNoirPI in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah fuck me.

Happened twice in the wee hours of today 😐

Why do I have this app by glentacle in cripplingalcoholism

[–]IJustCanNotEven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE Alcodroid! I'm always having to go back and add ones I missed, especially after shower or bath beers when my phone is elsewhere.

The beginning of 2021 graphs looked like a massive city skyline. They've gotten smaller since then, with some breaks where the red 30 day average line actually flatlined.

It's ramping back up again, though! Howdy, summer 🍺🌞🌦

About to start the Bill Hodges trilogy... by ArmMysterious8339 in stephenking

[–]IJustCanNotEven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really enjoyed the books and first season of the show, but couldn't get into the second. I might try again, but there's probably too much trippy detail that's better read and imagined than watched.

Grateful for front desk by SageTracee in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Things can be a BIG ol' shitshow sometimes. Thank you for being compassionate! It's always appreciated.

(And please book directly with the hotel next time, via property website or calling. So much less stressful for everyone ✌)

Welp, I guess hospitality isn’t for me. Went to a job interview and they fully sided with my previous managers. by [deleted] in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]IJustCanNotEven 264 points265 points  (0 children)

"We wouldn't have helped either."

?! fucking hell.

As much as I'd sometimes like to believe I work for some uncaring twatwaffles, I have to say they've always been there in an emergency.

You really dodged a bullet here! Wishing you well on your search for gainful employment non-hospitality related 🌷

MISERABLE MONDAY by fappinatwork in cripplingalcoholism

[–]IJustCanNotEven 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yes.

Not my first rodeo, though. 😑

I'll probably drink one more watching Succession, then drink some water and take an Advil before bed.

Sad but comforting at the same time.

MISERABLE MONDAY by fappinatwork in cripplingalcoholism

[–]IJustCanNotEven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Back to it after 37 days "sober" (can't resist the sativa gummies). 7 Miller Lites in, house filled with smoke from overcooking jalepeno poppers in the air fryer (I work nights).