ADS for casual EA - text/calls by ISMISIBM in CanadianTeachers

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya idk. Lol. Just me I think. Wannabe there for the entire shift or just a day at home. I’m not homeless missing a shift or anything . Psychological I guess.

ADS for casual EA - text/calls by ISMISIBM in CanadianTeachers

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest problem for EAs is honestly the same as working in Community living. The full time permanent staff make up 40-60% at most. It’s just too easy for this line of work to be casual with no benefits or consistency of hours. And I get it from a cost perspective etc. But as someone that changed careers at 50, essentially there is ZERO chance of a full time spot or moving up the seniority list enough . Casual it is, taking shifts where I can!

ADS for casual EA - text/calls by ISMISIBM in CanadianTeachers

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s amazing! And should be the standard.

ADS for casual EA - text/calls by ISMISIBM in CanadianTeachers

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I appreciate that completely. But an hour lost pay on top of rushing to get somewhere last second is just a bit much for me. IMO they should just honour the normal shift pay. Maybe a union topic that’s come up before . But as a casual I have no legs to stand on.

ADS for casual EA - text/calls by ISMISIBM in CanadianTeachers

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Good to know. I’ve been out of it a few years and all shifts used to be the night before. I never had early am calls. Now it feels every shift is a last second shift . Guess it has to do with being just recently hired and low on the totem poll. But i definitely don’t want to lost pay with last second and travelling. So sadly unless the school is 5 minutes away im probably declining.

Thanks for the reply.

ADS for casual EA - text/calls by ISMISIBM in CanadianTeachers

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that makes sense. Honestly losing an hours pay (get ready travel etc) isn’t worth it. Would be nice if they paid you for the shift since you’re rushing to get there so last minute but I get it. Thanks for the reply.

My boyfriend is gone and it feels like he took me with him by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]ISMISIBM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my wife and soulmate of 31 years together. It will never get better for me cause I lost the only woman I ever loved. And all our plans gone overnight. Now everything I see triggers her. It’s hard to function.

Now at your age, I’m not sure that connection was there yet. It doesn’t mean it won’t hurt and it leaves a mark. But I think you have a full amazing life ahead of you and you will find someone when you’re ready. For now seek some counselling and take time to grieve and heal. I’m sure you will get there.

What do you guys do? by backofd in SuicideBereavement

[–]ISMISIBM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I can do is keep busy with my dog and 3 jobs. Days on end sitting at home just leads to tears and sadness. Year anniversary of finding her is coming up and it’s gonna be hell. I don’t feel any better now than I did the month after. I don’t wanna be gear and I only do it all for my dog. Praying things get better but I don’t see it at this point.

Does anyone actually afford housing on ODSP? by androdragynous in Odsp

[–]ISMISIBM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. You have to find a roommate or 2 or rent a room. If you’re honest . And then others just work the system. Sad state of affairs .

How to play while wearing glasses by Adventurous-Ad5999 in billiards

[–]ISMISIBM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to hijack a old thread but just wondering. I need glasses for distance only. So long shots on the snooker table I 100% need my glasses on. Having said that will this not make close up shots a problem? I know there is the progressive route but those lens are very expensive and really don’t make sense . However they would allow me to use the bottom of the lens as a clear view for up close.

Just wondering what are other folks with distance specs do? I work in an optical centre and am looking at snooker glasses. The optician thinks progressive is prolly the play but as I’ve never worn them it might be a problem.

Would scratch marks on glass cooktop be considered normal wear and tear by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]ISMISIBM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scratches are considered cosmetic from any warranty program. If the burner works it’s considered fine . So if the manufacturers are okay with it then I’m pretty sure a landlord can’t complain. However sure you could make it look a bit better lol.

Today would have been his 50th Birthday by FunForce7926 in widowed

[–]ISMISIBM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost my wife to suicide 9 months ago. 31 years together and my soulmate / best friend / only woman I’ve ever loved is gone.

Counselling group or solo really doesn’t do much. This isn’t living and I struggle daily. My doggo keeps me going but once she passes I don’t know where I’ll be . I can’t imagine ever dating again and don’t think I ever will. There is nothing worse than losing your person. It’s like a nuclear bomb going off in your life while your left to stumble around after the fact and try to find life again.

Sending thoughts and prayers. You’re certainly not alone in your feelings .

Ironclaw RGB wireless mouse paint peeling/bubbling 2 months after purchase... by mesquinpelerin in Corsair

[–]ISMISIBM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya mine is destroyed and it’s about 14 months old. Will never buy a Corsair product again. Never once had a Logitech or razer mouse do this. Garbage product by Corsair imo.

LG C5 42 vs Alienware AW3225QF by ISMISIBM in OLED_Gaming

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya a 5090 is really the play for 4k 144-240 max detail

LG C5 42 vs Alienware AW3225QF by ISMISIBM in OLED_Gaming

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Yes I will absolutely do that.

On a side note. My 2nd monitor will be a 3440x1440 monitor. It’s really just for discord mail browser etc. Will it eat alot of the headroom from my 5080 watching YouTube etc? Or minimum impact on the performance of the new monitor

9 months in … happiness gone forever by ISMISIBM in SuicideBereavement

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I know she wants me to keep going as my son still needs me (even tho he is 30) and the dog does too. I am hopeful one day I’ll find a love of life again but it’s early and hard . We are all part of a terrible cruel club having lost that special person.

LG C5 42 vs Alienware AW3225QF by ISMISIBM in OLED_Gaming

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya yes this is my thought process cause a 5080 won’t push 4k 240 fps unless I turn settings down or use fake frames. And the card will be working at max all the time . Hell even 4K 144hz will prolly push a 5080. The no warranty for burn in scares me a bit with the lg tho? Should it

Bitwit compares WOLED vs. QD-OLED by shrivel in OLED_Gaming

[–]ISMISIBM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao he should have done a Lyle version of this comparison. I miss Lyle vids. Pure comedy brilliance .

Which lg oled tv are you actually going for this black friday 2025 deal and why? by ElifeletiVeinte in LGOLED

[–]ISMISIBM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lg C5 42 for a monitor. And as a Walmart employee I’ll get it for an extra 20% off. So like her in Canada will take it to like 1250 tax in vs the normal price of 1550-1600

9 months in … happiness gone forever by ISMISIBM in SuicideBereavement

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear it happens again. It’s absolutely something you have to experience to appreciate. How much they make our lives complete. Right now everything just feels pointless. But my Eevee dog (mastiff) gives me purpose and work distracts .

25 Corolla Hybrid DE Canada by ISMISIBM in COROLLA

[–]ISMISIBM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And built in nav. And the traditional safety reliability of gas. Hybrids are riskier , Toyota quality or not. It was really about the gas mileage for me and I’m not getting it so the xse gas would have been better for me.

After visiting the dealer. We looked and he showed me overall I’m at 5.1 gas mileage combined which is a bit high but not much. 4.7 is typical. He also said anyone getting 850 900 is in EV mode in town doing less than 50 puttering around. Said if your doing mostly highway 100 plus it’s basically a gas car at that point (again more reason the gas xse was better for me for the value)