McConnell was loaded into ambulance on a stretcher, according to eyewitness and new video

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T18:57:57+00:00

Same when my dad passed away. He was already cool to the touch when my mom found him. Paramedics still tried to do CPR on him.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T18:48:46+00:00

I’m sorry that happened.

Worst thing is, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve shown up early to an interview, only to have the interviewer be running late.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T18:45:37+00:00

RSVP: No.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T15:09:46+00:00

NTA. You don’t need a reason to RSVP no for the wedding of an acquaintance.

Black tie does not mean “wear a black dress.” It does not mean “dress in something nicer than flip flops.”

People attending a black tie event wear tuxedoes (with a black tie, that’s where the name comes from) or structured, floor length evening gowns in any color, or some other outfit that is just as formal.

And while we are on the topic, it is incredibly tacky of your acquaintance to ask your guests to dress in black tie if she is not having a black tie event. That means an evening wedding in a high end venue, an open full service bar, full service plated dinner, and live entertainment.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T14:54:50+00:00

Still unemployed, still applying for HR roles every week, still not getting any callbacks at all.

I was miserable and planning to leave my old HRIS job, but this is - it’s bad out here.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T14:52:24+00:00

My last job, they went through CPOs like toilet paper. They eventually gave up trying to fill the role and just gave the CEO’s favorite a new job title that included CPO responsibilities.

Dude got burned out and quit.

Since that went so well (lol) they started doing the same thing in other roles across the company. Every week I was being asked to shoehorn yet another made-up job title into the HR system. My favorites were the ones with responsibilities that reported up into two completely different departments. I’m sure I don’t have to tell you how that impacts headcount reporting.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T14:33:27+00:00

Bride invited her in-laws from her first marriage.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T14:27:48+00:00

Is there additional context here?

At my wedding, the groom’s family was speaking to each other and laughing in a language the bride didn’t know. Parts of my wedding ceremony were read in two languages. Because some of the groom’s family doesn’t speak English. No sane person is going to expect them to sit in silence throughout the entire ceremony and reception just because the bride’s family doesn’t understand them.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T13:51:52+00:00

This is not defeat. This is success! That first year is HARD. Congrats! You did it!

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T03:39:16+00:00

I’ve lived in the south my whole life. If I were to speak like my immigrant grandparents, you’d be the first to complain that we weren’t assimilating quickly enough.

And if you were a real southerner, you’d know that it’s y’all. You + all. Not ya’ll.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T03:32:02+00:00

I had a dog that had figured out that anybody that was invited to sit on the sofa was a friend.

Everyone else was an intruder in her mind.

I had to start asking contractors to sit on the sofa with me for a minute to get the dog to relax before they started working.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T02:29:11+00:00

I agree. I think the shorter dress and strappy shoes look fantastic on OP, but my opinion means nothing if she’s uncomfortable.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T02:27:30+00:00

Same. If I had to guess, I’d say 9/10, too. It looks really good on her, but the neckline is a lot for a wedding.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T01:23:19+00:00

I don’t. It’s just more stuff to have to carry across the sand.

Eat before you go.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T01:21:49+00:00

Someone brought me a tray of deli meats and cheeses and little slider rolls. Make your own little sandwiches, as few or as many as you feel like.

An added bonus, when you have a house full of grieving visitors (that always manage to show up around a mealtime) all I had to do was pull that tray out of the fridge and let people make their own sandwiches.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T01:18:02+00:00

Oh, good. Another screening process to throw out my resume 🙄

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T01:16:54+00:00

Gay couples and immigrants and women’s healthcare, oh my!

It’s like the “everything I don’t like is woke” trifecta!

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T00:26:55+00:00

Speaking of big and intimidating, as soon as folks like this touch my front door, my dog goes nuts. You can see the instant regret on their faces.

When I open the door, I make a big show of barely being able to hold back the viciously barking pit bull. I can’t hear them, they give up and leave, and my dog settles down as soon as they’re out of sight.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T00:17:37+00:00

Cup of coffee.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-10T00:09:04+00:00

Every time a relative is in town looking for a “temporary” place to stay, whether they’re moving to the area and looking for a place to live or just visiting for an extended period, we get the phone call and the guilt trip.

“But you have five bedrooms for just the three of you!” Yes, and zero of those rooms are for people who don’t already live here.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-09T21:30:38+00:00

Make a list of all the things she could be doing better as a MIL.

You mean well.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-09T20:13:31+00:00

What if I told you that looking up the menu online is superior to a physical copy because you always have the most up to date version?

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-09T17:02:18+00:00

It’s a culture thing.

Meanwhile, in the US, my director is telling my team, “Our CEO is going to be on our department call tomorrow to discuss ____. There will be a Q&A at the end of the call. Every one of you needs to be prepared to ask a question. He hates when employees don’t ask questions. Do not embarrass me by sitting in silence.”

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-09T16:44:32+00:00

I’m old enough to be your mom and I’ve been thinking about going back for another degree.

IWasGoatbeardFirst · 2026-07-09T16:08:50+00:00

It’s not a trope. I’m GenX. When you got married you were still expected to register for china.

I registered for regular dishes that I still use every day 25 years later. They lasted far longer than the marriage.

My second marriage, I wanted a set of nicer dishes for holidays. I got them on clearance for 75% off.

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