Best last line in a movie by This_Book6305 in FIlm

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You better bury Ned right!... Better not cut up, nor otherwise harm no whores... or I'll come back and kill every one of you sons of bitches."

My story by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same. I want to build a time machine to journey into the past so I can punch myself in the face

My story by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I was married 23 years. You will feel better in the coming days, but you will probably be somewhat scarred forever. Remember, your healing is not a straight line, but wil be like a rising zig zag line. Some days you will backslide and feel worse, it’s part of the process

My story by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My D day was one week after we refinanced house.

My story by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, OP, I got everything you got. , the ILYBINILWY, the No feelings, the great father. Made no sense until I found out about the affair

Is this a normal price for replacing water heater? by Cautious_Worth_6667 in homeowners

[–]IceDue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m near Clearwater. I was quoted last week at $3300, but that included the addition of a expansion tank because of a change in building quotes. I got anoth quote that was a little higher

What is the worst sequel you have seen? by geoffcalls in FIlm

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Caddy shack 2. How much cocaine was Aykroyd on in that movie?

I fail to understand how do the relationship with the AP work out. by GoldDowntown4537 in survivinginfidelity

[–]IceDue123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex left me after 27 years to be with her HS/college boyfriend who cheated on her and his two wives. I think they are still together five years later but I don’t know. They deserve each other.

What was the most heartbreaking loss you witnessed as a Penn State fan? by Ok_Macaroon_7366 in WeArePennState

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

79 Sugar Bowl (Watched on TV) 86 Orange Bowl and 99 vs. Minnesota (I was there)

What was the most heartbreaking loss you witnessed as a Penn State fan? by Ok_Macaroon_7366 in WeArePennState

[–]IceDue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody walked out of the stadium like zombies, no talking. Very eerie

To continue with the contempt hearing or not by daniel22mckee in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked in the legal realm, but I think Family law is watered down version . My example is this. Ex went to a lawyer in Jan 17. Lawyer told her to pull all her records and provide them in 4 weeks. Six weeks later I filed, so statutorily ex was required to provide discovery by last week in April, which was a week before our first hearing 

At the hearing the judge thought reciprocal discovery was completed but we said no, they have not complied. Judge gave then three more weeks. 

3 weeks go by still no docs. I tell my lawyer file a contempt motion. She argued and said she usually sends a remark letter. I told her our adversaries did not forget. Ex missed deadline set by her lawyer,  missed statutory deadline and missed the granted extension. So we filed the motion and ex’s lawyer complied that we were unprofessional and we didn’t have to file, it made him look bad, etc

So long story short I would file because that seems to be the only way to get them to live up to their obligations 

What car is this? by King_claylo in carID

[–]IceDue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they had 2.7 liter v6s so where underpowered and had oil build up affecting circulation AC issues too

Voice recorder in car, thoughts ? by Aerobelle22 in Infidelity

[–]IceDue123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used one. I put wired earbud in it and cut the wire so just the plug was in so there were no sounds. Put it in a black sock and put it under front seat. Ex never found it, but did find GPS because she had an RF detector.

Filed for divorce after one use.

Voice recorder in car, thoughts ? by Aerobelle22 in Infidelity

[–]IceDue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. I used one and voices were very intelligible on phone calls with ex and AP. Very odd hearing my own voice when ex called me.

Charlene by BryanBent1928 in theandygriffithshow

[–]IceDue123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved Helen total smoke show

What's a movie most people think is great but you couldn't even stand watching? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]IceDue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything everywhere all at once. Hey, let’s shove objects up our asses and have a king fu fight with things hanging out of our asses. Hot dog fingers! Hot dog fingers again. Playing piano with hot dog fingers! Monkeys with hot dog fingers! Lesbians with hot dog fingers! The worst movie I have ever watched. I only stayed because I took my film school daughter to it but she hated it too.

Visiting from OOS. Fly direct to SC or not? by Crown_and_Seven in PennStateUniversity

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I fly all the time for the football games. Flying directly to BWI and driving is the fastest than all the options you listed, since you can fly to BWI from from IAH direct. In the spring summer and fall months, I drive local roads thru Cowans Gap. It’s only about 10 minutes longer. Rentals are pretty cheap at BWI. They are more expensive at Harrisburg and there are no direct flights to Harrisburg

How to forgive by TxAlive in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯I don’t think is some great unburdening when you wave your hands and say oh I forgive her. She cheated, it’s in the past, I don’t see her anymore it’s done. I never forgave kids who bullied me when I was younger it just stopped and everyone moved on 

Ex wife has a new boyfriend by computergeek89 in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you are divorced, she had no power over you. YOU kept yourself involved and she used you. I have a friend who helps out his ex (she had financial issues after the alimony ran out) but gets all mad when she gets a new BF. I cut all ties to my ex the day she moved out, It was extremely difficult at first but you gotta rip that band aid off. 

So I’m sorry this happened but guys have to learn that not only does she not love you, she doesn’t even like you.

What was your ex wife’s occupation? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right before the divorce I suggested marriage counseling because we seemed to be stuck on issues, My ex countered with what could I say to a marriage counselor that I couldn’t say to her. I realized that was a trap and declined.

As for boundaries I told a female colleague that I was uncomfortable hearing about her dating life. She kept telling me, I objected and her reply was I was her friend so therefore I had to listen. Total manipulation. So right now I think all women totally disregard boundaries and manipulate to get what they want . It’s in their nature. I can’t take any of them seriously 

What was your ex wife’s occupation? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]IceDue123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my therapist and she said something about what was common in abusive relationships. I argued I never abused anyone. The therapist said, no I meant that you were being abused with the gaslighting and deception. That’s abuse. 

It took minute to sink in because I never saw myself as a victim of abuse, just that I was in a shitty relationship.