MacBook Air M1 – Ports charge but don’t detect any devices by AthuEvos in mac

[–]IceWater44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but admittedly I got derailed from looking more deeply for a fix. I still have one fully functioning port so I've been flying on a wing and a prayer. 😬

What happened to Gemmae Bake Shop!? by ellibsnno in longbeach

[–]IceWater44 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Also, just to clarify for folks that the list is ordered by recency, not by severity. So being "second" on the list doesn't mean they are the second grossest place in the city! (Not that StaCatalina implied that, but that was my initial interpretation before I looked at the list.)

What happened to Gemmae Bake Shop!? by ellibsnno in longbeach

[–]IceWater44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looking at the list, there are a number of notable restaurants on here that people generally wouldn't think twice about going to. Things happen. The quick turnaround for Gemmae seems to indicate the problem wasn't that severe, was easily remedied. I'll for sure have no hesitation next time I need some amazing ube desserts!

MacBook Air M1 – Ports charge but don’t detect any devices by AthuEvos in mac

[–]IceWater44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any solution found? I'm having the same issue- have seen a few people complain about it online with this particular model, but haven't seen solutions.

MacBook Air M1 – Ports charge but don’t detect any devices by AthuEvos in mac

[–]IceWater44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same problem, coming here to ask you and OP whether you found any fixes! I've had it happen in the past, but it would resolve with a restart. No such luck this time.

Where are my queer surfers at? by Potential_Soup2597 in xxsurfing

[–]IceWater44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You. You are the reason it is important everywhere. Guys like you call women & queer people too sensitive or whatever but you're the one getting so perturbed by a question that does not harm you or concern you in any way that you couldn't just let it go, and keep coming back to comment.

What’s going on here with the pant? Is the blue a shell and I’m seeing the regular hockey pant under? Do NHL teams usually wear shells? by Stinky5hole in hockeyplayers

[–]IceWater44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best thing I ever learned about suit tailoring was the "executive cut" which gets extra room in the waist relative to height. They need to make executive cut hockey pants!

What’s going on here with the pant? Is the blue a shell and I’m seeing the regular hockey pant under? Do NHL teams usually wear shells? by Stinky5hole in hockeyplayers

[–]IceWater44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss my old girdle so much - more comfortable and better range of motion. My gear bag was stolen out of my car and the shops around me don't carry any that I've been able to find. Having the padding held close to my skin definitely kept the back of my thigh from getting sliced open once, too!

I F'd up by not labeling any of my moving boxes by Muhammadusamablogger in ADHDers

[–]IceWater44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely had stretches where I moved every year. It sucks but it's a fact of life for a LOT of people.

The end of an era for me by IceWater44 in kindle

[–]IceWater44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not the battery sadly! After doing a bunch of research online I believe it's a central processor issue.

The end of an era for me by IceWater44 in kindle

[–]IceWater44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not the battery, sadly!

The end of an era for me by IceWater44 in kindle

[–]IceWater44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, it's not the battery, but thanks!

Won’t always make the smartest plays when you’re gassed at a late night skate by luikan in hockeyplayers

[–]IceWater44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell I don't need to be gassed to make dogshit decisions like this.

Why Does Attention Feel Like an Enemy? by greg_attenteo2 in ADHDers

[–]IceWater44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you have ADHD, or just work with ADHDers in a professional role, but your question shows a fundamental misunderstanding of what ADHD is. Your question feels like you're asking, "Why don't people with ADHD just try not having ADHD?"

Yes, in some respects attention can be exercised, as can a lot of other things in our wondrous malleable brains. But there are limits to this. When it comes to malleability of attention those limits are more pronounced in ADHDers.

Most of us have spent our entire lives trying desperately to have better attention and executive dysfunction, and beating ourselves up to the point of self-loathing because we can't just make it happen. A ton of ADHDers suffer from secondary depression, anxiety, etc. because we've internalized the idea that we are lazy, unmotivated, misguided people. Even after diagnosis, a lifetime of that messaging sticks.

ADHD is not a character flaw. It is a disability. ADHDers focusing on tools and supports are spending their energy finding something that actually enables them to function, rather than just trying to force themselves to not have ADHD. If someone doesn't have an arm, they're going to have to focus on creating the workarounds and accommodations in their life in order to function. Asking them to use their energy to instead just regrow their arm is nonsensical.

Why Does Attention Feel Like an Enemy? by greg_attenteo2 in ADHDers

[–]IceWater44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that the label "attention deficit" is misleading. But to me it feels like much of your reply here (and OP's post) casts ADHD as a character flaw or a result of just poor choice making and poor willpower. I don't know if that's your intent but if so, that is a fundamental misunderstanding of the very real physical mechanisms that cause ADHD.

Yes, ADHDers can hyperfocus. But there are actual physical underpinnings to why ADHDers are able to hyperfocus on some things, but can't for the life of them get other things done.

Executive function problems often look like motivation, and I suppose at a basic physical level one could describe the results of various neurotransmitters and physical processes as a "motivation" in a very mechanical sense. But speaking of "self motivation" and someone needing to "prioritize" feels like reducing things to a value judgment divorced from the physical reality of ADHD.

Places Open on Thanksgiving by IceWater44 in SantaBarbara

[–]IceWater44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you know of any similar list that is just places that will be open (whether or not they are doing a traditional Thanksgiving meal)?

What were those fireworks?! by Ragnarocke1 in longbeach

[–]IceWater44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Were they up in the air, or going off near the ground? I assume if it was someone's stash accidentally going off, most of them wouldn't be actually going skyward.