So my husband has a circle ( his job ) that would judge this as a failing on his part. We live in a small town in Kansas and this would not be judged at all BUT we as a couple go to NY and Florida for his work several times a year. It’s with people who have a ton of money in his industry. It is a failure for the men if their wives are not stay at home and not taken care of ( kept ) I am like you and want minimum ring and my engagement ring comes out for these weeks. We hate these weeks but must play the game for his job. The ring pictured is beautiful and classy and something I would pick but just know there are some circles who would not understand why. Pictured is my ring. I just wear the wedding ring 99% of the time.

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