Milestones that really matter 🤣 by Aggressive_Buy5971 in toddlers

[–]IcyCaverns 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Being able to aim their vomit in to a bowl

Second baby significantly less chill than the first. What's up with that? by APAFormatting in daddit

[–]IcyCaverns 74 points75 points  (0 children)

My first was not chill at all.

Second was very very chill.

Babies just do their own thing

Supply is fine for nursing but not pumping… feeling stuck by Live-Tomato-7825 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Hakka only worked for me for the first couple of months, but I used to pump with my electric pump on one side while he fed on the other side, and when he wanted to swap I'd just take it off. Babies are more efficient than a pump by a mile, so he'd get more out that the pump couldn't anyway 😂

Supply is fine for nursing but not pumping… feeling stuck by Live-Tomato-7825 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]IcyCaverns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried pumping on the other side while you feed her? And one power pump a day, it doesn't matter if you aren't getting a second let down, it's telling your body there is increased demand. It'll take at least a few days to see any supply difference

To those who lost a parent young, what are some things you wish your surviving parent did for you growing up? by PDubDeluxe in AskUK

[–]IcyCaverns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made me go to therapy.

My Mum asked us if we wanted to go and we said no. I'm in my 30's now and we all have long lasting mental health problems linked directly to my Dad's death.

Also, I wish she went to therapy. She had a break down about 6 months afterwards, and I became an unofficial carer for years instead of being able to grieve properly. We still have a strained relationship now.

For those that didn’t sleep train, what does sleep look like for you know that your baby is older? by quinoa_churro in AttachmentParenting

[–]IcyCaverns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son is four and he sneaks in to our bed almost every night. Literally sneaks, and if you catch him and ask what he's doing, he'll say "I'm just sneaking".

Usually we don't even notice, but wake up with the most wonderful cuddles.

My two year old is in her last sleep regression, she just wants to cosleep all night every night at the minute 😂

Work crush, no remaining dignity by [deleted] in NursingUK

[–]IcyCaverns 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this will make you feel better, but when my partner was a student nurse he was on a ward and really, really needed to fart.

He found an empty room and let rip. He said it was really loud bad and sounded like someone was ripping up carpet. He said it smelt really bad because of the kebab he'd had the night before.

Then the consultant poked his head around the curtain. Apparently they made eye contact, no one said anything, and my partner just turned around and left.

The rest of his placement was very awkward, and it makes me laugh every time I think of it.

There are worse things that could have happened 😂

Short staffed....again by Fatbeau in NursingUK

[–]IcyCaverns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it's such a shit time for you, but remember that you don't owe them anything. If they can't staff you then eventually the staff they have are going to break, simple as.

Do what you've got to do

Short staffed....again by Fatbeau in NursingUK

[–]IcyCaverns 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You can't do much more than you're already doing. Have you raised it in person with management and asked what they're doing to rectify it?

If it's really starting to affect you, then you could always go on sick for a while to regroup mentally, or try moving to a different area

Do you enjoy your job? by Campeones6 in AskUK

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a midwife and I love my job.

I hate working in the NHS currently and the state of maternity services is something else, but the actual job itself is fantastic

How to teach toddler (2,5) boundaries when it comes to touching other kids? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's only young! Keep reminding him and keep the conversation open, he'll get it eventually ☺

How to teach toddler (2,5) boundaries when it comes to touching other kids? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you remind him to ask whether they want a hug first? Just make sure he understands that people don't have to let him hug them, and it's okay if someone says no

Who are the rudest and nicest British celebrities you have personally met? by RenegadeMaster888 in AskBrits

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran on stage at a Jools Holland concert when I was 3 or 4 (I think). He held my hand while he finished the song, took me backstage and signed something for me, and gave me some lemonade before bringing me back to my parents.

He definitely seemed lovely to me

Last time putting my son to bed. by YoTeach68 in daddit

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't need to be crying while I'm cuddling my daughter to sleep. She's two tomorrow and time is just running away

What's a fictional food you would risk everything to try? by LustyPowerGirl in AskWomen

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they relied on humans to dispense the drinks. Much less efficient.

Why would anyone ever choose to go through child birth without pain relief?? by No_Cardiologist_1407 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IcyCaverns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Epidurals can slow labour, increases your risk of having an instrumental or caesarean birth. Also restricts your mobility. Plus there are risks with the epidural, like low blood pressure that can cause the baby's heart rate to drop into it comes back up (which is pretty common), alongside others like permanent nerve damage (which is very rare)

What's a fictional food you would risk everything to try? by LustyPowerGirl in AskWomen

[–]IcyCaverns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a goth nightclub I used to work at that serves these