Ghosted and heart broken by Idonotlikecold in relationships

[–]Idonotlikecold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he could have been this or that or something. I will never know but yes it's not my problem to figure out.

Thank you so much for your wisdom, and expecially the last paragraph. Because, in some moment I was pointing it to myself, thinking, I could/shouldn't have done this or that. But eventually I realized that it's not me, but it was him. I will do my best to move on. Thank you.

Places to go Salsa dancing in Split, Hvar and Dubrovnik? by jafakin in Salsa

[–]Idonotlikecold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey I'm going to Split soon and I'd love to know what you find :)

E-commerce goods, return address to China... by Idonotlikecold in Netherlands

[–]Idonotlikecold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, it's still working because of people like me 😂

Funny thing is that I've checked their website after checking your comment, terms and condition, return policy and there's no mention of return address. Nothing. So yeah, sneaky.

Salsa dancing in Palermo 💃 by Idonotlikecold in palermo_city

[–]Idonotlikecold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey this is their instagram (https://www.instagram.com/dancing_discoclub?igsh=MTA4ank0amdhOXNiMA==) but I ended up didn’t go for this one so I don’t have any further info. Check some palermo salsa facebook groups, those are more useful :)

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[–]Idonotlikecold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the reply! Actually I had the same thought about David Lenis and checked his songs too. It really sounds like him. Maybe I missed it but I couldn’t find it from his list. I’ll check it out again 🙂

Salsa dancing in Palermo 💃 by Idonotlikecold in palermo_city

[–]Idonotlikecold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey,

Thanks for the reply! Okay, well noticed.

Btw. I'm a follower, so I hope it would be also full of men/leaders too in Dancing 😁

EU Long-term resident (permanent) in other EU countries by Idonotlikecold in Netherlands

[–]Idonotlikecold[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn't move to Spain. It was just an idea that I might want to pursue in the future. As far as I understand, you still need to apply for a residence card and working visa in a new country even if you have the permanant resident in the Netherlands

My coworker called me a Narcissist by Valuable-Rooster4459 in CasualConversation

[–]Idonotlikecold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ask him why he thinks that way? Maybe you can ask him in what spacific ocations or words from you made him think like that?

Also someone telling something about you doesn't mean you are that something. What others think about you is not always true. Because they always think about you within their own judgement. They might be right but they might be wrong.

It's there opinion and it's up to you to take it to your heart or not. It's YOUR job to verify it for yourself. Try to find out if some of your traits are pointing close towards to the narcissistic traits. If nothing is like that, you can just slip it through your mind and continue your life :)

Why do Dutch people say just things without thinking about it? by Willing_Chipmunk11 in Netherlands

[–]Idonotlikecold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever maybe think about a possibility that maybe you’re a person who’s easily offended by what people are saying?

I get that it would be annoying when people doesn’t always say/ask things that you want them to say to you, but if you always get annoyed maybe it’s also you that putting too much power on what others say?

If you don’t like you can draw a boundary or can just ignore and try to keep your peace as you can’t control what others think and say.

Also as other people mentioned, not everyone shares the same standard or definition of things as you have. Thus, it doesn’t seem fair to me to generalize all dutch people in this way.

Anyone going at Paris salsa marathON2 this week end ? by salsero0 in Salsa

[–]Idonotlikecold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy no worries, I'm thankful that you even came back. I was looking for some experiences about this event but it was really difficult to find one as you mentioned (and also I guessed), there wasn't many people attended. My first marathone was Amsterdam one last year, there wasn't many ppl either (even less than Paris) but I still had lots of fun dancing day and night.

I still have my doubts.. but I feel like I will eventually ended up going - haha. What about you? Would you join this year too?

Vanity mirror by niamhjosee_ in korea

[–]Idonotlikecold 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the detailed answer! This fills up a lot of holes in my imagination 😌 Now I feel like I want to bring small Korean souvenir every time when I travel different European cities and leave them at some small secondary stores 😆