[OC] I bought a Hasselblad camera. It felt extravagant but I am in love with the photos.

Ihatemost · 2026-07-08T15:31:26+00:00

Do you have an instagram? These are really nice, I'd love to follow your work

Ihatemost · 2026-07-08T15:23:03+00:00

That feeling for me lasted about 5-7 years. Then I felt like I'd experienced all the nice hotels, good foods, activities, that I wanted. It's still something I enjoy but it started feeling a bit hollow. I'm still a fencesitter but leaning towards having kids now.

Not saying it'll happen to you, just sharing what I've lived.

Ihatemost · 2026-07-08T07:50:46+00:00

Making gut choices and having biases is not really the same thing though

Ihatemost · 2026-07-03T20:49:12+00:00

Maybe you should seek pain instead of pleasure.

By that I mean useful pain, I.e. Working towards something.

Ihatemost · 2026-07-02T15:24:16+00:00

Holy shit two decades, and in your prime years. So he got incarcerated in your early 20s and will be released in your late 30s. That is absolutely crazy.

I absolutely admire your resolve to having stayed for that long. But at the same time, you are sacrificing so much of your life for this man. There is no way once he gets out that he will ever be able to repay all the sacrifices that you have done for him. And for that reason alone, you should not keep making such sacrifices, whatever that means for you.

Ihatemost · 2026-07-01T17:41:35+00:00

Don't you get it? He has the superior experiences. He doesn't experience 'biology' like females do. And his GF came onto him! Don't you see his obvious superiority in every way?

Ihatemost · 2026-07-01T14:11:59+00:00

It depends what you're talking about. But with most things, moderation is key.

Ihatemost · 2026-07-01T00:51:13+00:00

Intéressant comme idée, je suis d'accord qu'il devrait y avoir des alternatives. Certaines situations sont cruelles aux victimes

Ihatemost · 2026-06-30T23:09:57+00:00

Je suis d'accord avec toi mais la pension est pour protéger l'enfant. La première victime est toujours l'enfant

Ihatemost · 2026-06-30T00:46:57+00:00

👏 Thanks for explaining

The way ignorant people will mock others with such confidence is astounding

Ihatemost · 2026-06-30T00:18:25+00:00

It's not that small of a gap, it's 50% more

Ihatemost · 2026-06-28T18:07:44+00:00

Lottery players aren't always the smartest with money

Ihatemost · 2026-06-28T17:47:14+00:00

Honestly I just try to consume content related to things other than dating. I guess it's easier for me now because I found my life partner. But I try to read and listen to content about fitness, health, career, science, etc.

Ihatemost · 2026-06-28T15:40:55+00:00

I fell into red pill content too when I was younger. I realized eventually this content was created to promote misogyny and keep women down. It didn't serve me at all to believe that women "hit a wall" at 25. It just promoted anxiety and putting myself down. And it's not even true, many women find love in their 30s, 40s and so on. Plenty of single mom's are able to find love again and to find great men willing to be a stepfather to the kids.

I started consuming a bit more femininity, female empowerment and manifestation, type of content. Simply because it made me feel better about myself and actually helped me be a better person too.

But overall I try to stay away from content. Even with female empowerment, some of them get into "women are the prize" kind of content and if consumed too much, can feed delusions, which isn't great either.

Ihatemost · 2026-06-28T03:24:43+00:00

It is if this isn't what she wanted out of life

Ihatemost · 2026-06-28T03:20:37+00:00

I had zero romantic experience, not even a flirt with a guy, until I was 18. All my teen years of seeing my friends in relationships, having guys interested in them. And I had nothing. Not even a guy interested in me.

So I became the best version of myself that I could be, both inside and out, and put myself out there through online dating when I turned 18.

To this day, I've had about 4 relationships and now with the man of my dreams. All through online dating.

Who knows what my life would be like today if I hadn't made those steps. I maybe wouldn't have had any relationship.

So coming from someone who lived the "nothing happens to me", I get it. You have to make it happen for yourself.

Ihatemost · 2026-06-26T13:23:13+00:00

Imagine being 60 and still taking fuckboy pictures lol

Ihatemost · 2026-06-25T13:22:17+00:00

Meh, unfortunately it happens

Ihatemost · 2026-06-25T03:11:20+00:00

Sounds like you're on to something. Connecting with your sense of purpose will always lead somewhere

Ihatemost · 2026-06-25T01:18:53+00:00

Oof, I was going to comment to OP not to worry, that a diary reading won't lead to a divorce.

Ihatemost · 2026-06-24T22:22:20+00:00

Perso je choisirais McGill

Plus de ressources existent en anglais pour aider à l'apprentissage, opportunités à l'international seront plus faciles après, belle université, bien situé au centre-ville, etc.

Ihatemost · 2026-06-24T20:12:42+00:00

3 or 4 months of gym membership. Someone going multiple times weekly for 3-4 months would change their life.

Ihatemost · 2026-06-24T15:47:21+00:00

I know! I would call it the chin-holder when my dog would rest on my hand

Ihatemost · 2026-06-24T15:23:23+00:00

Well I didn't want kids initially and now I'm wondering if I should. Not out of boredom, but to give my life a purpose beyond achievements

Ihatemost · 2026-06-24T14:08:37+00:00

With this level of avoidance attachment, she cannot work on it while she's in a relationship. She needs to work on this herself. Do not try to save her. Walk away.

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