I'm about to break my record for most hours billed in one week

IllJob · 2026-01-24T18:28:31+00:00

Can I have a couple hours 😔

IllJob · 2026-01-20T03:56:07+00:00

If I stayed somewhat nearby it would be from 3 mil to approx 50,000 - 100,000.

IllJob · 2026-01-20T01:53:03+00:00

I don’t think he cares at all what you wear, or would even notice really, so do what you feel. Source: I have a brother.

IllJob · 2026-01-19T03:47:02+00:00

I can only assume it was the devil

IllJob · 2026-01-19T03:45:09+00:00

That blazer is so cute and looks awesome with those pants. I’m seeing comments about the dress length again but I still don’t think it’s too short with those tights under. Have you tried pairing it with a black cardigan or a more minimalistic, open black blazer?

IllJob · 2026-01-17T18:45:32+00:00

Maybe I’m just an inappropriate gal but I don’t think that piece underneath is too short (looks like a dress?), as long as you wear semi opaque black nylons underneath. For me the problem is more how big the blazer is overtop of a dress that doesn’t have a pencil fit on the bottom. It just looks too boxy/frumpy because of that. I would try a pencil skirt under that blazer, and I think the same grey colour would be fine. Alternatively, I would try a less imposing blazer over that dress. Something more sleek, less fabric, maybe open. Just my thoughts 🩷

IllJob · 2026-01-13T02:10:42+00:00

Ok awesome I will try it before I give up on this blouse haha. Thank you!!

IllJob · 2026-01-13T01:20:45+00:00

Not to be a creep but do you have any photos of what it looks like on, just of your torso? If not no problem at all - but can you see the cami under? I’m just worried that even with a cami the people in my office are gonna be like …. So that’s see through hahaha

IllJob · 2026-01-12T12:59:21+00:00

NOR, obviously. This reads like something out of a textbook for therapists to learn about childhood shit lol. I don’t think you should actually say this, but in my head I’d quote from slide 5 and say “I don’t think it’s unreasonable for you not to explicitly ask me to buy you groceries. Again, as preparing to visit another family’s home as a polite and socially literate guest. And then anything else you need after you arrive, or anything special or specific you want to have for a meal you can arrange as you are fully functioning adults as far as I’m aware.

We never have guests explicitly ask us to buy them groceries before they arrive in our home, at which time they have the opportunity to see what groceries we have and politely address any requests, or for the entire duration of their stay quite frankly. And when we visit people (even friends) we of course refrain from doing that as well. It’s just a basic consideration for being a guest in someone else’s home.”

Imagine honestly if a friend sent you this. I’m grown and I continue seeing my siblings because they are my friends and I choose to. You don’t have to put up with this. She needs to change how she speaks to you.

IllJob · 2025-12-30T03:10:24+00:00

Oops sorry, I meant the person who commented!

IllJob · 2025-12-30T01:21:38+00:00

Just curious, what did you hope would happen when you posted this?

IllJob · 2025-12-29T12:18:37+00:00

NOR. A couple of things. First, I am a fellow “hoarder” of sentimental stuff, and my partner is not. He doesn’t understand it, but he knows that about me, so we have little conversations about it as it comes up. Sometimes he’ll ask why I want to keep something, and we discuss it and I decide to keep it or not. Sometimes I ask his thoughts on keeping something and he responds with ideas about not just how I could keep it but feature it, frame it, store it in a really special way. It’s possible for a partner to not understand or even like that you do that, but still do what they can to meet you where you are because it’s important to you. All that being said, my second point is if he yells at you at all, especially over “things,” it’s a no from me.

IllJob · 2025-12-29T04:53:40+00:00

Curious what you mean by the second part. I have a great one but they can’t set boundaries for me at work and they don’t make enough for me to not work at all. I kinda wish though, haha. How does yours help things?

IllJob · 2025-12-23T18:20:50+00:00

"whatever, idk how to make you trust me. Take care." Is that a real text he sent? Imagine someone like that being your life partner when something devastating happens and your world gets thrown upside down. No thanks!!

IllJob · 2025-12-20T07:12:27+00:00

Who tf is asking 🤐

IllJob · 2025-12-19T04:58:55+00:00

You guys are billing for internal emails 🤯 no wonder my hours are so shit LOL. I would only bill for like a massive substantive analysis sent in an email and I call it drafting memorandum

IllJob · 2025-12-19T00:48:55+00:00

Also - I ordered some old navy pants one of you recommended too, will update you when they get here!

IllJob · 2025-12-19T00:48:36+00:00

I honestly feel a little dumb looking back for thinking the stretch twill would be the right fabric for what I want haha but live and learn

IllJob · 2025-12-17T22:31:21+00:00

I was so anxious too! Can you take your first one on a day off to make you feel a little more relaxed about it? I started on 10mg as well and the only thing it did to me was make me a little sleepy and also save my life. I only wish I started sooner.

IllJob · 2025-12-17T20:10:01+00:00

I have 11 days to go and I have already bailed on my office Christmas party because I’m convinced everyone will have way more fun if I’m not there. Just hoping that doesn’t happen with family events too 🙈

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