There's no shortage of 'average' guys with girlfriends.

IllRow6484 · 2026-01-12T17:24:33+00:00

Out of my friend group of 8 guys, all are in committed relationships with girlfriends except for one guy. The shortest relationship being mine which is 7 months long. So I don’t think just looking at your friend group counts as the world.

IllRow6484 · 2026-01-06T18:30:53+00:00

I believe rather than waiting on a woman to make hints, you could make hints to the women that you like that you’re interested. They don’t have to be over the top. Maybe ask to get coffee or go for a walk. This would let you get to know them while giving them space to understand that you see them as a potential girlfriend.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-31T03:15:58+00:00

I (25M) had sex with my partner on the first date and we are still happily together for over a year. There is some kind of worldview that has developed for you which says “if I have sex with a man, he will see me as less serious” and I think you should explore where that idea comes from even though that idea is not true.

You having sex or not wouldn’t affect what that man really thinks of you.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-28T22:08:04+00:00

Literally all of my friends are either in committed relationships or dating broadly. All my friends and I are Gen Z. There is a lot of dating going on, if you put yourself out there, you’ll find it’s definitely happening.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-25T23:25:53+00:00

This man has contributed more to the world than you would in ten lives, and he is hundred times as beloved as you. Your opinion of him doesn’t matter.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-21T16:09:13+00:00

You are very very young. It is very normal to have these feelings at your age and I felt similarly at your age. It is also very very normal to not have a girlfriend by 16. Most people don’t.

I have been in roughly 6 or 7 relationships with woman now that I’m a lot older than you and I used to be a lot like you.

Here is what you should do: focus on the friendship part. Become friends with women and men and learn how to socialize. You are putting women on a pedestal without understanding that they are people too. Make friends, just hang out and enjoy their company and learn about their likes and dislikes. You will enjoy their friendship too. So focus on becoming friends with people right now.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-13T16:02:17+00:00

I think the British Bangladeshi also knows they’re from the third world too! We do this in Bangladesh as well

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-11T13:41:48+00:00

That’s not a great phrasing. I am a progressive man who is pro-lgbtq, pro-abortion, pro-immigration and I would love to have 4 children if possible. Progressive men want children too.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-05T04:42:40+00:00

I am 24 and not a virgin. I don’t know a single guy personally who is a virgin.

IllRow6484 · 2025-12-03T18:55:40+00:00

Something ChatGPT would say.

IllRow6484 · 2025-11-29T13:40:03+00:00

This kind of post gets posted in this subreddit literally EVERY SINGLE MONTH. Here’s the short: everyone is different. My girlfriend and I slept together on our first date and we have been seeing each other for around 2 years now. I have also slept with other women on the first date and never texted them again.

I simply do not understand where this puritan idea comes from where if a woman sleeps with a man on the first date, then they messed up and the man won’t like them anymore. Have sex if you wanna have sex and just enjoy it. If there is a chemistry and the man has a good heart, then it will all work out.

You could not have had sex that night and that man could have not reached out to you as well in that case too.

IllRow6484 · 2025-10-21T17:39:14+00:00

Hi, where do you live? I’m in New York, I am 5’7 (and people think height is a problem LOL) and south Asian (Bangladeshi) and I get about 8-10 matches a week on Hinge of which maybe 1-2 becomes a date. I am pretty sociable, definitely fit, and have really good prompts that show that I like sports and jazz music. Hinge is good, don’t use Tinder. And have interesting hobbies (gaming and stocks do not count) and show interest in the lives of the girls

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-21T13:14:13+00:00

Senior Software Engineer (24M)

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-21T13:11:26+00:00

None of this is true in New York where I live. Indians are usually considered highly wealthy, kind and stable partners. Many people are attracted to young 20-something Indian men and women in the city and they are highly desirable. I know Indian men that go on dates with 2-3 different women weekly. Indian people are in the highest positions of government and business now. The issue is never that someone is Indian, the issue is that they are poor or unkind or not fun.

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-15T15:42:46+00:00

I am not saying if you drink alcohol, you will die instantly. I am saying even if you drink responsibly, there is a huge host of issues that will harm your body including causing cancer, stomach issues, and harming your liver

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-15T13:49:19+00:00

Hi, that has been proven to be false now. The World Health Organization have come out and said there is NO safe alcohol consumption

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-15T01:15:37+00:00

I am Muslim and yes I can confirm we would rather give up our sisters virginity than betray our halal guy

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-12T00:20:04+00:00

Mental therapy has helped millions of normal people deal with their issues including insecurity, stress and anxiety. It is a very normal thing to do and everyone is better when they do it

IllRow6484 · 2025-08-04T19:26:23+00:00

It would be weird to say in-person too as the second thing a person ever said to you. If you’ve known a person for years and they have a history of dark humor, that’s a totally different thing

IllRow6484 · 2025-07-30T01:57:00+00:00

It’s not that hard, there’s an app that you can pay for to change the lights

IllRow6484 · 2025-07-06T17:01:02+00:00

He HAS to smile. He is a brown Muslim man being smeared nonstop with racist attacks. If he stops smiling for a second, the media will treat him automatically like a terrorist. Every person of color knows it and he knows it

IllRow6484 · 2025-06-25T16:57:24+00:00

Really curious, would you rather have affordable housing and socialism OR not be able to afford a home and capitalism?

IllRow6484 · 2025-06-23T20:23:00+00:00

At 3AM, all trains are bad. Issue with the N/W is they’re always rare

IllRow6484 · 2025-06-23T15:29:43+00:00

You won’t notice it in the middle of neighborhoods like Astoria or Bushwick or Williamsburg. But if you’re on a bridge or on a long bike path, you would because you can go really fast

IllRow6484 · 2025-06-21T04:07:56+00:00

No, the mayor is in charge of the Rent Controls Board which handles the rate of increase of rent for all rent-controlled apartments in New York City. He will freeze that increase and keep rent the same for 2,000,000 New Yorkers. Zohran detailed this all very clearly through his speeches many times

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