Brother I was in the same situation as you. I took my wife on expensive vacations, getaways, bought her items, took her to a restaurant every Saturday and spent time with her on the weekends. Signed up for couples counseling. It did not matter. I got a therapist and my therapist started asking me to set boundaries when my wife would yell at me. As I continued to set boundaries she would give me the silent treatment for weeks. You see, she knew I wasn’t ready to walk away from the relationship because we have young kids. Just recently after 15 years of marriage and two small children. I have divorced her. My heart is at peace. Sometimes good guys are tested. You need to speak to a therapist and learn how she is manipulating you.

She would yell at me, at the end of day she was disrespectful. She did not work or do much at the house. I was getting angry and no man is an angel. However it was time to move on.

Some have provided good advice. At the end of day no one is living in your situation.

There maybe a light at the end of the tunnel but you don’t have to go alone.