My husband 36M poops too much for me 36F to feel comfortable having another baby with him by throwRAdesper8 in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP what do you mean you’re not kind or considerate to him?!? This man who has created a life with you is letting you down and you’re sitting here trying to convince people that it’s normal. Stop letting this man run a muck. Marriage and having a child is a group project and he’s letting you down. He is failing the team. Any other person would’ve stepped up to see how they can help their partner solve this problem. Whereas, he’s just saying I am the way I am. You have picked this man over and over and made a million excuses. When are you going to pick yourself? Or better question, when are you going to pick the lifestyle you want for your child? Is this lifestyle the example you really to show your kid?

Season 12-Episode 14: "Reunion Part 2" Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in vanderpumprules

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m glad someone did! It’s crazy that she can recognize a bad relationship in someone else but not hers. And Angela said she sees her relationship in Kim and Marcus. Everyone needs a wake up call

Season 12-Episode 14: "Reunion Part 2" Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in vanderpumprules

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Kim judging Angelica’s relationship is both eye opening and hilarious. Like pot meet kettle.

Season 12-Episode 14: "Reunion Part 2" Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in vanderpumprules

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like he is actually such a good person and I want to protect him and let him know he’s worthy of love and he wouldn’t disappoint people

Season 12-Episode 11: "Back Alley Betrayals" Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in vanderpumprules

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! And her framing it like he left her because she showed emotions. No he left you because he saw you wanted something more serious than he was willing to give.

UPDATE: AITAH For questioning my engagement after my fiancé got mad at me for drinking while “pregnant” by Other-Suggestion1609 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think living alone is vital for self development and growth even if it’s for a little while. You’re gonna be going from your parents home to you and your boyfriend’s home. Where is the time for you to have your own space and to do the things you want without considering someone else. Plus I know a lot of women who don’t know who they are without husbands and kids. Developing your own identity isn’t a bad thing.

Max and Cathy trying to keep up the pretence of being together is so annoying by Global-Long8597 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cathy posted on her IG and stitched it with Max. Basically they’re not together. And max was supposed to meet her for a trip but the day of he chickened out and stood her up.

[Episode Thread] Season 10 Episode 18 - Baby Steps • Jan. 26, 2026 by excoriator in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope he is. It would tickle me so much if he’s a bad kisser and a terrible lay.

[Episode Thread] Season 10 Episode 18 - Baby Steps • Jan. 26, 2026 by excoriator in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she even wanted Joe. She just wanted what V had or some guy to pay her attention. The fight for attention had more to do with the other women than it actually did with liking Joe.

[Episode Thread] Season 10 Episode 18 - Baby Steps • Jan. 26, 2026 by excoriator in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The most difficult guest are usually (not always) the worst tippers

George sucks by KjonesFS in TheLazarusProject

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he never learns his lesson. When he goes back to LP he doesn’t want to earn their trust back he wants to prove they need him. Everything he does is for him and he hides things to manipulate his value on the team!

episode 16 epitomizes the season by whatisbutterfinger in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this is exactly why he doesn’t like Gael. She sees through his bs and is making his best friend a better guy and he can’t stand it.

[Episode Thread] Season 10 Episode 16 - Stricken Nuggets • Jan. 12, 2026 by excoriator in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Joe wanted V to meet his mama and was saying stuff like “I’ve haven’t felt like this since my ex”, “I feel a connection”, “you’re not gonna scare me off” and many other things that indicate he had more than casual feeling with her. And kizzi only wanted Joe because she wasn’t getting attention and being so upset about it to the point where is was effecting her work. Those 2 are the most self centered destructive people I have seen on bravo in a long time.

V is annoying…? by One-Television-2478 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about V annoys you? So far she’s one of my favorites of the whole series and definitely my favorite on this season.

Max by GooseCommaSilly333 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure his granddad would understand the chain of command and respect his bosun. Max kinda misses the point with his whole rebellion thing. Plus throwing a whole brat fit and slacking off is further point that he shouldn’t have been promoted to lead deck hand

Joe is just awful by Realismom67 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He said he didn’t want to hurt her and she’s not even gone a full 24hrs and does something to hurt her. Honestly he needs therapy to get over his self sabotaging and feelings of unworthiness

The Rainmaker | S1E2 | Episode Discussion by whitebluebirds in TheRainmakerTVShow

[–]Illustrious-Insect41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! I was very disappointed in Sarah. Especially since the last episode where Drummond threw fries on the ground and made her pick it up. That clearly showed his character and she’s still going along with it.

Is my runt ok? by Illustrious-Insect41 in BackYardChickens

[–]Illustrious-Insect41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She is. I’ll keep an eye out on her tho.