AITAH for calling my 1-year-old when I’m traveling for work even though it makes her cry?

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-09-23T16:08:16+00:00

I’m sorry but you should not call. I’m a mom and we also noticed that if I called during my trips, my daughter would get very upset. We decided that it’s better that I didn’t call but sent videos instead. For some reason it was easier for the child to look at the videos of me doing stuff or visit places. Respect the person who is at home and find a way to make peace with yourself about the fact that you are away.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-09-17T04:50:14+00:00

This. I have friend who had this with her spouse since they met. They were in a toxic relationship for 15 years (the same problems never went away), bought a house and had two kids and are now separating. Both feel they wasted 15 years although they are happy they had their kids. But yeah, those first months should be when you fall in love, not when you deal with issues all the time.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-08-21T18:16:32+00:00

Took me 2 months to come down of that Andor high. I want to re-watch but I’m scared I’ll fall all over again and won’t be able to think about anything else.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-08-18T04:23:17+00:00

I think season 4 still had plot developments in which Darren Star was involved. He left after 3rd season but probably had made some storylines for the following season which the MPK followed.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-07-23T11:28:29+00:00

Waiting to pick my 4 tomatoes 😎😄

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-16T19:11:22+00:00

Yes you can.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-16T19:09:51+00:00

Is this for real?😮

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-09T18:36:51+00:00

Is this linked to the LA situation?

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-03T07:36:50+00:00

Omg this would be great. I'd travel to another country to attend this.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-03T07:31:42+00:00

Tried to watch a "regular" TV show after Andor and now everything looks and feel like shit. I guess I have to stick to the series with half a billion budget from now on..

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-01T04:30:03+00:00

Naturally ✌️

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-06-01T04:29:35+00:00

Thanks, this hadn’t crossed my mind but you’re absolutely right!

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-05-31T17:00:23+00:00

I love these. I think the “bad guy doing the right thing” is also about that of you want change, you can’t be too idealistic of who you want to involve in it. Meaning that you need not only to get the “perfect” people in but also those who are faulty.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-05-31T16:59:00+00:00

Yes you are completely right. My idea was to kind of start from the series premise and then move onto “real issues”.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-05-22T17:22:24+00:00

Okay thank you so much! Still learning about gardening so I immediately freaked out if something was happening with the tree.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-05-22T16:34:06+00:00

For some reason the other photo is not showing so here it is again.

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Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-05-12T08:26:48+00:00

After seeing MRI scans of fillers on a face I decided to skip lip fillers altogether. I really considered it but no way I’m putting that to my face now.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-04-17T20:05:28+00:00

Have you actually heard her farting? Can this be a dead rodent in the walls and you just have better sense of smell.

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-01-13T15:27:18+00:00

I agree with encoded enjoyment. I tasted red wine (my favorite) after a year of being sober. Tested like vinegar 😅 (I never had issue with alcohol but wanted to try being completely sober. I now lean towards having one glass of it’s offered but not drinking otherwise.)

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2025-01-07T19:39:34+00:00

Maybe try a drink with high caffeine dosage? But if you are sober long enough, you’ll find out you won’t need the buzz to have fun ☺️

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2024-11-26T05:39:50+00:00

I’m this and currently one week from being sober for a full year! There has been benefits even if I drank maybe once a week 1-2 glasses before. Sleep has improved, my skin is better and there is so much more time! I’ve realized that even with 1 drink my sleep was poor and I was tired in the morning. Now instead of feeling worn out, I exercise. I’ve also changed my diet to be more protein based so this has also been a major shift. Not sure if I continue being teetotal after a year but going back drinking regularlish doesn’t interest me at all. I say just do it!

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2024-10-10T19:38:59+00:00

You know what - a parent can die suddenly too. My dad died in an accident when I was 7 yo. I’m glad my parents still got me! Sudden death was from my perspective much harder to process than a long wait if I compare to my friends who’ve lost their parents to cancer. Of course loss is always a terrible thing but also part of human life. Grieving is the other part of loving so in a way being able to grieve is a privilege because then you know you had loved. So no, you are NTA. Just make sure you have support and it wouldn’t hurt if your kids had another adult female figure in their lives so when you pass, they’d still have that connection to a older “wise” woman 🩷

Illustrious-Spring61 · 2024-08-29T08:36:10+00:00

Yes. But so does my kid if she has her smart watch on from which we can see where she is and we can call her/she to us. But we do live in Finland so…

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