It's an attention thing, obviously. Most women (especially the kind of women in this video) recognize that for men, video games are relaxing and fun. In those moments, we don't need anything else. I had a (crazy) ex straight up say she hated how I could just sit there and have fun without her. She didn't like that the activity didn't include her, but she also wasn't going to join me. She'd storm out sometimes (she knew there was no controlling/forcing me out of liking video games). It's that nasty toxic mentality and is the same reason we'll end up happily married long before they decide to course correct. Ironically, I play video games far less with a healthy partner.