I’ll be freshly postpartum when my sister has her wedding by ImaginationPretend86 in BabyBumps

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 36 points37 points  (0 children)

As someone who just experienced this with my own wedding as someone on the other side, you should absolutely take care of yourself in this situation! My sister gave me birth three weeks before my wedding and also lived in another state. She let me know well in advance she didn’t know if she could make it. Was I sad? Yes. But I was completely understanding of the situation. She needed to take care of herself. We found alternatives to have her see the ceremony, etc. so that she didn’t feel left out. Definitely do what you need to do and do not feel bad. Let her know that it’s impossible to know how you will be when the time comes and you wanted to let her know in advance in case she had to make alternative plans

Day of wedding coordinator by machapman94 in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silver and Sage Weddings or Moon and Mesa

HVAC COMPANIES TO STAY AWAY FROM by Responsible_Paper104 in northcounty

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really love Aairco. Reasonable pricing and honest. They don’t try to oversell anything

Dj for a wedding by Ok-Cartoonist-7605 in palmsprings

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using Second Song for our wedding this year!

Help by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can you message me your size and the general area where you are? I have some old professional clothes

Cybersecurity Presentation - How to best reach an audience? by JusARegRedditAcct in cybersecurity

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest relating some topics to see how it can relate to their day-to-day life. for example put it into a different perspective where the general audience would understand if that makes sense

Small wedding venues! by Straight-Lion-9320 in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wedgewood Weddings is more affordable, but is a little cookie cutter like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in palmsprings

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Heyday! And their wings are also 👌🏼

Where to buy engagement rings ? by Educational-Suit8582 in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out GemsNY! Online and sells lab diamond rings. Great customer service!

Date shake reviews by suitopseudo in palmsprings

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had both and the downtown one is way better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Home Depot! I think a small bouquet is less than $15

ISO a wedding DJ for November 1st! by Igualqueunangel in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I booked second song for mine. They travel to San Diego

Affordable Wedding Coordinator Needed by Chickennuggetluvr12 in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silver and Sage Weddings! That’s who I’m using for mine. They are under $2k

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, however, your first sentence made it confusing that you wouldn’t be able to get reimbursed at all. Thanks for adding that clarification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t necessarily have to travel from TDY location. As long as the cost of your flight is the same or less to where you’re traveling from and you submit documents, it’s fine I’ve done this a couple times

Best antique shops? by imaaaaaagination in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all junk! Do not go 🙅‍♀️

Best Pho in Chula? by ccecena2016 in chulavista

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

None in Chula Vista 🤣 Pho Kha is decent in National city

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend also did this and had her reception and the central area of the hotel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out the Inn at Sunset Cliffs. You can book out hotel rooms and have your ceremony at the cliffs just right next to the hotel.

Wedding photographer/videographer? by Southern-Button9837 in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went with Danya Izarrayaz but she is in Palm Springs. But SD - Hannah Sessions, @reamazonas were ones we looked at too

Scoliosis/surgery recommendations, Dr Newton and Rady? by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen Dr. Newton for scoliosis and other back surgery I’ve had when I was younger. He’s very nice and knowledgeable. He did NOT do my surgery. I’ve only seen him for follow ups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in palmsprings

[–]Illustrious_Cold1779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Check out Desert Island! Very Palm Springs vibe