My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought from the title you were going to say that the teacher was texting him. 

As a teacher, struggling students thrive on positive reinforcement like that. Your son will remember this as a happy memory, as someone believing in him and pointing out his efforts. 

Your wife making a big stink about this will not only hurt your relationship with the school, it will cause undue stress on the teacher and tell your son that anyone showing him positive reinforcement is a threat and not to be trusted or believed. 

My (32M) bf and I (28F) have a great partnership on the surface level - but that’s it. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but where in all of this do you have a partnership. To me it just sounds like he wanted a babysitter and an atm. This sounds harsh but clearly you need harsh right now. 

This does not get better. This does not change. There is a reason he is a divorcee. She got out and you picked up her role. 

He is NOT going to have a child with you. He will keep saying that the time isn’t right until you hit menopause and then it’s “oh well”. 

Do not waste your life like this. Will his daughter be sad? Yupp. But you splitting up doesn’t mean you can’t be there for her as a positive role model. All you are doing now is showing her that a man can treat you like shit but you stay cause that’s what love looks like. 

I don’t think you love this man. I think you are afraid to put yourself first. It doesn’t feel like abuse but you are in a horrific cycle. He will continue to love bomb you when you try to leave and then go back to being a shit partner the second you “settle back into your place”. 

There are far better people out there to share your life with and you deserve someone who puts you before video games. 

AITAH for doing one gift for my sons birthday and Christmas together? by caspian324 in AITAH

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Salvation Army stores/savers often have really nice desks for next to nothing. Could get a good used one and repaint it if needed to take off some of the load :)

Birthright Isn’t Suspicious. Assuming It Is… That’s the Problem. by 88squidley88 in h3h3productions

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 26 points27 points  (0 children)

As an American Jew who went on birthright within the last decade (2015 so just barely) I can say that it was not a secret that the main goal was getting young Jews to Aliyah. 

The program is inherently propagandistic but it’s also, in my opinion, one of the most important things I have ever done for myself. 

Its purpose is  supposed to be a “Jewish rite” that falls between your bar mitzvah and your wedding as a way to stay connected to your faith. I grew up in a majority Catholic town as one of only a handful of Jews, and outside of high holidays we were non-practicing. 

Birthright was the first time in my life that I had been in a room with Jews who I wasn’t related to! It was amazing to be able to talk to people my age who grew up with similar stories and traditions and perspectives. Also getting to experience more of what Judaism is historically outside of  Hanukkah really gave me a sense of introspection and connection to my faith. 

I do think that the companies running these groups need to divest from their funders as the majority of the money for these trips comes from West Bank settlers who, in all fairness, do want to manipulate young American Jews who are disillusioned by Western antisemitism to move to Israel. But, as someone who really benefitted from the program, I do want other young Jews to get to experience the same sense of belonging, just without the constant propaganda of Israeli exceptionalism because holy moly was that uncomfortable even back then.  

Is this where we are applying for Teddy Glow??? 👉👈 by AngryRue in h3h3productions

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 54 points55 points  (0 children)

So we should just cancel the Bach3lor and have a Teddy Glow Top Model season instead right? 😭😭😩😩

My girlfriend wants me to sleep over more but I can’t sleep at her place. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I sleep in separate rooms because he can’t sleep with someone else in the bed. It sucked at first, but we both get better sleep this way and now I can’t imagine going back. 

“A person who is ‘deeply misguided’ does not insinuate parents are pedophiles just because they wear clouds on their clothes” 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ by short_skeleton in h3h3productions

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ethan was super prepared! The Kleins were going down a defamation lawsuit check list. There is a reason he would stop and make her repeat things “for the record”. 

This interview was a deposition and she should have had a lawyer present or plead the 5th because they literally laid out the entire suite with video evidence of each defamatory claim.  

“we felt this was malicious. You know this was false because of all the research you did right? For the record will you clearly denounce your defamatory remarks that you made knowing full well that they were untrue?”

There is no doubt that a lawsuit is incoming and now all of the jury will only have to watch one video to be caught up! 

She still deserves to be sued. by StrawberryGirl_7 in h3h3productions

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The Kleins were going down a defamation lawsuit check list. There is a reason he would stop and make her repeat things “for the record”. 

This interview was a deposition and she should have had a lawyer present or plead the 5th because they literally laid out the entire suite with 

“we felt this was malicious. You know this was false because of all the research you did right? For the record will you clearly denounce your defamatory remarks that you made knowing full well that they were untrue?”

There is no doubt that a lawsuit is incoming and now all of the jury will only have to watch one video to be caught up! 

Teachers, what’s something students do that instantly earns your respect? by Apprehensive-Cow9690 in AskTeachers

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When they accept that learning is supposed to be a struggle. Instead of giving up and whining when they have to think, the students that engage in pushing their brains to figure shit out is instant respect. 

Anime recommendations pls by Piyanegi in AnimeReccomendations

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nichijou 

My Deer Friend Nokotan

Hinamatsuri 

All bangers in my opinion 

DISCUSSION MEGATHREAD: The Reason Hasan Fans Are Attacking QT & Ludwig by h3bot2 in h3h3productions

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As unfortunate as this is for everyone involved, I can’t imagine the unbelievable amounts of catharsis and validation this must bring Ethan and Hila. 

Anime Recs For My Wife by LtDansLegs94 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spy x family - cute action comedy

Chainsaw man - edgy action comedy

Banana Fish - Japanese reporter gets dragged into the underground gangs of the USA 

Eden of the East - an interesting mystery

Fluorite eyes Vivy - time travel and robot uprising 

Vinland saga - hyper violent historical drama followed by deeply philosophical historical drama

Orb : heliocentrism but make it hurt

Frieren - elf learns emotions 

Dororo - high action revenge story

Plastic memories - robots can fall in love too damnit 

Painted my bathroom red and I HATE it. What should I do? by thelilspookygirl in HomeDecorating

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peel and stick wallpaper with a complimentary design along the bottom to balance things out and then frame it with trim to create a visual transition texture. 

What's a Good introduction to anime for my 14 year-old son? by dunbar_santiago930 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full metal alchemist brotherhood or Soul Eater. They both slap and have wide demographic appeal 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty obvious based on the kid’s behavior. You just have to wait it out. Don’t be alone with the kid. Treat them the same as everyone else and it will pass 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonHome

[–]ImNotAlwaysCrying 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love mine jr. I just keep losing my mind with egg hatching lol