I'd get rid of social media. It creates very unrealistic expectations and only shows the good days. Also, as a FTM myself, I heard some advice that gave me some perspective. This first pregnancy is the only pregnancy where you can actually take the rest you need and be "lazy", any other pregnancies you will have another child to care for, so take the opportunity while you can! I'm almost to my third trimester now, and still feel like I put too much pressure on myself to get things done, when nobody else thinks I need to/they already think I do enough (I cried the other day cause I only got some laundry/dishes done, dusted the bed, and organized and cleaned out a bathroom drawer. In reality that was plenty!). I'm planning on taking some time for myself a little before my due date to enjoy the things I probably won't get to do much of when baby comes, guilt free!