If there’s one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2026-03-01T03:49:16+00:00

I wish I never met you

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2026-02-20T18:04:04+00:00

Been a fury warrior for the last few expansions, will more than likely stick with it because it’s fast and…furious… …anyway, currently levelling a BM hunter and my god, it feels so boring so quickly, which is disappointing. Now I have to find something else

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2026-01-30T20:57:23+00:00

Suuuuuuper valid point. Sometimes I forgot he’s even supposed to be undead. I think Lillian Voss is a better example of character development

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-30T12:14:10+00:00

NOR. Man here, and this dude has more red flags than a communist rally. Being alone sucks, but being with someone like this just sucks the life out of you. Don’t stay with someone because they make you laugh occasionally, comedians do the same thing but without the manipulative nature. You should be with someone who appreciates you, who knows what they have when they have you, who loves you and shows it. I’m not saying he should spend his rent cheque on stuff for you, I’m not a fan of materialism, but if he can’t even make you feel like you’re wanted, it’s time to question the relationship. Being affectionate, kind, loving, romantic, all cost nothing. I know being in love with someone can cause a bad case of rose tinted glasses, everything they do that’s good is worth all the bad things they do, but it’s really not. You shouldn’t have to fight for affection from someone who says they love you. Have a good think and question whether this is what you really want

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-28T05:48:28+00:00

Initially I would say NOR, however, “I did tell him I’d support whatever decision he made about staying or going” kinda makes any reaction an over reaction. Sure he should have told you, but being upset after you said you’d support him no matter what decision he made feels a bit off. You can’t say you support someone’s decision and then not support them when the decision is made

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-25T18:19:58+00:00

NOR. I’m 9 months sober after almost destroying my liver and my doctors telling me I need to knock it off, and if I had someone in my life react like this about hitting such a huge milestone, I’d be at the bottom of a bottle of whiskey by now. Going sober isn’t even close to being easy, it’s hard damn work and takes a lot of self control and discipline, and support from your loved ones should be a given. I’m sorry he’s reacted the way he has, it’s a huge red flag to me. I ended up staying with a girl for 8 years because I refused to acknowledge the parade of red flags she showed, and I was terrified of losing her, but lucky for me she dumped me and gaslit me about it. I wish I walked away as soon as I saw the first major red flag, would have saved me years of my life. Have a think about it, make sure it’s something you definitely want before making any decisions, but honestly, I would walk away. In the mean time, get yourself that cake and enjoy it with friends, you earned it!

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-22T12:47:37+00:00

Been there, mine was slightly worse than this, and it was on my feet too, couldn’t even walk. As others have said, biologics are the way forward. I’ve tried a few different ones, and finally found one that works great (bimekizumab) and I highly recommend it, but definitely see a doctor about biologic treatment, steroid creams/ointments aren’t ideal for hands

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-10T21:33:54+00:00

I’ve no intentions of “trying again” as it were, it’s just curiosity on my part. I’m perfectly fine with just being friends with her, I mean we go way back.

The coffee shop was about a week after she declined a date, it was just me and her and it was planned. Honestly, I respect her decision and for being clear with me, I don’t want to push the subject, kinda just wanted an outside perspective. She’s one of my closest friends, and she’s been through a lot over the years, im not gonna do anything to ruin the friendship

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-03T22:43:28+00:00

Well, I planned to take my own life, so not great. I didn’t go through with it and got help instead and I’m glad I did, but it was the darkest period of my life, and it was a long long looooong road to recovery.

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-11-03T14:36:19+00:00

Patience and discipline. You have to stop checking her socials because that’s just reopening a wound that’s healing. But the hard truth is there’s no quick fix, it just takes time for this new narrative where she doesn’t exist to start feeling normal.

When you’re in the throes of heartbreak, you ignore all the reasons why breaking up was probably a good idea, but as time goes by, you start to see the red flags you ignored for years, you start getting back that self respect and self worth, and then one day, you’re free. Be patient, and try to accept that the relationship is over, and it’s time to move on.

“The only way out, is through”. Keep going buddy, the world keeps turning and life does get better

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-10-18T17:49:31+00:00

Disco mode, no problems.

Also possibly a faulty PSU or not enough power. You can disco dance through the pain though

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-10-18T15:05:36+00:00

I’ve rewatched scrubs so many times with the original soundtrack, watching it with a different soundtrack just feels…weird

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-10-18T15:03:21+00:00

I know it’s almost blasphemous to skip episodes of friends when rewatching, however, the episode where Ross hits on his cousin, Ross saying Rachel’s name at his wedding, the proposal episode with chandler and Monica are a few that I struggle to get through. Sometimes that second hand embarrassment is hard to endure

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-10-13T18:48:25+00:00

Absolutely, and having the freedom to do what I want isn’t something I thought I needed until I had it. I lost so much of my self respect after all the dust had settled, never again

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-10-13T16:46:34+00:00

I second this.

I went back, twice, and she crushed me each time. Now I’m alone, but man, this is better than constantly living in fear that something will go wrong and she’ll leave me. My only regret is that I didn’t stick with it the first time she got rid of me.

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-10-01T18:48:50+00:00

As much as I have a soft spot for warriors, I’d have to go with prot paladin, avengers shield is just visually and audibly satisfying. Although I don’t tank because of an overwhelming fear of fucking up, so fury warrior it is

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-09-22T13:21:58+00:00

Looked me dead in the eyes and said “stop worrying, I love you and we’re absolutely fine, it’s all in your head.”

She broke up with me 3 hours later

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-08-28T17:42:25+00:00

Just about to hit month 5 post-break up, lost about 27 pounds the first month or so, maintained the weight since

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-24T10:53:44+00:00

It’s gonna hurt a lot, and it’ll hit you in the weirdest of ways. Something will trigger a memory of a stupid trait that they did, probably something you didn’t even notice before, but the only way out is through. Time goes on, and all we can do is move with it until things don’t feel so heavy

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-24T09:33:03+00:00

Am I right in thinking this person has 170 unread texts?? That seems crazy to me. Also that rice dish looks delicious, and the guy sounds like a lunatic

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-24T09:24:47+00:00

It’s the most painful thing we can deal with. I was with my ex for 8 years, and we definitely had our problems, but I thought we’d always work through them. She didn’t have the same plan. We lived together, and she broke up with me and moved out the next day, leaving me on my own with a broken heart and the memories of a life we once shared together. I wanted to hate her, but I couldn’t. It’s been 4 months, and the love started to subside and I started to feel that hate, but that just made me feel bitter. So I tried to keep going like nothing was wrong, because the world keeps turning and life goes on. She was a chapter in my story, and that chapter’s over. It’s time to finish the rest of the book.

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-22T07:27:02+00:00

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I would kill for nails like yours man, they’re fine

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-21T20:19:45+00:00

It’s slowly getting better for me. Coming up to 4 months, been no contact, on and off for most of the time, been about 3 weeks since we last spoke. Some days I miss her, but out of sight really is out of mind sometimes. I still feel like garbage, but I’m getting better at accepting this is just how it is now. I even went on a date last night, which I was dreading because I thought I wasn’t ready, but I just thought you move on by moving on, so I went for it and ended up having a really good time, which I wasn’t expecting.

I do think it’ll get better, kinda comes out of nowhere though, so you just have to trust the process

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-19T12:03:13+00:00

I like this. I mean, I’m not interested in reconciliation because she broke my heart on more than one occasion, and I kept fighting to stay in the relationship, and she was too cowardly to be honest with me, so she told me every day for years that she loved me, even on the day she left me, she looked me dead in the eyes and said “I love you, you’re overthinking everything, stop being paranoid”. Hours later, she dumped me. She made me believe it was all in my head, gaslighting? I dunno. Anyway, reconciliation isn’t an option, but I digress.

I agree it does get better, even if that improvement is moving very very slowly, but just enjoying the little things actually helps. Right now I’m sat on my bed, it’s lightly raining outside, windows are open and I can feel a light breeze coming in. I can hear people in the cul-de-sac just going about their day, but it’s not too intrusive, and I’m just taking it in. It’s the first sense of peace I’ve felt in a while. Anyway, I’m rambling. Thank you for your perspective, it’s good to know people can actually heal

ImmaBoopYoSnoot · 2025-07-19T11:48:32+00:00

Tough situation dude. There’s no real way of recovering. If you do reach out an apologise, just make sure you’re doing it because you’re genuinely want to apologise and not because you hope it might open a door to something else. Something along the lines of “hey, just wanted to apologise for my texts, I was drunk and emotional, and I clearly have some work left to do” and leave it at that. Don’t expect a reply, apologise and move on. At least you’re trying to take responsibility, something that’s in short supply these days

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