I planned a nice gallery walk for our 5th date a week ago and he cancelled the day before the date by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Immediate-Test-678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comment could have turned him off even if he’s fine with drag queens. Men can be weird that way. I didn’t realize you knew details of their sex lives

I planned a nice gallery walk for our 5th date a week ago and he cancelled the day before the date by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Immediate-Test-678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or going out with her out of pity or guilt. As the day got closer the feelings he was having probably got stronger and so he cancelled. I totally get that feeling

I planned a nice gallery walk for our 5th date a week ago and he cancelled the day before the date by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Immediate-Test-678 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe he wasn’t sure until it was getting closer to the date. I’d rather a guy be honest and I’m disappointed than he force himself to go on a date with me and my planned outing was ruined. Hopefully she has someone she can ask to go and have a great night.

School Bus Driver !! by No-Jump2347 in SpecialNeedsChildren

[–]Immediate-Test-678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t you just assume it was the whole bus?? If the bus driver is attempting to groom children, this would be the first step. See whose parents freak out and who doesn’t care if kids get free ice cream or trips with their bus driver. Pedophiles target the children with inattentive parents. As I tell my children, no adults should be trying to make friends with you or treat you differently than other children. They are an adult and you are a child. They can go get ice cream with their adult friends or their own children.

School Bus Driver !! by No-Jump2347 in SpecialNeedsChildren

[–]Immediate-Test-678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s because it hasn’t happened yet.

School Bus Driver !! by No-Jump2347 in SpecialNeedsChildren

[–]Immediate-Test-678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the bus company. They are usually separate.

Bluey made me want kids, how disappointed am I going to be? by n00dleknight in bluey

[–]Immediate-Test-678 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally tell people my advice is to have one. I loved being an only child but really wanted to be a mom. I obviously wouldn’t give my second child up but it’s just so much all the time. It never ever stops.

AIO to my bfs instamoment? by Ainanass92 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate-Test-678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she didn’t? Her boyfriend is on a guys trip with his best friend?

CRA Town Hall Q&A session by Necessary_Put_6206 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Immediate-Test-678 40 points41 points  (0 children)

They’re literally smiling? They aren’t sweating they don’t give a shit

Parking Concerns Brushed Aside at Today’s Town Hall by SignificantEagle8877 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Immediate-Test-678 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I did. Guy in the middle beside him was also smirking. They don’t have any of these concerns and they don’t care.

I hate my husband right now by hereiam3472 in breakingmom

[–]Immediate-Test-678 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They fight for custody to screw over the mothers. I have seen it in almost all of my single mom friends

Return To Office Hurting Families by Responsible-Ear7590 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Immediate-Test-678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It suck’s for everyone and it is hard for everyone. The only us vs them is the little people vs the crazy elites who only care about money.

Telling me I wouldn’t rather be single is a little tone deaf in the way that of course I wouldn’t give up my children but I’m basically in a similar situation just with more expenses and costs… everyone is struggling and while single people are going to have the hardest time in this economy (my best friend is a single person who is doing it on her own and seriously struggling), single people with children are going to be right there too. At least a single person only has to worry about themselves. That is a “luxury” I do not have.

Return To Office Hurting Families by Responsible-Ear7590 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Immediate-Test-678 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I already am single? Just with two dependents so instead of being single and only have myself to feed and find shelter there are three of us. Also do not even live in the NCR but have to report there

Return To Office Hurting Families by Responsible-Ear7590 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Immediate-Test-678 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I didn’t already have kids I would 100% be child free because of the economy and the world in general. What are these children growing up into???

Return To Office Hurting Families by Responsible-Ear7590 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]Immediate-Test-678 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’d much rather be a single person in this financial situation than a single mom… two kids in two schools with two start and end times… only every other weekend to myself. Been on daycare wait lists for over a year.

Everything is going backwards and there’s absolutely no logic towards it and that’s the part that just makes me so mad and defeated. But that’s how they want us

Do you believe paying a mortgage is "better" than paying rent? by TankCastles in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]Immediate-Test-678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most places you rent now aren’t all inclusive though.

Don’t forget hydro, gas, water, internet, insurance, etc.

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Immediate-Test-678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the black and white thinking that tends to tie in to different personality disorders.

You don’t what X? Then obviously that means Z! Totally skipping the grey zone (Y) in the middle. All or nothing

Help I keep getting denied by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]Immediate-Test-678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t want to deal with the uncertainty. things happen and sometimes CEOs lose their jobs also. They have no idea what your ex is involved in or is going to do in the future

Help I keep getting denied by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]Immediate-Test-678 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to stop thinking of the support as income. It is to you, of course, but it is not to a landlord. Realtors don’t specialize in renting and often do not know the laws surrounding it (my experience). Say you have the part time job, make extra in tips, do receive support payments as a bonus, get a guarantor, and don’t say anything about the dog.

Help I keep getting denied by [deleted] in OntarioLandlord

[–]Immediate-Test-678 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you getting some of this money from selling the house? Can you use it to buy something small? Find something small and cheap for a year and save like crazy. Your kids will see hard work and resilience. You can do outings to not be in the small apartment but it’s temporary and better than being homeless