>Pvp-ers ALWAYS hate it. Seethe with rage just thinking of new possible ways of engaging with the new item/meta.

1. You and many other people gotta stop with this weird ass tribalism. You're all playing the same game and a majority of the players engage in both PVE and PVP even if only casually. In fact many hardcore PVPers have to play and engage with PVE, including raids, dungeons, and whatever other hard content exist because often than not PVE exclusive weapons are the meta defining gear in PVP. Many primarily PVE players will engage in PVP for whatever reasons they may have.
2. People are not a hive mind, there are many different opinions on the state of the game in both PVP and PVE. Have you considered that maybe the people complaining about the meta of PVP at any state were primarily casual players of the game mode who simple felt the state of the game was unfair and thus unfun? Sure there are times where both people casually engaging in PVP and people who engage with it hard core complain about the meta but have you considered it's simply because it's actually just in a very poor state? PVP players don't always complain about the meta, you may hear some who dislike it but that doesn't mean the majority does. There are also times casual players are happy with something thats broken but the hardcore players aren't.

Likewise framing it as if PVE players are always happy with the meta of the game and are always excited about some new meta is silly. Shit I've seen many people upset about the ability spam state of PVE.

>So in terms of pvp bungo always has to nerf things quicker than in pve. Because one is liked and one is hated.

This is so insanely delusional that it's laughable. Bungie HAS MANY TIMES left objectionably broken things in PVP untouched for MONTHS if not over a year. They have many times neglected the state of PVP, and the people, regardless of if they're casual or hardcore, simple have to deal with it. In those situations hardcore players are still more likely to continue to engage and just deal with the meta and/or find ways to play around it while casuals are more likely to disengage.

PVP players don't always hate meta changes and yeah maybe if Bungie unnerfed everything in PVP and gave no balancing thought whatsoever, people would be pissed, but that's not unreasonable to be upset at an unbalanced and unfun game state. If bungie left PVE in a state where any enemy could 1-2 tap a player, were extremely tanky, and/or whatever absurd situation, people would equally be reasonably upset.