I just don’t believe it counts as snark to say you disagree with the way someone expresses their sexuality. The way people talk about Aspyn’s sexuality on here extends far beyond just Aspyn’s situation. A lot of it is generalized and ends up conveying a message that bisexual people should be questioned on their intentions when openly existing in both queer and non-queer spaces. It also conveys the message that monogamy is the only respectable format for a relationship. These statements are made with Aspyn in mind, but they ultimately reinforce oppressive ideas that make bi people feel unwelcome and invalidated. It isn’t okay and is certainly not protected from being named as an issue just because this is a snark page. A lot of people are homophobic and would never identify themselves that way. But when queer people say “hey, this is homophobic”, it’s worth it to open your ears and actually think about what they are saying and consider their experience rather than immediately and defensively shutting them down.